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Hello all! I've been reading through the girls chase website and checking out various threads on this forum for a while now, I have to say some of the information here is GOLD!
I'll give you a brief background, I'm 25 years old, In July last year, me and my fiancee of 3 years broke up (Yeah, I know, a blessing in disguise, what was I thinking in the first place?!) the last few months I've bounced around from one bed to the next, not doing too badly for a skinny guy (5'10" and weighing around 8st, gotta do something about that) until I met my last ex, I'll be honest, I developed "oneitis" all over again, which was stupid knowing what kind of girl she is, big drinker, party animal, serial adulteress. truth be told, she was one of the most attractive women I've ever been with and I felt, because of this she was too good for me, I became a little needy, obsessive and overbearing, enough said, I sent the whole thing nosediving into oblivion!
Silver lining though, its inspired me to hone my skill with women, which at the moment is pretty damn poor in comparison, I've only ever been seeing more that one woman at a time on one occasion, between my ex fiancee and my last ex. I guess you could say I'm very much a 'beta' or walk over, hell, could even go as far as to say I was a bit of an arse licker, its no wonder I've been unsuccessful, until I discovered this site and decided that right here, right now was where I HAD to make the first step to becoming successful with women, it was there I discovered Chase, who seems like a smart guy who really knows how to break 'the game' down into logical, useful steps and techniques, putting it all in a format a logical and analytically minded person like myself can understand.
Now as I've been out of the game for such a long time, being tied up in one relationship or the next, I'm very rough around the edges, have a serious problem with approach anxiety so thought I'd get started, more confident and practice online, which, once I implemented some of the tips from Chase's article on POF, has landed me some success.
I've never been much of a big drinker and don't really thrive in night environments, but from what I can work out, at the moment, that's probably the best place for me to reach my goal (being short, casual affairs, nothing solid, I'm not looking to end up in another relationship, but a man has certain needs, right?!
So I was wondering if you more seasoned guys had any words of advice in terms of night game, how best to combat approach anxiety and successfully identify IOI's and being able to tell the red, amber and green lights apart?
Thanks in advance for your helpful replies guys!
I'll give you a brief background, I'm 25 years old, In July last year, me and my fiancee of 3 years broke up (Yeah, I know, a blessing in disguise, what was I thinking in the first place?!) the last few months I've bounced around from one bed to the next, not doing too badly for a skinny guy (5'10" and weighing around 8st, gotta do something about that) until I met my last ex, I'll be honest, I developed "oneitis" all over again, which was stupid knowing what kind of girl she is, big drinker, party animal, serial adulteress. truth be told, she was one of the most attractive women I've ever been with and I felt, because of this she was too good for me, I became a little needy, obsessive and overbearing, enough said, I sent the whole thing nosediving into oblivion!
Silver lining though, its inspired me to hone my skill with women, which at the moment is pretty damn poor in comparison, I've only ever been seeing more that one woman at a time on one occasion, between my ex fiancee and my last ex. I guess you could say I'm very much a 'beta' or walk over, hell, could even go as far as to say I was a bit of an arse licker, its no wonder I've been unsuccessful, until I discovered this site and decided that right here, right now was where I HAD to make the first step to becoming successful with women, it was there I discovered Chase, who seems like a smart guy who really knows how to break 'the game' down into logical, useful steps and techniques, putting it all in a format a logical and analytically minded person like myself can understand.
Now as I've been out of the game for such a long time, being tied up in one relationship or the next, I'm very rough around the edges, have a serious problem with approach anxiety so thought I'd get started, more confident and practice online, which, once I implemented some of the tips from Chase's article on POF, has landed me some success.
I've never been much of a big drinker and don't really thrive in night environments, but from what I can work out, at the moment, that's probably the best place for me to reach my goal (being short, casual affairs, nothing solid, I'm not looking to end up in another relationship, but a man has certain needs, right?!
So I was wondering if you more seasoned guys had any words of advice in terms of night game, how best to combat approach anxiety and successfully identify IOI's and being able to tell the red, amber and green lights apart?
Thanks in advance for your helpful replies guys!
