JP Around The World (Newbie Assign. + more)

[JPWorld]

Gentlemen!

I've finally set up a journal as I've just moved back into University. I believe most people here know me and have seen me around. I only have a few LRs up but none of them would've happened if it weren't for GC.

For those who don't know me I'm 21 and British (British people message me yo!) and have just spent a year in China. My logistics there were terrible so I didn't venture too much into anything, just playing around a bit. I'm now back in England and looking to start things properly.

I've had some pretty bold approaches under my belt, including one who I knew was Italian, so I went away and learnt some Italian phrases and introduced myself and started the convo in Italian, ending up with her number and a whole Italian social group because of it. But then I pussy out of simple English convos.

Sometimes I find it very easy to make up excuses not to do this, not to approach, so I need serious motivation from you guys. I overthink it too much. But then other times when I have approached it feels natural.

So, I'm venturing onto the Newbie Assignment to kickstart me off. It's Freshers week at University so everyone is up for meeting new people so I'm going to try and use that to my advantage, but trying not to be 'that guy who always approaches girls'.

As cliché as it sounds GC has changed my life. My fashion and fundamentals have improved so much by just working on them so I now feel so much more confident when I walk around and get many looks/compliments.

Anyway, let's crack on!

- JP

 

[JPWorld]

Day 1

Okay, so Day 1 was Saturday. My first full day back in the city. I know it quite well, so I didn't do the same as the assignment, but I still went down into town to check out some of the shops and areas. There's a big shopping centre as well as the streets and streets of shops outside. However it was moving in day for University and it was packed. Every girl I saw was either with her parents or with a group of friends.

There was one blonde who was walking back to the Uni carrying a big duvet in each arm. I thought about approaching but it was so busy and there were two massive black guys just behind her and honestly didn't have the confidence to approach and get rejected in front of them hahaa. To be honest, I could have just said "Do you need a hand?' and walked and talked. Instead I overthought the whole "I LOVE your outfit and just HAD to come and meet you" and pussied out. Then just went home as I knew the city and the campus itself would be sufficient for finding girls.

In the evening I wasn't quite sure what events were going on and just grabbed a bottle of whiskey and planned to go to the other floors of my block and join in pre-drinks, but when I walked down the floors it was dead. So I went outside and saw a group of 3 girls and a guy and just approached asking if any were from my block and whether they were going out tonight. One girl was from the floor below and her friend was from another accommodation. (I had actually let her in our block earlier that day and she said she recognised me). They said I could join them for the night. We then went to the Union but we couldn't get in so the 3 of us went to a bar/club together. I wasn't looking to pull them as they were best of friends, one had got out of a relationship and the other lived below me, so I didn't want to set a bad tone of myself right from the start. Although I had a few opportunities I didn't make any more approaches that night. (I need to make the '3 Second Rule' more concrete in my head).

But hey, better than nothing and it set me up for the night!

- JP

 

[JPWorld]

Day 2

Day 2, okay! Day 2 was yesterday and I didn't have much going on so I wandered out (pretty hungover) to the supermarket to get some stuff. However people are still moving in and soooo many girls were with parents buying food and shit so I found it hard to scope anyone out.

But I concentrated on the posture side of things. Ever since discovering GC, I practiced posture and walk right from the get-go. It has resulted in my looking and feeling more confident, more people moving aside or letting me through rather than me letting them.

After shopping I went to the gym and then had to go to a meeting with the rest of the 200 people at the accommodation block. I ended up handing out some coupons so I got a good look at everyone.There was one girl who'd smiled at me the day before and who I thought was super cute (every girl I now walk past and lock eye contact with, I now half-smile with lips closed and tilt my head slightly, it now constantly gets smiles from girls and I'm becoming a lot more comfortable about doing it), however when I saw this girl again she wasn't as cute as I'd original thought and her dress sense really wasn't great haha.

At the meeting I met the cute Canadian flatmate with the girl on the floor below. We chatted a bit during the meeting and I felt like we were flirting a bit, but I didn't push for anything. After the meeting there was a buffet and we got split up. They already had their food and were sitting down with 4 other girls. I went over and said hey and introduced myself but for some reason I wasn't feeling it. I kept zoning out and not feeling very present. (I'm currently 5 weeks off masturbation and porn and I know you get little moments where mood drops or rises, I feel like that was one of them dropping). One of the girls tried to re-open me about what I was studying but I was miles away, she literally had to stick her head at an awkward angle in front of me to get my attention and was like "erm, sorry...what do you study?". My general conversation skills at that moment in time were poor and it was such a terrible social interaction on my part, but hey ho.

I then had a nap and my old flat-mate came over and we joined some other people for some pre-drinks. I was still hungover so just had a beer and joined in the conversation, I felt socially quite warmed up now. My EFM (ex-flat-mate) and I left to go and join the bus for the queue, but we weren't sure where it was. We saw a huge crowd of people and I approached a group of 3 girls and 3 guys and asked if they were queuing, this then led to intros and we then just stuck with them for the rest of the night. Turns out they are all new flatmates, new freshers and it's their first night out here. A few minutes later we all got herded forward and I said how we didn't have anyone's numbers if we got lost, this proceeded with me getting the cutest girl's number who then shared it round. We then decided to walk and I had my eyes on cute brunette (CB) for the rest of the night and we set a fairly flirty vibe. We got to the club and ordered drinks. I got her to order mine as she remember the discount card and I said I wanted a vodka and lemonade cos my stomach still wasn't settled from all the Tequila the night before and she said she was judging me a bit. Then she explained when she ordered that the Barmen acted surprised why she wanted just a lemonade, I said how I wanted Vodka lemonade and joked how she had just one job. This then led to lots of teasing throughout the night.

There were a few approach invitations but it felt uncomfortable having the new group around me. Near the end a cute blonde locked eyes with me and gave me a sexy smile and I gave her a half sexy smile and thought about approaching but chickened out...then a few seconds later saw the girl from the flat below next to her. Once I got into bed later I realised the blonde must have been the cute Canadian, should've said hi again and seen what could've happened!

Then when the grouped wanted to head home I took CB's hand and led her out, but she just turned it into fun and held the other girl's hands and trying to get us all to skip. To be fair I could see what she was doing, she had known the rest of her flat for only that day and didn't want to be that girl who goes home with a 3rd year on the first night. When we all got home we parted ways and I shot her a text

Me: CB, hey! Nice meeting you tonight 01:44am
Her: You too! Get in okay? Managed to dry off? (It'd been raining)

The conversation goes on and I ask whether the rest of the flat were in bed or whether they were all chilling together. She said they were in bed so I asked whether she was the kind of girl who'd now spend hours on netflix. I was trying to see whether if she had enough guts or social calibre to invite me over or to suggest she comes over. She said she was wondering about getting a hot water bottle and she said "I'm not sure I'll be heading to sleep just yet!" I jokingly said how I would happily come and join her for the hot water bottle and hot chocolate but she didn't bite. She just switched to favourite hot chocolate combos and I could see nothing was going to happen tonight, so I push for a hot chocolate together sometime this week. She dodged it and said how I should bring EFM and she'll bring her friends. I didn't answer it directly and said we'll sort something out and although we were still flirting, I decided to go to sleep rather than mass-texting (I've changed my texting game HUGE amounts since GC).

She messaged me today saying whether I was going out, I said I wasn't due to commitments tomorrow and prepping for a busy week. She played the

" Well I'm sure we can catch up with you lot another time, if you'd like that is!"

so I said Sure, I'd like that. She goes "Well I'll give you some time to sort things, maybe chat to you in a few days or something " So I'll jump onto that in a few days haha

Sorry this one's long chaps, was a busy day!!

 

[JPWorld]

Day 3

Day 3 was today and wanted to get straight into the approaching rather than the eye contact as I'm doing that all the time anyway.

I planned on going to the events and societies sign-ups to approach some girls, but it was crazy busy. I then bump into my friends and spend the rest of the day with them (fuck sake). We all split up and whilst I was having coffee with one of my girl friends, I noticed a cute Asian going to sit down on her own and DEFINITELY would've approached if I was alone, even if it was on a huge terrace with tons of people sitting on benches, drinking. I almost got up and abandoned my girl friend but decided against it.

My friend and I then moved to a cafe and I got one girl literally stare at me from the moment I walked past her to the moment I sat down and would've approached her, but I was now with 2 girl friends so I didn't want it to be awkward if I got rejected haha. I noticed her catching glances at me for the next hour or so. My fashion and walk help me I think, as I had nice pointy brown leather shoes, good jeans, and a leather jacket over a wooly jumper, I looked so smooth and have tons of outfits like that now.

We then split up and I quickly headed to the gym to activate my card. One girl was just walking out and had clearly just worked out but I was queuing. I would have ran out and chased her down but pussied out again hahaa. Then on the way back there was an Asian, she wasn't attractive at all, but to get an approach under my belt I asked where she was from. I asked this as I speak Chinese and was going to use it as a chance to practice, but turns out she was from Thailand. We had a nice, short conversation and peacefully parted ways. I felt quite chuffed about it and then saw a fairly cute girl on her phone on the steps to the main building, it was SUCH a good opportunity to approach but once again I overthought it too much and moved on.

Then, when walking home some more I looked further ahead and there was a girl in yoga pants, and she couldn't have been more than 18, 19 at a push. But I had to work this out, it was a long walk back and if I approached and got blown out, we would have had to walk in the same direction on the same road back home. So I started working out at what point approaching would work well, that if it went great, we would have just a few minutes of chatting if she was by chance also at my accommodation (which it turns out she was). This then led to me obviously overthinking it as well as overthinking what I was going to say. I then caught her up as my walking speed was slightly faster and was about to say "Hi" or some other slightly more calibrated line but couldn't do it.

We then approached some shops from the side and she clearly noticed me behind her in the reflection and it now felt more awkward haha so I didn't do it. The rest of the walk home felt so awkward as we were walking so near to each other and she could probably feel me just walking down the same roads haha

If I had embraced every opportunity and wasn't caught by my friends earlier, I might have got 7-8 approaches today, but instead it was just 1.

Tomorrow will be a super busy day for me, but I'll try to fit in "Hi" to 6 girls.

Cheers,

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

JP,

I am sure you realize this but you have significant approach anxiety. We all have it to some extent. To help read the linked article by Chase.

https://www.girlschase.com/content/overc ... ch-anxiety

BDSC

 

[JPWorld]

Day 4

9 approaches AND a number..! (Instead of say "Hi" to 6 girls)

So I saw BDSC's note just before I headed out and read through Chase's article and decided that I did indeed have AA and that I REALLY want to tackle this head-on, so I did.

The first of the day was a girl walking out of my accommodation. We exchanged "Hi"s and I had the opportunity to let the conversation drop and us both just walk in the same direction and not engaging, but I decided to make this the first of the day and get warmed up, so I re-opened her and we carried on chatting for a good 5 minutes towards Uni. She wasn't really that attractive and wasn't looking to get anything out of it and on the way I legit needed to go to an ATM and get some money out so I excused myself.

The next was the number close and gave me some confidence for the day. We had both been inside a building filling forms out for bike hire and I overheard she was German. She left earlier than me and was waiting around, just on her phone, looking undecided about something (or awaiting an approach haha), so I quickly walked over to the bike rack to lock up my bike as I didn't really want both of us talking whilst messing around with bikes. As I was trying to sort my lock out she started walking off and I was proper fumbling around with the lock. I EVENTUALLY got the bloody thing locked and chased her down by walking super fast. I just caught up with her as she was about to lock hers and I opened her with

"Hey, sorry, am I right in thinking you're German?

She answered warmly and I explained how I was studying German and we exchanged what we were up to and where we were from etc. I then used the excuse of getting her number to do some language practice (total BS, I wanted to shag her haha) and bantered how her English didn't need any improvements. She was actually really cute with stylish glasses, a perfect smile and a good dress sense. I texted her a bit later and after about the 3rd/4th text pushed for a coffee this week (my text game is generally pretty solid) but she stopped replying haha

I made another approach but it wasn't big and then I noticed a girl sitting down with huge headphones on and she was really quite attractive. For most people seeing someone with headphones or BIG headphones quickly becomes a really good excuse not to approach, so although she was quite hot, I was just using it as practice to get over that hurdle. As I walked over to her and made eye contact she was already taking her headphones off as she could see I was going to ask something. I literally just asked her for the directions to somewhere. She also smiled warmly but I felt it was just politeness. I was going to use Chase's structure of: "Oh actually I was just kidding, I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi" but my mind just froze and I smoothly said thanks and left.

Having already got four under my belt I went to class. I was excited about this as nearly everyone was new to me so I could really get some approaches in and my numbers up. For the first part the people who new each other sat together so me and my few friends were together. Then at one point the teacher was sorting something and said "okay you can socialise for a bit now." So I thought "Fuck this," And just got up and walked across the room and sat down and approached 3 girls. They were all nice and we had a chat for a few minutes.

In that class two girls had walked in late, one with really funky, baggy trousers on who I thought was the prettiest, and her friend who was dark skinned and dark haired and I wanted to say "hi' and told myself I would after class. So when we were walking out I said goodbye to my buddies and chased them down and introduced myself. The one who I thought was cuter (the trousers) was less warm and the other girl was not only warmer, asking me questions and smiling a lot, but she turned out to be really attractive, more than the other. So I might have set something good up for the semester (I've already read Chase's "Class Article" so I know I need to act fast!)

And that's it gentlemen! Pretty happy with today's progress and now I'll do it all over again tomorrow opening with "Hi, How's your day going?"

Ciao for now!

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Excellent. Be sure to follow up on the numbers. If you haven't read the articles on texting do so first. They will save you a lot of headaches and disappointment.

BDSC

 

[JPWorld]

Yup, gotcha, cheers buddy!!

Day 5

Yesterday was a busy day so I won't write everything.

I started off at the hospital and after my appointment ended up having a long chat with the secretary, as she short/shaved sides and long hair on top which I thought was cool. She was mainly helping me with my appointment shit so I felt it was inappropriate to compliment her. Maybe if I had more of a fun,flirty vibe at the time I would have got away with it.

Next up was a social for one of the language societies I'm in and this is where I KILLED it. I got all 6 "Hi, how's it going?/How's your day going?" done there and then. I only knew 1 other girl there so it was a no-brainer going up to groups and approaching. It was basically ENTIRELY girls. I approached a few to start with and just simple intros and what they're up to.

Then a brunette made eye contact with me and had a twinkle in her eye as she walked past to go to the coffee machine. So out of the corner of my eye I saw them finish up and went over to put some sugar in my coffee, and opened them both with

"Hey guys, how's it going? I'm JP"

They were instantly warm and the prettier brunette responded really well, keep close and holding good eye-contact. Turns out she is Sicilian. Then some other nice girl came over and talked to the other girl (not the Sicilian) so I got her involved and got her to introduce herself, too.

So whilst talking to these three girls the opportunity to go to Bierkeller (Beer Cellar, German-themed) for the evening came up. They were all undecided so I literally just said

"Well that'll so much fun. I'm gonna go so let's all just go together."

and turned the undecided bunch of girls around with my decisive manliness.

A little while later we all headed home and I spent the afternoon in laundry where I approached another 3 girls, all indirectly using the washing machines as a means to find some mutual ground.

Skip to the evening and I bring my buddy (who's got a gf) and met the Sicilian and the other girl (who was polish) and then another brunette, who I hadn't seen before. As we were walking down to the Bierkeller though, I was talking to my buddy and I overheard the girls behind chatting and the Sicilian was saying that she had a boyfriend.

Fuck. Oh well. Turns out they were flatmates last year and have been together for 6 months, that's annoying.

So I remained a fun, flirty guy with her so as to show I wasn't just gonna be a normal, ordinary guy. Whilst there I made some more intros to the rest of the group that we met there. But I wasn't looking to pull as I was out with these new girls.

Long story short that was my day. If I see the other brunette (who I met in the evening) again, I might try and set something up.

I'm making lots of approaches now but they are more friendly, rather than with sexual intent. The forthcoming challenges involving compliments and direct approaches are going to be a bit harder for me, but I'll be giving them a good go!

- Cheers

 

[JPWorld]

Gentlemen,

I'm writing this just to apologise that I haven't updated this in the last few days, I've been absolutely slammed. Lectures have started and work has piled on, but I'm gonna see what I can do to finish this off.

Although I haven't been following the Assignment as such, I have got a few numbers and approaches out over the last few days, here's a quick overview:

Friday Night: I purposefully didn't do any day-game Friday as I knew I was going out in the evening for a friend's 21st, and wanted to get my Night-game going again. However, when I went to their place for pre-drinks, long story short, we weren't going out. We just all had a chilled night inside. This really annoyed me and by the time I left I was shattered and went to bed.

Saturday was a super busy day and in the evening we watched the rugby in a common room. I actually thought this would be a good chance to make some approaches and socialise, but it wasn't the case. I then went to drinks at some friends and we thought we were going out, too, but pre-drinks led to everyone going to bed early morning as we had to be up early for a fire alarm.

Sunday: Sunday resulted in us all having a formal dinner and some girl ended up sitting next to me. She was fairly attractive, nothing special but a really pleasant girl and we had TONS to talk about. My vibe and fundamentals were pretty solid and after the lunch she actually dumped her stuff and then approached me and asked for my number. I then texted her a bit later saying it was nice to meet her and she replied IMMEDIATELY saying "Yes it was lovely meeting you JP! Would be fab to meet up sometime and you can show me the ropes around *our city*.

That's a pretty solid response to be fair and although I haven't got round to replying, I'll probably see her sometime this week.

Today: Got a German girl's number from class today. It was more on a friendly vibe, but to be honest I'm taking the numbers because they're bound to have friends and friends means potential.

Plans for the next few days. If I get a chance I'll do some day-game, as next up on the Assignment is the compliments approach, and I REALLY want to get this down.
Tomorrow night I'll be going to a Salsa class. I had the option of that or a pub/bar crawl, but the Salsa will have a higher calibre of girls and more interesting to talk to. Plus I want to be there for the first one. Wednesday is another dance class and on Thursday it's the same again or a film evening. I might just go to the dance class again as they'll be new people there.

That's the plan for now chaps, sorry for everyone following this, but I'll get there shortly!

Cheers,

- JP

 

[JPWorld]

Alright Gents,

So Salsa last night was a great success, even though I got one rejection and one number.

It was so good as there were so many girls there and the way it was taught was so good. Basically the leads (generally means men) would be on the outside and the follows (women) on the inside of a big circle . So every minute - 90 seconds the leads move around. It felt like speed dating. Every time we moved it meant a new girl. BAM. So I would rattle through: Who are you, where you come from, what you study, why you’re doing salsa.

Every time I could practice new vibes, further teasing. i.e. If it's their first time doing it we’ll be shit together or if they’d been before I expect perfect twirls or 'fiery hips.’

This led to some good connections and some rapport with some lovely girls. I had my eyes on a blondie to start with but I didn’t get to her that early. But when I did I didn’t engage much (I obviously said hi etc) as I was still warming up socially, but also as I was concentrating so much on the dancing. This was good and bad. Bad because I could’ve used the time to tease, build more rapport. But good because it meant I got the basics dance down and by the end I was only one of the few chaps who actually could do most/all of it, meaning more girls wanted to dance with me/were impressed.

However a few girls later I got this beautiful, very slim dark-haired girl with a perfect smile and we just hit it off straight-away. Giggling, teasing etc. And then her friend, who had a really nice face and a huge feel of sexiness about her, even though she was slightly more podgy. Later we did a snowball (Where two people start in the middle, then over time he says snowball, you have to find new partners = every ends up dancing with someone in the end) and she was looking for a new lead and she just lit up and started giggling and she saw me, eager for me to join her. So much so another girl thought we had been friends for a while/coursemates, I explained I'd only known her for like 30 minutes haha.

Then later we had some practice/'social dancing.' I ended up with her friend and we ended up having a good connection, dancing really close to each other and just in the zone. She felt super sexy and was good fun.

Skip to the end of the session and some more dancing and flirting with some girls (especially the blonde when I got back to her), I noticed that the blonde was leaving and said to my partner that I was going to get a drink, but instead grabbed my bag which had my phone in it and chased after her. She was walking down the stairs with her friend and as I called after her, and she turned. "Hey, I was just wondering if I could have your phone number?" Fundamentals and eye contact were solid. She said "I'm really sorry but I have a boyfriend, but it was really lovely talking with you tonight." I took her hand whilst saying "It was lovely to meet you." and held it there whilst she said "see you next week."

The vibe very much said "I'm sorry, you're not getting my number due to a boyf, but I'm kind of gutted I can't get know you better." Her cute friend was next to her and I thought about asking her, but it might have looked a bit desperate and also made her feel like a second choice. "I can't get the hot one so you'll do." So I pleasantly parted with the blonde and headed back in, dropped my bag and re-engaged the girl I was dancing with.

After a while there was just me and my dancer and another couple left on the dance floor. It was a cute Spanish girl I had noticed and danced with once earlier. I pardon myself from my dance partner and open the couple up and ask if we can switch, so I can dance with the Spanish girl. We dance and after about 5 minutes she says she has to get a drink and goes to sit down, I spin around seeing if there are any more girls to dance with, but everyone's either not into it or going home. I then go over and get the number of the Spanish girl. She didn't seem THAT interested but I'll take it. I sent her a text later but she didn't reply. Oh well, not too fussed.

To be honest, if I wasn't with GC and constantly meeting new girls, I would probably get upset about the Blonde situation and dwell on it and what could have been, but to be honest I'm really not that fussed. Just another girl, just another number. Always thinking in numbers.

Looking forward to doing a similar thing at ballroom dancing tonight,

Cheers fellas

 

[JPWorld]

Hey guys,

Haven't posted in a week, so I'm sorry about that, but a few bits to catch up on.

First of all, I went to the ballroom dancing that evening and it was sort of similar to the Salsa. There were some nice girls there and I clicked with a few but nothing led to anything.

The following night I went to Swing Dancing and as I went in a girl recognised me and said how I'd been away. I kind of recognised her but couldn't put my finger on it. It turns out she was also away for a year last year and we used to live in the same accommodation centre. And...she was the teacher.

I didn't get to talk to her much at all that night but I met some other girls there. Once again it was like speed dating. Constantly meeting someone new, however the quality wasn't that high.

After a relatively calm but busy weekend I ended up speaking to the teacher girl on Facebook and she then said there was a meeting for people who been away and she invites me along. I agree and we end up spending the hour or so chatting and deep diving ourselves rather than socialising. I actually wanted to pull her home then but she said she had a dance class and I had another engagement. Rather frustrating.

Skip to Thursday and went to the dance class again. I actually clicked with a really nice girl there who was only visiting for the weekend. Turns out she's a film actress and has just realised her debut film this year. We clicked and at the end just chatted and deep-dived at the side instead of dancing. We then all head over to the bar. She said she wasn't sure whether she was coming. I spend the time talking to loads of other girls and feel this huge amount of pre-selection and social proof around me. I saw her cast a few looks my way whilst I had another 2/3 girls around me. However we get separated in the bar and I don't get to speak to her for the rest of the evening and they left unnoticed, but I wasn't worried as I know I'd see her the following night.

I then start talking to as many people as possible and end up between the teacher girl and another girl and we start chatting and bantering. Teacher girl wasn't drinking though. The male teacher, teacher girl and I then decided to leave and walked home. I started being more dominant with her - she's quite a blunt, powerful girl so I was setting a frame that said you can't compete with me. I was giving her commands and stuff on the way home. For instance I was pushing my bike and I wanted to zip my jacket up. It would have been awkward and I would have had to have stopped if I wanted to so whilst walking I just said "Zip up my jacket", she kind of laughed but then lost frame and did it, much to the amusement of the male teacher.

He then left split of half way home and the two of us were walking back to our respective places. I wanted to pull her but it didn't feel right. I tried to set a slightly sexual frame on the walk and ask some questions/make jokes but she was like "you've known me properly for only 2 days, you can't say/ask that". Half joking half serious. So when the time came, we hugged and parted ways. Was hoping to get some the following night.

The quick overview of last night was that I spent most of the time with the actress. We got a lot closer over the course of the evening and had a super strong connection and I wanted to kiss her at some point but there was like 100 people there and she was with her friend so it was hard. Unfortunately she had to drive home straight afterwards, so as much as I wanted to, I couldn't pull her home. I could literally feel the sexual tension in the air how we wanted each other but a sad feeling of knowing it wasn't possible. At the end of the night she said she wanted to come to another dance event and dance with me again and asked for my number/facebook.

Then it got interesting. Teacher girl, actress and her friend all walked home with me. So the entire time I was trying to flirt a little bit with Teacher girl, to show my interest but then not too much as I was flirting with actress. We then got to a road and all three of them went down there (actress to her car to drive home, her friend to her house and Teacher girl to her house). I couldn't pull Teacher girl without the other two seeing and I couldn't kiss actress without the other two seeing either. So when we got the road and the was the feeling in the air of "well, we'll all going down there." To solve the problem I just did a fun big group hug and we parted ways.

I've been texting actress today and we're sort of planning when to see each other next but it's difficult as she lives quite far away and I'm super busy.

As for Teacher girl. I will probably attend a class tomorrow when she'll be there but I'm thinking of inviting her out for drinks at some point - unless anyone has a better suggestion?

Cheers,

- JP

 

[JPWorld]

Gentleman,

So I got laid again last night with my German Flatmate, everything's in the LR.

Yesterday was interesting though as I was struggling how to run things. I decided I wanted to act with TeacherGirl as soon as possible, to keep attraction up. So I messaged her and asked how her day was, what she had done, then after a few messages I asked if she wanted to go for a drink last night. I kept it sounding casual but realised I hadn't really asked her on a high point in the conversation. However beforehand she had said how she was exhausted and had a busy day the next day (i.e Today) so her reply was

Sorry, I can't even be bothered to leave my bed haha. And I have a really busy day tomorrow :<
Sorry for that

(If last night wasn't an option I was gonna go for coffee today, obviously not happening either haha).

I then felt the convo die down a bit and was gonna say have a good evening and head off but she kept the messaging going and I up-ed the vibe to more fun and flirty. I still felt that last night was a no-go, but I left her by saying

hey look, I gotta go and eat, but maybe see you tomorrow (in the dance class) and we'll grab a drink another time

She replied with

Yeah, sure! Have a good evening

I won't be going to dance tonight as something's come up, but I'll message her in a few days and ask what her schedule is like and apply my usual text game.

Also been texting the actress, but the texts are quite long at the moment and I'm trying to leave a few hours between each one otherwise the convo will die down and everything will fizzle out. May not see her for a month, though, so nothing in the near future looks likely.

- JP