It is so OVER! (London subreddit thread with white Knight interfering in daygame approach)

[average_daygamer]

When I say that, I mean your overall strategy to success with women.

You've been banging your head against the wall for seven years.

Your attitude is completely wrong.

You're saying things like " Besides, I don't have anything to offer a 21 year old girl."
and "We need the girl, hence why we are approaching her. If you don't approach, you don't get laid, so you can't dial down the "Need" element."

You've been at this for 7 YEARS and you still haven't internalized a healthy mindset that we're introduced to in pick up kindergarten.

What kind of pick up material have you been digesting?

It sounds like you're in hell. And if you keep on doing the same thing, and you expect different results, well...

"I don't see attitude as being a block. I see this process as sickeningly frustrating. Once in a blue moon, I get a phone number where the girl doesn't even so much as reply."

Do you not see the irony of the strings of sentences you weaved together right there?

Mr Variety

Yeah I know the spiel. I am the prize, blah blah blah. But the reality is much different. As for pickup material I consume, everything on youtube related to the actual art of daytime approach. A lot of the higher concePTs simply fly over my head, though. I am more into the technique of how you actually stop the girl and a system of what to say to the girl.

As for the sentence, yes now you have pointed it out, it does sound ironic. But it is true. The outcome is a flaky phone number once in a blue moon which therefore leads to my attitude.

I would have thought I could at least get laid with a girl.

Yes it does sound like a kind of hell.

 

[MrVariety]

Yeah I know the spiel. I am the prize, blah blah blah. But the reality is much different.

Right. So you believe:
1) You have no value to give to a girl
2) You need girls

The reason why you're constantly failing is not because of any particular opener - or conversation skill - or because you need to learn how to approach more with more boldness and courage.

The reason you're failing is because you're basically an energy vampire.
You're going out to basically suck good energy out of other people so you can fill your own void.

Until you've fixed this fundamental problem, you're not going anywhere. You're going to be stuck in this hellish situation no matter how many approaches you clock in.

Any techniques, systems or other pick up related tips is of absolutely no use to you.

You have to do three things:
1) Cultivate parts of yourself that makes you able to provide value to others.
2) You have to fill your void that makes you believe you need a girl.
3) Change attitude from taking to giving.

You'll probably rebuke me saying "But there's nothing in me that's valuable, I'm fundamentally corrupt."

It's not true.

A lot of people manage to tune into the right mindset by having women carve out their negativity through tons of exposure. This is why pick up teachers recommend mass approaching. You're a very hard case and you need a different strategy. There's nothing you gain from approaching people from a vampire mindset.

Every single person has the capacity to bring value to others. No exceptions.

I mean you could continue to try to "get" sex for the next years or decade and just rot in misery and rejection.

Or you forget about banging hot blondes for a moment and think how you can become a person that has a base from which you can give.

Mr Variety