It frustrates me that nothing exciting like dating or having relationships can't probably happen to me?

[Ilovegoingthere]

Because I'm rated to be way way way under a 0 on the beauty scale physically or a 1 on the beauty scale phy as ically.

 

[Alpha13SC]

Everybody starts from a point. Chances are that you're just subestimate yourself. Nowadays everybody can look good with effort. I'll give my example.
1. Skin routine
2. Going to gym(Right now I think I'm going 5-6 times per week, depends if I want to take a pause or not). Working out hard and intense. Meal prep, money on quality food and suppliments, cut out alcohol, sweets and processed foods almost entirely. No smoking. Gym locked because of lockdown? Calisthenics and home workout(push ups, pull ups, squats, dips, etc)
3. Putting more time into fashion. Spending more time when I want to buy clothes, and going to tailor if I must modify something.
4. Getting a good paid job/getting more income sources.
5. Wanted to buy something value for me. Start working more, from 10 am to 10 pm, with 3 income sources.

The chances are that you're not bad looking, you're just lazy. Bad teeth? Dent braces. Yellow teeth? Whitening. Bad clothes? Buy good ones and take somebody with you to give you a honest oppinion. Bad haircut? Get to a salon, get a good haircut. You want a beard but can't grow one? Minoxidil. Dad bod or something? Go to gym. Nose or ears too big? Get a surgery. No money? Put effort into learning something, get good at what you're doing and get paid more. You don't know how to ask for a raise? Go to youtube and seek some resources about this.

Take some responsability and have a vision about your best version of yourself. Frustration is good. It means you have the energy to change something. But don't remain frustrated. Be motivated. Otherwise, if you would just accept the comfort of your this version of yourself, you wouldn't improve.

 

[Toby2030]

Not gonna lie, I used to be like you when I started out. I was tired of being skinny, tired of my skin and tired of not being able to get the dating life I wanted. What I realized is that if I don't do something, I will continue to be unhappy about these parts of my life for the rest of my life. This can sound very harsh but if you don't get your ass up, start respecting yourself, and build habits that will push you in the right direction, you will NEVER change.

Set long term goals years in the future of the ideal you. Set mile points to keep you on track, and create a weekly schedule every sunday for the future week that you just have to follow in order to reach your goals.

 

[ulrich]

Unless you have some kind of physical deformity, you can always get to at least a 7-8 by fixing your appearance and presence.

Almost no man is totally fucked up.

 

[Will_V]

Yeah just start taking action and stop listening to your negative thoughts.

 

[Skills]

Because I'm rated to be way way way under a 0 on the beauty scale physically or a 1 on the beauty scale phy as ically.

stop consuming black pill content...

 

[Ilovegoingthere]

Unless you have some kind of physical deformity, you can always get to at least a 7-8 by fixing your appearance and presence.

Almost no man is totally fucked up.

I'm a woman.

Everybody starts from a point. Chances are that you're just subestimate yourself. Nowadays everybody can look good with effort. I'll give my example.
1. Skin routine
2. Going to gym(Right now I think I'm going 5-6 times per week, depends if I want to take a pause or not). Working out hard and intense. Meal prep, money on quality food and suppliments, cut out alcohol, sweets and processed foods almost entirely. No smoking. Gym locked because of lockdown? Calisthenics and home workout(push ups, pull ups, squats, dips, etc)
3. Putting more time into fashion. Spending more time when I want to buy clothes, and going to tailor if I must modify something.
4. Getting a good paid job/getting more income sources.
5. Wanted to buy something value for me. Start working more, from 10 am to 10 pm, with 3 income sources.

The chances are that you're not bad looking, you're just lazy. Bad teeth? Dent braces. Yellow teeth? Whitening. Bad clothes? Buy good ones and take somebody with you to give you a honest oppinion. Bad haircut? Get to a salon, get a good haircut. You want a beard but can't grow one? Minoxidil. Dad bod or something? Go to gym. Nose or ears too big? Get a surgery. No money? Put effort into learning something, get good at what you're doing and get paid more. You don't know how to ask for a raise? Go to youtube and seek some resources about this.

Take some responsability and have a vision about your best version of yourself. Frustration is good. It means you have the energy to change something. But don't remain frustrated. Be motivated. Otherwise, if you would just accept the comfort of your this version of yourself, you wouldn't improve.

What if surgery will mess up your face?

 

[Alpha13SC]

I'm a woman.

What if surgery will mess up your face?

You choose a doctor who you know will do a good job. The truth is that nothing is really safe to do. I also have a planned surgery. There are some risks, but I trust my doctor.

If you're a woman, you can improve much more than a man. Make up, fillers, gym can give you a good body, maybe better than most of the girls you see on street. You just need consistency, good food and a good personal trainer.

Nowadays, skin, fashion and gym can improve some much somebody s dating life, especially women.

 

[ulrich]

I'm a woman.

So what is exactly the problem?
You don’t know how to use make up? Have weird eyes or something?

 

[Starboy]

If you are a woman and not a man trolling us for lols
1. Why post about it on a men's dating blog
2. Why not provide more details and context about yourself and why you believe you will never experience any kind of intimacy? Your past experiences with men,how you've been treated etc.

If you're seeking help on how to attract a man @Vision is a woman's dating coach he's your best bet.

 

[Vision]

I'm a woman.

If you want to join a community geared towards women, we have a large, women's dating community here...

Log into Facebook

Log into Facebook to start sharing and connecting with your friends, family, and people you know.

www.facebook.com

You can get lots of feedback and advice there, from women, for women, and about the challenges women have and how to overcome them.

 

[Ilovegoingthere]

If you want to join a community geared towards women, we have a large, women's dating community here...

Log into Facebook

Log into Facebook to start sharing and connecting with your friends, family, and people you know.

www.facebook.com

You can get lots of feedback and advice there, from women, for women, and about the challenges women have and how to overcome them.

Ok.

So what is exactly the problem?
You don’t know how to use make up? Have weird eyes or something?

I probably can't get men.

 

[ulrich]

I probably can't get men.

Why? Be more specific

 

[Ilovegoingthere]

Why? Be more specific

They don't ask me out or approach me.

 

[ulrich]

They don't ask me out or approach me.

And why do you think is that?

 

[Ilovegoingthere]

And why do you think is that?

I'm scared it might be because of my looks.

 

[POB]

To the OP: we simply cannot help you here. Not that we don't want to, but you are asking welders to help you with fishing.

Sure, some things in dating overlap for both sexes (appeareance, presence, social habilities and so on) but your challenges in dating/relationship are very very different than a man's, even if you are trying to get girls.

Vision is a pro and has enough experience with the subject to help you out, so I would DM him and follow his FB group.

Best of luck!

 

[Ilovegoingthere]

To the OP: we simply cannot help you here. Not that we don't, but you are asking welders to help you with fishing.

Sure, some things in dating overlap for both sexes (appeareance, presence, social habilities and so on) but your challenges in dating/relationship are very very different than a man's, even if you are trying to get girls.

Vision is a pro and has enough experience with the subject to help you out, so I would DM him and follow his FB group.

Best of luck!

It frustrates me that it might not happen because you said best of luck.

 

[foggy]

you will experience dating and relationships. and i can tell you exactly why.

 

[ulrich]

I'm scared it might be because of my looks.

Please be more specific and tell me all the details. I’m really trying to help here but if I have to ask five times it gets really boring.