Just got a girls number... now what?

[scarygood536]

Ok because I don't do the bar scene and I don't have tons of time (enough for dates after work). I resorted to online dating. I've received a bunch of numbers from girls but nothing ever materializes. For some reason, older girls like me (I'm 23). Older girls being 26-30 and I had a 42 year old interested in me. Well I was exchanging messages with this girl (22) and we hit it off. She was actually putting effort in her messages. So before I went to bed I asked her for her phone number and gave it to me no problem. Now my question is I told her I'd text her tomorrow (being today). Do I message her or completely ignore what i wrote and wait a few days? Also, I made mention that i wanted to take her out. She ignored that statement and continued the conversation as normal. Now I can't expect much because I realise she might have already friendzoned me, hence why she ignored the request.

Also, Chase suggest texting being for setting up dates only. Can you not text a girl at all? I tried setting up dates that way. Girls always flake at my text where I am seeing if they are still on the day before or day of the date.

Thanks for any insight

 

[Richard]

Good job dude, nice to see the progress! As far as texting her, Chase says he only texts to establish dates, but never says you cannot text her at all. The basis of this website is to get men laid, and that's what the texting he partakes in does, but, if you are pursuing an alternative to simply getting laid, by all means text her. But, do what Chase has recommended as well, say something along the lines of "Hey (girls name), it was nice talking to you yesterday, I'm glad to have met you - (your name)" and progress from there. You don't have to text only to establish dates, I've found texting to be a great way to build rapport, and pass meaningful time

 

[Light]

What Zphix said - Send her an Ice Breaker Text.