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kalyan

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The Spanish could bullshit all they want: they went nowhere near occupying mexico, no. Kalyan dominated that piece, twice, on June 6, 2017.

Interlude:
I went to a bachata workshop with an instructor who later became a good mentor in seduction (natural). I was minding my business, not trying to flirt with any girls… as you all know, i am very conservative with women, i try to keep a professional image *sarcasm*. The class was super full with a lot of familiar faces, including many girls I tried to date but couldn't take on a date, but one new face was that of Miss SelfClose: a short, cute latina. Yum! We had a little innocent flirting going on, mostly nonverbally. I dont think we spoke more than 10 words between us that first time. I left the class when it was done without a number close, as it was a social circle situation.

Second week, more of the same. At the end, i talked to her and her friends. I very much wanted to take her number at this point, but i chickened out… i hate being discreet, this social circle thing isnt for me! I bid her farewell and left her.

Third week, more flirting. I felt good this time, and i wanted to go for the number close, when something cute happened: as i was going to ask for her number, her female friend said that SelfClose wanted my number. Well, talk about cute coincidences; i reassured to them that I'm non needy but interested , and the number close happened: the name SelfClose comes since the number close happened by itself, without me asking for it! A little game developed where me and SelfClosed were labeled as “dating” and i was her “boyfriend”... i clarified to both her and her friend that I was her lover, not her boyfriend. They liked. I also asked them to drive me to my dorm because it's like 15 minutes away… both investment/ compliance on their side, and time saving on my side. A small game of guessing my age occurred. I joked that im 17… no, 16, almost turning 17. They pressed for an answer, but nothing. They dropped me home. I knew i had this lay by now.

Failed date, and first “date”:
I texted her a while later, and we set a date for sunday at 3:00, my place. I text her at 2:00. She replies at 3:30 asking to move the date later. I tell her 9:00 works. She asks for 6:00. Sorry sweetie, am busy at 6:00 (think i had another date). I tell her another time. She apologizes.

She skipped week 4 of dance. During that week, i text her to set a date for today, june 6. We did have dance on june 5 though, that was week 5.

I see her week 5. Nothing out of the ordinary. After the lesson ends, I tell her and her friend that the instructor and i are going dt to party. They agree to join us “for a little” (they end up staying longer than us, but that's beside the point).

During the whole outing, we had fun. It was not crowded. I danced with her quite a bit, made her bend over to let her know who's the boss. I bent over a gay guy friend of mine, too, to really cement the idea. I bought the whole group drinks, but only because i like the instructor, and he always buys me drinks.. i even told the girls i dont buy girls drinks typically (lol). I also avoided any kissing and let the tension boil.

A theme i noticed was my low attainability. Remember, she was the one who was chasing me by asking for my number, and i’m a sexy, aggressive guy, so i am high on the scale already. But, funnily enough, i saw Miss Fuse at the club and danced with her (no hard feelings there!). She saw of course, and that made her insecure. “How many girls do you do this to?” “30 a week. Sometimes 70”. This was all good for the frame, but i could foresee my low attainability to cause losing my girl at worst, or loads of LMR at best (i knew it was inevitable, and i wasnt wrong). So i focused on building attainability, by telling her how I like her and how we have a connection. Boom.

I announced im leaving. She begged me to stay. No. See you tomorrow my love. Big hugs.

Proper date:
We were scheduled for 6:00, she came at 7:20. Holy fuck, good thing i had no date planned at 8:00. Also, thank god i am doing only home dates. Btw, she drove 30 minutes to come see me. That is something.

Within 2 minutes she asks what we are doing. I said i dont know. Havent planned anything. She thought that's different. I deflected. The attainability was still an issue, i got called manwhore a few times. All nicely deflected. We got to my apartment, shoes off as always. Rosé wine, good music, sexy Kalyan, and a cute mamita. I asked her to massage my back a little. We kissed. Escalation was very slow at first, sparks werent flying yet. I dont mind. I promised myself i would go super slow, as i expected a lot of LMR. I experimented with something i liked: even though i didnt the first move and kissed her like a man, after a while i withdrew and let her do the job for me. She was willing to lean in to kiss me, and generally initiate the makeouts. Nice nice!

Some hand wandering. A little neck kisses. Ask her to take off her jacket, she complies. Ask her to take off my top, she doesn't comply. I characteristically withdraw attention. Restart kissing et al. After 5 minutes, I announce i am taking off my top. She finds it funny. I take it off. I start ramping up the heat, using my nice little love techniques. She likes all. I start going for her breasts. Actually, scratch that: i found myself on her breasts before I consciously knew it. I took her clothing aside and started sucking. Wow, her skin is beautifully soft. I love love her breasts, so silky, unlike any breast i’ve felt before. Why didnt anyone tell me latinas are this good?... i start to take off her bra, she tells me that shes not taking off her bra, which was weird.. i tell her ok, im taking off your top. I pull down her bra straps, and had full access to her boobs. So we were both happy: she got to keep her bra on technically, and the seduction proceeded.

Some dry humping. She felt my dick. She likes, and i like that. Some position shifting. My hand was where it should be between her legs. Her hand found its way in my pants. Took off my belt, her pants,mine, my boxers, and i started fingering her. Shes super wet. Good good. I almost expected her to ask for a condom, but she didnt; guess my other girls are spoiling me a lot. I suggest the condom. She says yes. I put it on, but before I go in, I use my Carrageenan lubricant for the first time ever. It was amazingly helpful in sliding in; I recommend it highly. Oops, almost forgot to mention: I penetrated her. Sex was good, a solid 30-40 minutes. I experimented with new positioning but nothing beats my adapted missionary (thanks, chase!). I really need to find more ways to fuck, but for now i am content. I cum all over her body. Oh by the way, i ended up taking her bra off mid sex :)

During my standard post sex talk, she mentioned that when she felt my huge penis, she decided she wanted to fuck me. Well, that's not part of game, but sure, i’ll take all the help i could get. She didn't think “i’d seduce her” when she came over (well, that's my job darling, dont worry about it). The most remarkable piece of conversation went something like this:
“I like how every time i called you my boyfriend (a little joke) you corrected me and called yourself my lover. You weren't afraid to say what you want”
“Well, yeah, that's me. I never lie, i never misrepresent. Not sure about other guys”
“Yeah other guys arent man enough”
“Oh well”

Another one:
“Will you be my friend when you go back home?”
“No”
“Omg why?”
“Because im not your friend. Im your lover”

The seductive moment was cut short because we realized she’d parked her car in a wrong place. We went to get it with some lighthearted conversation on the way, with me sliding into her bra and grabbing onto her tasty boobs from time to time. As we got the car, she told me she's dropping me off. I convince her to come over for “only 15 minutes”. She stays for another 50, during which she blows me, gets fucked again, then blows me some more for me to cum, and she swallows like the beautiful loyal girl she is. I really like girls who are as enthusiastic about me as i am about them. She's almost begging me to verbalize commitment, which I appreciate- she truly wants me.

All in all, it was a rather easy lay, yet i did have to overcome some obstacles. The biggest ones were some simple shit tests, and attainability. But it was worth it, as i made her submit quite well, and as a result she is under a strong spell. At one point during sex, she asked “do you like me?”. I assured her i did: I don't know about other guys, but she wouldn't be here if I didn't. She invited me to an event on Saturday, and she beamed when i hinted i might go (i dont know if i would go). So great lay overall, i reached a small landmark number, and with it, my confidence reached another high: i have more and more faith in my ability.
 

Ergon

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kalyan said:
The Spanish could bullshit all they want: they went nowhere near occupying mexico, no. Kalyan dominated that piece, twice, on June 6, 2017.

ahahaha Kalyan El Conquistador. Kudos for showing a fellow country women a good time.

kalyan said:
i hate being discreet, this social circle thing isnt for me! I bid her farewell and left her

I know, right? Doesn't seem like it was the case here, but what I've done before is position myself close (or sometimes the girls is the one who lingers) and engage in conversation with her until everyone leaves and then I number close. Depends on whether people leave soon after class, though. At least that's the case at my studio.
 

kalyan

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Hey ergon,
Send all your countrywomen my way, i have a liking for them.

That is a solid tactic for social circle. You are basically isolating them.. the only problem is you are depending on others to leave, she might be busy and might want to leave sooner (Ideally you don't want to depend on others). But its okay as you should see her again.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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