Kissing a girl in front of another girl you kissed before?

[zqw 10k]

Kissing a girl or multiple girls in front of another girl you kissed before

What are your thoughts on this?
I will probably try this out tonight and I predict that it serves as a wild card: Either by creating competition or by completing demotivating/depressing her.

I think that this shows a lot of dominance and the abundance mentality, but it might be too much and making the girl go ice cold, filled with resentfulness.

I also think it depends on age and how the girl thinks about you, the girl I will try this on is a very popular girl here and she has a boyfriend (but kissed anyways due t persistence). I am rather scarce as I leave this place in 2 months and I am quite exotic as I come from 12 thousand kilometers away.

What do you guys think? To try or not to try?
I'll give some feedback about it in 20 hours from this post time

 

[NarrowJ]

I will probably try this out tonight and I predict that it serves as a wild card: Either by creating competition or by completing demotivating/depressing her.

The former is what it actually does (make them jealous, create competition, serves as preselection), while the latter is how they try to outwardly act (they'll act like they don't care at first and shrug it off and give you less attention, and then at some point they switch gears when the attraction boost kicks in).

I can't believe I used to buy into this and act like a good little boy in front of my GF's and even ex-GF's to "protect their feelings", when in fact it basically just gets them wetter than a Tsunami.

What do you guys think? To try or not to try?
I'll give some feedback about it in 20 hours from this post time

Do it!


J.J.

 

[zqw 10k]

Hmm interesting and great reply!

I tried this out with another girl not long ago (but which I didn't kiss, only get a number)
And exactly as you said she first seemed like she didn't care. When I finally found her, she was really warm and open to me, showed me my WhatsApp picture and said she found it really hot (or something similar because I speak broken Spanish haha). Then she had to leave as there were customers and she is a waitress at the bar/club and gave me a kiss on the cheek as she couldn't do more without losing her job.

Was fun but now she doesn't answers now as her boyfriend broke up with her and I guess she needs some time?

But this night will be crazy:
Both the girl from my first post who I kissed and has a boyfriend and the girl in this post work there.
I will try to talk a bit with both and try to make that other girl interested again, so she starts chasing.
At the end of the night I will go to the girl of my first post, kiss her when she is outside and see where we can move to. I now I can lay her but I have horrible logistics: She is with a friend in her apartment, I am with 4 other guys in mine and public sex is almost impossible: No much private places as the parks are mostly open and the one that are more private like the forest is very dangerous to go there.

I'll post the result here when it has been done and what happened.

 

[ray_zorse]

The other night I was on a date with my gf in a restaurant, and I saw a table of 3 hotties who were bringing the party and just crying out to be gamed... restaurant was nearly empty and they were creating a big party involving the staff and shouting them drinks and stuff, I'm sure they would have welcomed more male companionship... but I pussied out on the approach with the excuse I was spending quality time with my gf (details in my journal). Drexel, I know you don't really do gf or restaurant dates, but nevertheless, in this situation what would you have done? Do you think my gf would have got hornier if I'd flirted with the other girls? Should I have brought her over to their table and inserted us both into the party? Or should I have just left her at our table nearby and gone over by myself? Or just left it alone... advice for next time?
Ray

 

[Franco]

ray,

Do you think my gf would have got hornier if I'd flirted with the other girls? Should I have brought her over to their table and inserted us both into the party? Or should I have just left her at our table nearby and gone over by myself? Or just left it alone... advice for next time?

Rarely is this ever okay with your girlfriend unless you've agreed beforehand that you'll be approaching other women in front of her (usually to try to get a threesome or something of that nature). If your girlfriend and you agreed to exclusivity, however, this is likely just going to cause a ton of drama.

Remember, the genuine man "speaks softly but carries a big stick."

- Franco

 

[ray_zorse]

I see. Thanks Drexel, and Franco.

She knows we are not exclusive. So I did that part right. But by my actions (e.g. this dinner date) I've set a bf frame. I discussed with her that very thing (picking up a girl for a threesome, and a little about PU and self improvement) and she wasn't super keen, however it is going to happen and I am sure she will enjoy it when it does. You're right though, she needs to be told in advance what is happening and that we will be back to normal dating mode after we accomplish this, so she does not feel her status with me is under threat. So the occasion I mentioned was probably not a good time to break circle and start gaming the other chicks I think.

Ray