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I ALMOST made this happen before the New Year, which was my goal at the time, but this happened yesterday, so I feel like I was close enough. I'm putting some background info so if you want to skip that just head to "The Show".
A little background, I met this blonde chick at my bestfriend's girlfriend's birthday party last Wednesday. We'll call her BlondeJewGirl (crude name, I know). She was pretty cute and I was testing her reaction to me a little bit by talking to her and getting some compliance but I wasn't getting anything, so I threw her at my friend, Let's call him WittyKid. She was really cute and had a nice ass so I thought he'd at least be a little interested. We find out we're going to the same show on Friday. I tell them, "YEAH! You should grab each other's numbers! We can meet up!" They talk and exchange numbers. Having done my job, I switch targets to this other girl. Let's call her BlondeBangs. This girl I've met before and hung out with a few times, but nothing happened. I never even kissed her. Everyone gets tired and some people left the party. BlondeBangs, BlondeJewGirl, myself and a few others stay, but my friend WittyKid leaves, even though I begged him to stay. He wanted me to walk him home but I denied it. He lived literally 2 blocks away so I wasn't too excited about walking two blocks, losing momentum, then coming back. He eventually leaves and I end up making out with BlondeBangs. Hopefully I'll have a LR about her coming up this week
The Show
Fast forward to Friday, I pregame at WittyKid's place. He tells me BlondeJewGirl has been texting him, I think it's a good sign for him. We head to the show, get there, and eventually find their group. It's BlondeJewGirl, this really short girl, like 4'11", a really tall gay guy with blonde hair, another good looking guy (he ended up being gay), and BlondeJewGirl's drunk-off-his-ass ex-boyfriend. Apparently he helped them out with alcohol for the show. He was now following them around like a lost puppy dog. I asked my friend WittyKid if he wanted to get rid of him, he said no, sadly.
I target the short 4'11" girl, we'll call her, BrunetteSmurff. We start walking around, watching the show and switching stages around. I decide to run as little verbal game as possible and just joke with WittyKid, be next to her and make comments here and there. As we're moving, BrunetteSmurff sticks her tongue out and shows me that it's blue. I ask her why, she says "She blew a smurff". I decide I like her humor. I tell her I ate out a smurff earlier today. WittyKid comes in confused and asks "WHAt?!" We both start laughing.
As the night goes on I form a plan in my head. I decide I'll get the group comfortable with me and WittyKid, and we'll go back to their hotel later. I've never pulled alone from a show - it's never been my idea - and I wanted to try it. Me and BrunetteSmurf eventually start holding hands as we're switching stages and moving around the show. As it gets later, She holds my hand closer to her body, almost rubbing her butt. This is almost always a good sign. Last time I went back to a hotel and had a threesome was when a girl started rubbing my hand near her crotch when I was leading her back to our car. I knew it was on but just took it slow. I told myself, "Just exist here with her and everything will be fine."
We got to a new stage and started dancing. She'd grab my hands and I moved them around her body a bit, but I didn't finger her or anything because we were still near all of her friends. At this point, my friend had all but given up on BlondeJewGirl, as her ex was still there following us and me or him couldn't think of a way to make it work.
The show ends, and we start leaving it. As we get outside, I know this is when I need to make the move and keep things going. I tell WittyKid - within earshot - that Uber prices are gonna' be insane and that we should wait a while. It's cold as shit outside. I lean over to BrunetteSmurf and ask her if we can chill at their hotel for a bit so prices can go down. She tells me "yeah." SIIIICK!
We get to the hotel, and BlondeJewGirl walks her boyfriend to an uber. I think this is game set match. Unfortunately, it's me, WittyKid, BlondeJewGirl, the gay blonde guy from earlier and the other gay guy, with BrunetteSmurf, all on the same bed in the hotel room. None of them seem like they're leaving anytime soon. WittyKid starts to lose steam and get tired. My brain won't work and I can't figure out how I could pull her anywhere. I thought about the hotel bathroom and the hallway but decided against it. Unable to think of a plan, I touch her a little bit, grab her number, and me and WittyKid leave. I pass out at his house.
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The next day is New Years. I text her telling her my name. She tells me she had fun. I leave it at that for now, and go home, get changed and get ready for my plans for tonight. I head to a friends house, and it's his girlfriend's birthday. We get dinner and hang out. We tried to party but the parties were really vague and we couldn't get to any. I took a few snapchats and BrunetteSmurf replies to my story. I try and get her out that night but she passed out.
I eventually head home and pass out. It was a good night even if I didn't get laid. I wake up, chill for a bit, then text her. This may seem "needy", but I knew I needed to move semi-quickly because the attraction I got from a show could fade rather quickly. It's not usually my style to get a number from a show, but I decided to anyways. It's not like I didn't even try to slay that night, I couldn't. I took the next best option. That's my thought on numbers at night. If you just can't smash, then get the number close.
She texts back, I tell her we should chill. She says she's eating dinner with family. I tell her I'm going to the gym and I'll text her after I get done. I end up going to the gym for around 2 hours, so I figure it's a good time to text her. I went with one of my friends and we went to get some food. I text her:
Me: Hey, done eating?
Her:No lol just got done.
I didn't quite understand what that meant so I didn't text her back. An hour later she sends me:
Her: Yeah haha
Cool. I tell her we should meet up and get ice cream. I have literally $0. I'm broke. I ask her if she has a car. She does. I tell her she should come get me. She asks for my address. Awesome.
A friend of mine comes to drop off my pipe. I grab it and talk with him and his girl for a little bit. She gets there and I tell them peace and head to her car.
At this point, I have no idea how I'm going to do this. My mom is home, none of my friends would let me use their place today most likely, and I didn't think her place was an option. Nevertheless I went ahead with a makeshift plan. I feel like I lead best when I need to lead in the moment, not when I've made a complex plan and have to lead at a certain part of it.
She asks where to get ice cream, I tell her to look it up for us, and says McDonalds is right across the street. I laugh and say sure. We go to McDonalds. Fucking McDonalds, I hate McDonalds. We walk in, and I make up that I'm not feeling icecream anymore. She gets hers and we sit down for a bit. I take bites of her icecream occasionally. This girl talks A LOT. I'm not saying much at all, just relating to her, and we're trading different stories. Her eye contact is shy. We joke that she has a dead body in her trunk. I ask if I can see it. Most of my conversations are like this, about nothing with a little real shit sprinkled in. Unfortunately, this is one of those times where I didn't say almost anything real.
We head out and I think she tried to pull me back to my own place. She tried to drive me home, I just tell her to drive to a park. We get there and talk. I always build more comfort than I need to. I probably could've kissed her as we pulled up but ended up talking for an hour, arm wrestling, thumb wrestling, before I spontaneous kiss her. She's super into it and we makeout for a bit. I rub her from outside of her jeans. She won't let me go inside of her pants yet. I pull her on top of me and pull her sweater off. More making out, I get her bra off and suck on her nipples. She starts moaning. I push her off of me and back into her own seat. I tell her to push her seat back. She does and I get on top of her.
She tells me, "We should wait", "I want to do this next time," Everytime I laugh at her. She tells me she's super horny. I can see her struggling to keep herself together, I love that shit. I get under her pants and start fingering her. She starts moaning, and this goes on for a little bit. She asks me, "If I let you, will you still talk to me?" This made me really confused. Why would I fuck a girl if I didn't want to keep talking to her? I've never fucked an uggo or a fatty or anything so I genuinely got confused and told her, " I don't have sex with people I don't like". This seemed to satisfy her, and I pulled her on top of me. "She asked me if I lived alone, I said no. Knowing what she meant, I ask her about her house. She shook her head. We make out a little more and she asks me, "Not even if we go in your room?" I told her no. Little secret, I don't even have my own room atm haha. I kept up our horny vibe and eventually she went down on me and then we fucked.
Afterwards she drove me home. Before we left the park, she told me she had never done that before. I ask her, "done what?" She tells me have sex the first night. At this I smiled. At stop lights, I'd randomly kiss her. She said she got butterflies in her stomach every time. I thought that was really weird seeing as we already had sex. She got to my house, I kissed her one more time then told her to text me when she gets home. I do this because recently I've been seeing girls who live like 30+ minutes away, and where I live it's kinda' cold and snowy sometimes, not to mention that we have a high amount of accidents in my state, so I genuinely care that my friends and girls I see get home safely. Also, it gets investment from the girl if you just want to see it that way.
Lessons:
1)Don't always fuck the first girl you see, she probably has friends.
2)For me, a big part of my mental game is knowing that because I'm a guy and that I'm with the girl, I'm attractive. This is part of me practicing my vibe.
3)Logistics don't mean shit. She drove a fuckin' tiny hatchback and I made it work. I mean I'm not super tall, but always be thinking about how to get around things like this.
4)Lead for small things.
Hope you guys enjoyed, now that I look back this seems kind of long haha.
Jake.
A little background, I met this blonde chick at my bestfriend's girlfriend's birthday party last Wednesday. We'll call her BlondeJewGirl (crude name, I know). She was pretty cute and I was testing her reaction to me a little bit by talking to her and getting some compliance but I wasn't getting anything, so I threw her at my friend, Let's call him WittyKid. She was really cute and had a nice ass so I thought he'd at least be a little interested. We find out we're going to the same show on Friday. I tell them, "YEAH! You should grab each other's numbers! We can meet up!" They talk and exchange numbers. Having done my job, I switch targets to this other girl. Let's call her BlondeBangs. This girl I've met before and hung out with a few times, but nothing happened. I never even kissed her. Everyone gets tired and some people left the party. BlondeBangs, BlondeJewGirl, myself and a few others stay, but my friend WittyKid leaves, even though I begged him to stay. He wanted me to walk him home but I denied it. He lived literally 2 blocks away so I wasn't too excited about walking two blocks, losing momentum, then coming back. He eventually leaves and I end up making out with BlondeBangs. Hopefully I'll have a LR about her coming up this week
The Show
Fast forward to Friday, I pregame at WittyKid's place. He tells me BlondeJewGirl has been texting him, I think it's a good sign for him. We head to the show, get there, and eventually find their group. It's BlondeJewGirl, this really short girl, like 4'11", a really tall gay guy with blonde hair, another good looking guy (he ended up being gay), and BlondeJewGirl's drunk-off-his-ass ex-boyfriend. Apparently he helped them out with alcohol for the show. He was now following them around like a lost puppy dog. I asked my friend WittyKid if he wanted to get rid of him, he said no, sadly.
I target the short 4'11" girl, we'll call her, BrunetteSmurff. We start walking around, watching the show and switching stages around. I decide to run as little verbal game as possible and just joke with WittyKid, be next to her and make comments here and there. As we're moving, BrunetteSmurff sticks her tongue out and shows me that it's blue. I ask her why, she says "She blew a smurff". I decide I like her humor. I tell her I ate out a smurff earlier today. WittyKid comes in confused and asks "WHAt?!" We both start laughing.
As the night goes on I form a plan in my head. I decide I'll get the group comfortable with me and WittyKid, and we'll go back to their hotel later. I've never pulled alone from a show - it's never been my idea - and I wanted to try it. Me and BrunetteSmurf eventually start holding hands as we're switching stages and moving around the show. As it gets later, She holds my hand closer to her body, almost rubbing her butt. This is almost always a good sign. Last time I went back to a hotel and had a threesome was when a girl started rubbing my hand near her crotch when I was leading her back to our car. I knew it was on but just took it slow. I told myself, "Just exist here with her and everything will be fine."
We got to a new stage and started dancing. She'd grab my hands and I moved them around her body a bit, but I didn't finger her or anything because we were still near all of her friends. At this point, my friend had all but given up on BlondeJewGirl, as her ex was still there following us and me or him couldn't think of a way to make it work.
The show ends, and we start leaving it. As we get outside, I know this is when I need to make the move and keep things going. I tell WittyKid - within earshot - that Uber prices are gonna' be insane and that we should wait a while. It's cold as shit outside. I lean over to BrunetteSmurf and ask her if we can chill at their hotel for a bit so prices can go down. She tells me "yeah." SIIIICK!
We get to the hotel, and BlondeJewGirl walks her boyfriend to an uber. I think this is game set match. Unfortunately, it's me, WittyKid, BlondeJewGirl, the gay blonde guy from earlier and the other gay guy, with BrunetteSmurf, all on the same bed in the hotel room. None of them seem like they're leaving anytime soon. WittyKid starts to lose steam and get tired. My brain won't work and I can't figure out how I could pull her anywhere. I thought about the hotel bathroom and the hallway but decided against it. Unable to think of a plan, I touch her a little bit, grab her number, and me and WittyKid leave. I pass out at his house.
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The next day is New Years. I text her telling her my name. She tells me she had fun. I leave it at that for now, and go home, get changed and get ready for my plans for tonight. I head to a friends house, and it's his girlfriend's birthday. We get dinner and hang out. We tried to party but the parties were really vague and we couldn't get to any. I took a few snapchats and BrunetteSmurf replies to my story. I try and get her out that night but she passed out.
I eventually head home and pass out. It was a good night even if I didn't get laid. I wake up, chill for a bit, then text her. This may seem "needy", but I knew I needed to move semi-quickly because the attraction I got from a show could fade rather quickly. It's not usually my style to get a number from a show, but I decided to anyways. It's not like I didn't even try to slay that night, I couldn't. I took the next best option. That's my thought on numbers at night. If you just can't smash, then get the number close.
She texts back, I tell her we should chill. She says she's eating dinner with family. I tell her I'm going to the gym and I'll text her after I get done. I end up going to the gym for around 2 hours, so I figure it's a good time to text her. I went with one of my friends and we went to get some food. I text her:
Me: Hey, done eating?
Her:No lol just got done.
I didn't quite understand what that meant so I didn't text her back. An hour later she sends me:
Her: Yeah haha
Cool. I tell her we should meet up and get ice cream. I have literally $0. I'm broke. I ask her if she has a car. She does. I tell her she should come get me. She asks for my address. Awesome.
A friend of mine comes to drop off my pipe. I grab it and talk with him and his girl for a little bit. She gets there and I tell them peace and head to her car.
At this point, I have no idea how I'm going to do this. My mom is home, none of my friends would let me use their place today most likely, and I didn't think her place was an option. Nevertheless I went ahead with a makeshift plan. I feel like I lead best when I need to lead in the moment, not when I've made a complex plan and have to lead at a certain part of it.
She asks where to get ice cream, I tell her to look it up for us, and says McDonalds is right across the street. I laugh and say sure. We go to McDonalds. Fucking McDonalds, I hate McDonalds. We walk in, and I make up that I'm not feeling icecream anymore. She gets hers and we sit down for a bit. I take bites of her icecream occasionally. This girl talks A LOT. I'm not saying much at all, just relating to her, and we're trading different stories. Her eye contact is shy. We joke that she has a dead body in her trunk. I ask if I can see it. Most of my conversations are like this, about nothing with a little real shit sprinkled in. Unfortunately, this is one of those times where I didn't say almost anything real.
We head out and I think she tried to pull me back to my own place. She tried to drive me home, I just tell her to drive to a park. We get there and talk. I always build more comfort than I need to. I probably could've kissed her as we pulled up but ended up talking for an hour, arm wrestling, thumb wrestling, before I spontaneous kiss her. She's super into it and we makeout for a bit. I rub her from outside of her jeans. She won't let me go inside of her pants yet. I pull her on top of me and pull her sweater off. More making out, I get her bra off and suck on her nipples. She starts moaning. I push her off of me and back into her own seat. I tell her to push her seat back. She does and I get on top of her.
She tells me, "We should wait", "I want to do this next time," Everytime I laugh at her. She tells me she's super horny. I can see her struggling to keep herself together, I love that shit. I get under her pants and start fingering her. She starts moaning, and this goes on for a little bit. She asks me, "If I let you, will you still talk to me?" This made me really confused. Why would I fuck a girl if I didn't want to keep talking to her? I've never fucked an uggo or a fatty or anything so I genuinely got confused and told her, " I don't have sex with people I don't like". This seemed to satisfy her, and I pulled her on top of me. "She asked me if I lived alone, I said no. Knowing what she meant, I ask her about her house. She shook her head. We make out a little more and she asks me, "Not even if we go in your room?" I told her no. Little secret, I don't even have my own room atm haha. I kept up our horny vibe and eventually she went down on me and then we fucked.
Afterwards she drove me home. Before we left the park, she told me she had never done that before. I ask her, "done what?" She tells me have sex the first night. At this I smiled. At stop lights, I'd randomly kiss her. She said she got butterflies in her stomach every time. I thought that was really weird seeing as we already had sex. She got to my house, I kissed her one more time then told her to text me when she gets home. I do this because recently I've been seeing girls who live like 30+ minutes away, and where I live it's kinda' cold and snowy sometimes, not to mention that we have a high amount of accidents in my state, so I genuinely care that my friends and girls I see get home safely. Also, it gets investment from the girl if you just want to see it that way.
Lessons:
1)Don't always fuck the first girl you see, she probably has friends.
2)For me, a big part of my mental game is knowing that because I'm a guy and that I'm with the girl, I'm attractive. This is part of me practicing my vibe.
3)Logistics don't mean shit. She drove a fuckin' tiny hatchback and I made it work. I mean I'm not super tall, but always be thinking about how to get around things like this.
4)Lead for small things.
Hope you guys enjoyed, now that I look back this seems kind of long haha.
Jake.
