i went to jakarta because i had enough of the city im living in the middle east. ive read good things about it so i gave it a try. well the city itself is a cheap chinese copy of a western metropolis with terrible food and undrinkable water, prices are on par with quite a few developed counties so its just impossible to live there. i cut my trip short but nevertheless i have quite a few valuable experiences and a great bang with one of the hottest bodies ive ever been with.
general things
- ive visited two professional places everybody was raving about but if you are a white guy a) you really dont need to go to these places b) the hottest girls are in bars/clubs, plazas and online -- in that order and the foreigner factor is really significant
- i do think that this is really a place where people can get quality girls with smoking hot body. they are unbelievably dirty too and do things i thought possible only in porn movies. without getting into details ive been with 2 indonesian girls in my life, one here where i am now and one in jakarta and both of them were comfortable doing things a western girl would do only with celebrities.
- i had the exact same conversations with girls online as in any other major cities in the world ive done anything girl-related. those online have excellent command of english, have great jobs and earn good money (by local standards) and live on their own -- they are as picky as their western counterparts if not more. i think i was lucky with my girl she must have been on a dry spell otherwise its the same painful stuff as anywhere. this is a pattern ive seen in any other cities including london, zurich, vienna, budapest, etc etc etc
- there are loads of virgins who are curious but at the end you just end up with a useless girl in your bedroom. i had a virgin over at my place and i felt it was too much of a trouble and after some half-assed attempt to at least do something i rather sent her home. always ask if the girl is a virgin beforehand in this part of the world, trust me the last thing you want in your bedroom is them if you are just passing by.
- every second girl wears fake tooth braces, they almost all drink beer (!?!?!?!), they are obsessed about anything thats GERMAN, religion is important for them but for some reasons only christians seem to be kind of zealots, muslim girls are quite relaxed about religion in general, they are really cool. complete opposite of the arab world
- indonesian girls have the best personality of all asians i had contact with. they are not nearly as clingy and childish as the filipinos or thai or bitchy as chinese though they are quite reserved. still the best so far and i recommend them for dating if you have some in your area.
LR
its more trouble than joy but anyway at least something happened in those 5 days ive been there. i contacted her on wechat (tinder and badoo are more popular there but apart from loads of matches and convos that lead to nowhere or useless meetups they werent useful) -- she works in the financial district in the city and have a naturally lean and fit body that just drove me mad. after some general chat we agreed to meet up the next day near her office which was also close to me. she actually wanted to meet up the same day but i already had a meeting (with a useless girl but the korean restaurant we went was really good so it was a good evening)
we met next day in a really popular place which was empty that night due to an upcoming private party but they let me in because i agreed to a minimum spend which was really low by western standards. attraction was imminent, i proceeded with physical escalation within 10 minutes with which she was absolutely comfortable. after a few cocktails which were really strong we went to eat something to a nearby restaurant (and equally cheap) and after finishing the meal we went to my place. it was the easiest and most straightforward thing ive ever done for which im quite grateful for her to be honest. i dont even remember what we talked about it was absolutely fluid with no problems or resistance or anything. after the deed we cooled off and she wanted to go home but before she asked me if we met again. i hate this question because i usually have no idea about it so i said `i dont know maybe` for which she got upset. i wanted to meet other girls to have an idea whats going on but i just didnt spend enough time in the city to have a comprehensive view and i also have to think about the girl to be able to say anything. so yeah, men are the same as women if we are not sure about the person and we need time to decide girls shouldnt push us either.
anyway after meeting up with a few other useless girls i realized that the city itself made me depressed and i just had to leave. i didnt even want to meet up with this girl again but as soon as i landed home i missed her and miss her today too. i invited her over but she is reluctant to come to an unknown city to the other side of the world so we keep in contact and we will see. i want her to come over on my expenses because she is really hot, speaks english properly, have a good personality (somewhere between a western and an asian girl so just about the right balance) and is smart. i just didnt realize it there in the city.
general things
- ive visited two professional places everybody was raving about but if you are a white guy a) you really dont need to go to these places b) the hottest girls are in bars/clubs, plazas and online -- in that order and the foreigner factor is really significant
- i do think that this is really a place where people can get quality girls with smoking hot body. they are unbelievably dirty too and do things i thought possible only in porn movies. without getting into details ive been with 2 indonesian girls in my life, one here where i am now and one in jakarta and both of them were comfortable doing things a western girl would do only with celebrities.
- i had the exact same conversations with girls online as in any other major cities in the world ive done anything girl-related. those online have excellent command of english, have great jobs and earn good money (by local standards) and live on their own -- they are as picky as their western counterparts if not more. i think i was lucky with my girl she must have been on a dry spell otherwise its the same painful stuff as anywhere. this is a pattern ive seen in any other cities including london, zurich, vienna, budapest, etc etc etc
- there are loads of virgins who are curious but at the end you just end up with a useless girl in your bedroom. i had a virgin over at my place and i felt it was too much of a trouble and after some half-assed attempt to at least do something i rather sent her home. always ask if the girl is a virgin beforehand in this part of the world, trust me the last thing you want in your bedroom is them if you are just passing by.
- every second girl wears fake tooth braces, they almost all drink beer (!?!?!?!), they are obsessed about anything thats GERMAN, religion is important for them but for some reasons only christians seem to be kind of zealots, muslim girls are quite relaxed about religion in general, they are really cool. complete opposite of the arab world
- indonesian girls have the best personality of all asians i had contact with. they are not nearly as clingy and childish as the filipinos or thai or bitchy as chinese though they are quite reserved. still the best so far and i recommend them for dating if you have some in your area.
LR
its more trouble than joy but anyway at least something happened in those 5 days ive been there. i contacted her on wechat (tinder and badoo are more popular there but apart from loads of matches and convos that lead to nowhere or useless meetups they werent useful) -- she works in the financial district in the city and have a naturally lean and fit body that just drove me mad. after some general chat we agreed to meet up the next day near her office which was also close to me. she actually wanted to meet up the same day but i already had a meeting (with a useless girl but the korean restaurant we went was really good so it was a good evening)
we met next day in a really popular place which was empty that night due to an upcoming private party but they let me in because i agreed to a minimum spend which was really low by western standards. attraction was imminent, i proceeded with physical escalation within 10 minutes with which she was absolutely comfortable. after a few cocktails which were really strong we went to eat something to a nearby restaurant (and equally cheap) and after finishing the meal we went to my place. it was the easiest and most straightforward thing ive ever done for which im quite grateful for her to be honest. i dont even remember what we talked about it was absolutely fluid with no problems or resistance or anything. after the deed we cooled off and she wanted to go home but before she asked me if we met again. i hate this question because i usually have no idea about it so i said `i dont know maybe` for which she got upset. i wanted to meet other girls to have an idea whats going on but i just didnt spend enough time in the city to have a comprehensive view and i also have to think about the girl to be able to say anything. so yeah, men are the same as women if we are not sure about the person and we need time to decide girls shouldnt push us either.
anyway after meeting up with a few other useless girls i realized that the city itself made me depressed and i just had to leave. i didnt even want to meet up with this girl again but as soon as i landed home i missed her and miss her today too. i invited her over but she is reluctant to come to an unknown city to the other side of the world so we keep in contact and we will see. i want her to come over on my expenses because she is really hot, speaks english properly, have a good personality (somewhere between a western and an asian girl so just about the right balance) and is smart. i just didnt realize it there in the city.
