Calls & Texts Keeping interest over the holidays

[Amadeaus]

Ill try to keep this as short as possible... I met a girl last week and had some mind blowing sex with her over the weekend. A couple days later, she went home for the holidays (where her BF also lives).

I didn't get her number b/c I didnt want to be texting her while she is home the BF and Im not all that great at texting anyway.

Needless to say, I got a text from her last night. I guess she got my number from our mutual friend. I kept it pretty short, asked how her holidays are and how the plane ride was. Told her I had a couple glasses of wine with my friend and was going to bed, then she said good night.

My plan was to enjoy the holidays, maybe meet other girls and just see her when she gets back. Im definitely looking forward to her getting back though and I don't really care if she breaks up with her BF or not. We got along really well and the sex was great, which is satisfying enough for me.

I've gotten to where I really try to only text a girl to set up a meet up, so I don't really know how to keep her interested for a couple weeks.

 

[Just_Dave]

Hmph, this is a tricky situation but I will take a stab at it. However I want to ask you some questions to clarify before I blinding comment.

Do you just want a casual relationship?

Or an actual boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with her?

General Answer:
Text her neutral messages during Christmas and New Years to gauge her interests, but keep it short like you mentioned cause you don't want her boyfriend to draw suspicion.

Other comments:
If you slept and if the sex was great for the both of you, and I can tell this because she did detective work to get your number! So, if anything she's already interested, you just want to play it cool and relax. Don't over think it, but do answer my questions so I can give a more detailed response to better weight in on this discussion.

 

[Amadeaus]

Thanks for the input!

Definitely keep it casual for now. I'd be open to something down the road maybe, but i'm not going to pursue a relationship.

 

[Just_Dave]

Thanks for the input!

Definitely keep it casual for now. I'd be open to something down the road maybe, but i'm not going to pursue a relationship.

No worries man it's what I'm here for, let me know how it works out in the future.