Keeping prospects on the "Back Burner"

[Fuck This]

Here lately I've gotten some pings from women in my social circle.

I've got something going with a woman they don't know about from out of the area that is pretty fulfilling. I'm going to keep that going since it is meeting my needs.

But I'd like to have these girls keep orbiting in case that one doesn't work out.

I've had a couple of escalation windows with the local girls I've let go by...and I'm worried they will lose interest. But I don't want to 1)"Pee in the pool" with other women in my social circle or 2) complicate my life dating multiple women in my community.

So how can I keep them warm on the back burner without them friend zoning me? I see them as often as weekly.

 

[Franco]

TwoRocky,

The best way to handle these situations is not to hit these girls up too often -- don't initiate contact with them. But when you do have contact with them, be flirty and sexual, even if it's a "light" amount. Don't ever switch over to a "friend" vibe in front of them because it's going to communicate to them that you've shifted gears and are no longer interested in them.

These types of situations are never guaranteed to last though; if one of the women who has been chasing you happens to sleep with another man she likes (because you never capitalized on her investment), then she'll likely forget about you... at least while she's with that man. If she reaches singledom again, though, and if she had a lot of investment put into you prior to the man she was seeing, then she might make her way back onto your radar of her own accord.

- Franco