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Hey guys,
Thinking on the 5 lays Ive had:
1 - A regular FB that lasted 3 months
2 - A ONS
3 - Single Mom of 3
4 - Girl from Park, multiple times having sex but hasnt become a regular FB
5 - girl from college, fucked once
Ignoring 1 and 2, the last 3 I definitely had interest in turning into at least strong FWB relationships. Potentially a GF.
Heres what I understand is the big thing on keeping a girl around:
1. Have sex multiple times quickly (to convert her, 2-3 times)
2. For "converted" girls, using the silent method to maintain interest (i.e. texting/communication)
Heres the issues Ive come across -
#3: had sex and she had work right after. then when I tried to follow up for the next day or asap, she said she had work all next week and couldnt meet. Followed up again a week later, havent heard a response back
#4: was "converted". I didnt apply the silent method admittedly. She got busy and havent heard much from her either
#5: after had sex, she went cold silent for like a week. drove me crazy because I wanted to convert her. she then eventually said shed love to meet again (her initiating this) and I messed it up w a late night call bc I was frustrated at how long she was taking to set up a meeting with me. Later blocked me on all social media n I dont have a way to contact her.
Then another woman I almost slept with had to leave shortly after as well and although I didnt sleep with her (mistake 1) and I pushed her out the door to keep her promise (mistake 2), I also hadnt heard back from her either. Been staying mostly silent more recently in my communication with her
So heres the thing:
- How do you convert quickly when she doesnt spend the night and shes busy the next day or following week and theres a gap between when you can meet again?
- I assume the "silent" method is best once shes converted. Until then, have sex with her again asap. But then how do you not come across needy once youre trying to get her out again asap (i.e. girls youve only slept with once and want to sleep with again)
- how do you deal with girls who go suddenly silent after having had sex? I find it frustrating because it increases the time between when you can have sex with her again and isnt helpful.
Also, if possible, how would you go about handling girls #3 and #4 and how would you get the woman you almost slept with talking again?
Thanks,
NBW
Thinking on the 5 lays Ive had:
1 - A regular FB that lasted 3 months
2 - A ONS
3 - Single Mom of 3
4 - Girl from Park, multiple times having sex but hasnt become a regular FB
5 - girl from college, fucked once
Ignoring 1 and 2, the last 3 I definitely had interest in turning into at least strong FWB relationships. Potentially a GF.
Heres what I understand is the big thing on keeping a girl around:
1. Have sex multiple times quickly (to convert her, 2-3 times)
2. For "converted" girls, using the silent method to maintain interest (i.e. texting/communication)
Heres the issues Ive come across -
#3: had sex and she had work right after. then when I tried to follow up for the next day or asap, she said she had work all next week and couldnt meet. Followed up again a week later, havent heard a response back
#4: was "converted". I didnt apply the silent method admittedly. She got busy and havent heard much from her either
#5: after had sex, she went cold silent for like a week. drove me crazy because I wanted to convert her. she then eventually said shed love to meet again (her initiating this) and I messed it up w a late night call bc I was frustrated at how long she was taking to set up a meeting with me. Later blocked me on all social media n I dont have a way to contact her.
Then another woman I almost slept with had to leave shortly after as well and although I didnt sleep with her (mistake 1) and I pushed her out the door to keep her promise (mistake 2), I also hadnt heard back from her either. Been staying mostly silent more recently in my communication with her
So heres the thing:
- How do you convert quickly when she doesnt spend the night and shes busy the next day or following week and theres a gap between when you can meet again?
- I assume the "silent" method is best once shes converted. Until then, have sex with her again asap. But then how do you not come across needy once youre trying to get her out again asap (i.e. girls youve only slept with once and want to sleep with again)
- how do you deal with girls who go suddenly silent after having had sex? I find it frustrating because it increases the time between when you can have sex with her again and isnt helpful.
Also, if possible, how would you go about handling girls #3 and #4 and how would you get the woman you almost slept with talking again?
Thanks,
NBW
