Just stand out!

[Estate]

Interesting read here if you don't mind spending 5 on it...
http://www.salon.com/2014/05/30/amazon_ ... e_partner/

I'm in the same industry... While I guess I have my nerdy side, I couldn't help but nodding along with every word. Even from college, I was one of the lone few from my class who'd attempt a Thirsty Thursday or well.... anything fun instead of the nightly "LAN-parties".
Since getting into the business it's like a double edged sword... to get ahead, the company and upper management expect you to live and breath what you do, leaving no time for anything else.
Yet, just like the article... you've got to have a life right? You've got to be interesting.

In part I probably found sites like this because 10 years ago I only seemed to know the guys she described. I loved what I did but just didn't identify with that being all there was to life but I didn't know how to break out of it. But this stuff also attracts a lot of guys wishing to meet women but still in that bubble of what they do.

Be it tech or anything else... even though it's not a pickup article... it kinda rings true to what we preach here right? Just stand out from the boring crowd!

 

[Richard]

Excellent, excellent, excellent read.

This seems to sum up my dad's life as a garbage man who brings his work home with him - and whenever he talks to anybody it's about his job, or about him being an ex-Marine, and never about the other person. I know the article was specific to guys from Amazon but it applies to everyone that makes their work their life.

I enjoy reading things like this before really stepping into a career because these are "warning signs" for me.

Great post,

-Richard

 

[Drck]

It is a great article. Be careful though, the article tells you all about those bad men but it doesn’t tell you one word about all these great women…

Those who’ve been around dating and seduction some while know that the best way is to let women talk about herself and her stuff. You just add something here and there and let her talk. Blah blah, blah blah blah. It is actually funny, the more the man talks about himself the less interested she is, yet she (they) blame men for doing exactly the same…

But it is at least great to know that if YOU SHUT UP AND LET HER TALK she will be much happier with you than the other way. The more most of these guys talk the worse for them. The less you talk, the less work for you, the higher chances for you anyway…

Also notice that these women EXPECT to be on pedestals. They are entitled, and they blame entitlement on men. She wants to be impressed – but how about her trying to impress men? She wants to be entertained by men – how about her trying to entertain those men? She goes out with men and those men pay – how about she paying for all those meals…?? Fucking narcissistic, spoiled and entitled feminists, most of them are fat and ugly anyway, wearing red lipstick, so tired of them… Give them NOTHING, let them live in their distorted world in which men have to please them alone…

Anyway, you don’t really need to talk much at all (never mind deep diving), you simply let her talk and then you LEAD her to your place. She talks, you do actions. By leading her you are showing dominance, you are showing her that you are the man who is in charge, and by letting her talk you are making her more comfortable…