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Headed out tonight after feeling a bit nervous... A bit new to night game. I head to a bar I'm pretty familiar with and with some new found knowledge in hand I strike up a conversation with the bartender to get my social momentum up. We have a quick laugh or two and I'm standing at the bar considering my next move.
A cute girl walks up by me and I open her without a second thought. She's into me a bit and a little unsure but I keep a light conversation going, not expecting much as it's my first approach of the night. After about 30 seconds of a conversation she gets distracted with ordering her drinks and I scan the room looking bored. I don't notice her leaving 'til she says bye and sits back at her table. I stay at the bar and explore outside and consider leaving as they're are lots of groups... I'm not used to that.
I stick considering I've just got here and it's not like its going to be any different anywhere else. I find a table check my phone, look up and notice a couple of girls checking me out. I hesitate for a moment but immediately approach to quell it. I introduce myself to the group and the girls take a liking to me. I sit down with them and strike up a friendly, upbeat conversation... Knowing that it'll go well.
Both girls are attracted to me so I keep them on the fence about who I prefer and questions from both sides ensue. Not much flirting happens as I'm sitting opposite them and am breaking myself in, so nerves got the better of me a little. As we talk more of their group arrives and I get introduced to them. The girls attention focuses back on me and some tests follow and I pass them easily... I laugh them off. I relate to one of the girls as she studies in my home town and the other girl I relate to on her course.
As more people arrive the group prepares to move outside at which point I move closer to my chosen girl and say that if she wants me to come she should buy me a drink. She plays it off but a few minutes later outside I have a drink in hand. By this point we're on the peripheral of the group talking and I start encorporating some flirting into the conversation. She denies it at first but after persisting a little she plays along.
I deep dive her a little on her past but I figure out that I'm not too good at rapport as I always believed but I'm managing alright. She tells me a little about why she does what she does, nothing focused on dreams, aspirations or poignant memories but enough to build a couple of connections. She leaves for a bit and I talk to her friends and they all start to take a liking to me, maybe a little flirting but nothing overt or strong enough to really make me notice.
As my girl comes back I notice she's taken her coat off outside, I consider this could be an escalation window, but I'm not certain. There's been little to no touch on her part, I haven't built a strong enough connection and what excuse could she make for leaving? I leave it more from hesitation than experience. She then puts her coat back on and I wait a while before I suggest we find someplace warmer inside. She follows me and we sit down and chill, trading stories. I build more rapport up and escalate my flirting whilst getting more compliance from her. She's loving the flirting, playing with her hair, and touch me on my thigh and holding my hand. So I escalate to asking her the naughtiest thing she's done. She tells me but I barely hear what she says, it's a little loud but I reciprocate with my story about a threesome I had that my housemate walked in on. She slaps me playfully calling me a slag and I use a push-pull to see if I can ramp up her attraction anymore.
I'm feeling like I could pull her so I take the opportunity by suggesting we go somewhere quieter for drinks as I owe her one. She asks a lot of questions and I remain vague but she declines... I drop it after a little persistence. A few minutes later I try again and keep persisting but she is set on staying with her friends. I give her a small kiss... A really brief kiss that leaves her wanting more (I've perfected it by testing it on my girlfriend). She keeps going in for more but I don't give in and lead her outside. She's reluctant to follow at first and says she's going to see her friends, I shrug and walk off, she follows me outside. I call a taxi.
I say give her a few reasons she can use to come back to mine but as the taxi pulls up to the bar but she refuses to get in... I count my losses as she is cute but not amasing. As I get in the taxi she's telling me to text her and what not. Overall I'm pretty happy with the night and got a free drink... It's going well.
A cute girl walks up by me and I open her without a second thought. She's into me a bit and a little unsure but I keep a light conversation going, not expecting much as it's my first approach of the night. After about 30 seconds of a conversation she gets distracted with ordering her drinks and I scan the room looking bored. I don't notice her leaving 'til she says bye and sits back at her table. I stay at the bar and explore outside and consider leaving as they're are lots of groups... I'm not used to that.
I stick considering I've just got here and it's not like its going to be any different anywhere else. I find a table check my phone, look up and notice a couple of girls checking me out. I hesitate for a moment but immediately approach to quell it. I introduce myself to the group and the girls take a liking to me. I sit down with them and strike up a friendly, upbeat conversation... Knowing that it'll go well.
Both girls are attracted to me so I keep them on the fence about who I prefer and questions from both sides ensue. Not much flirting happens as I'm sitting opposite them and am breaking myself in, so nerves got the better of me a little. As we talk more of their group arrives and I get introduced to them. The girls attention focuses back on me and some tests follow and I pass them easily... I laugh them off. I relate to one of the girls as she studies in my home town and the other girl I relate to on her course.
As more people arrive the group prepares to move outside at which point I move closer to my chosen girl and say that if she wants me to come she should buy me a drink. She plays it off but a few minutes later outside I have a drink in hand. By this point we're on the peripheral of the group talking and I start encorporating some flirting into the conversation. She denies it at first but after persisting a little she plays along.
I deep dive her a little on her past but I figure out that I'm not too good at rapport as I always believed but I'm managing alright. She tells me a little about why she does what she does, nothing focused on dreams, aspirations or poignant memories but enough to build a couple of connections. She leaves for a bit and I talk to her friends and they all start to take a liking to me, maybe a little flirting but nothing overt or strong enough to really make me notice.
As my girl comes back I notice she's taken her coat off outside, I consider this could be an escalation window, but I'm not certain. There's been little to no touch on her part, I haven't built a strong enough connection and what excuse could she make for leaving? I leave it more from hesitation than experience. She then puts her coat back on and I wait a while before I suggest we find someplace warmer inside. She follows me and we sit down and chill, trading stories. I build more rapport up and escalate my flirting whilst getting more compliance from her. She's loving the flirting, playing with her hair, and touch me on my thigh and holding my hand. So I escalate to asking her the naughtiest thing she's done. She tells me but I barely hear what she says, it's a little loud but I reciprocate with my story about a threesome I had that my housemate walked in on. She slaps me playfully calling me a slag and I use a push-pull to see if I can ramp up her attraction anymore.
I'm feeling like I could pull her so I take the opportunity by suggesting we go somewhere quieter for drinks as I owe her one. She asks a lot of questions and I remain vague but she declines... I drop it after a little persistence. A few minutes later I try again and keep persisting but she is set on staying with her friends. I give her a small kiss... A really brief kiss that leaves her wanting more (I've perfected it by testing it on my girlfriend). She keeps going in for more but I don't give in and lead her outside. She's reluctant to follow at first and says she's going to see her friends, I shrug and walk off, she follows me outside. I call a taxi.
I say give her a few reasons she can use to come back to mine but as the taxi pulls up to the bar but she refuses to get in... I count my losses as she is cute but not amasing. As I get in the taxi she's telling me to text her and what not. Overall I'm pretty happy with the night and got a free drink... It's going well.
