Knowing the demographics: What kind of girls do you do well with and why?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Before I proceed I want to say some things which are attractive to girls are universal: Good looks, high status, confidence, and to an extent money.

I don't think seduction often talks about this enough but different girls are different. Some of my friends do amazing with girls seem nerdy but crash with any girl that is a part of the popular crowd. I have found that overtime we all find our niche and manage to do well in it, some guys can do well with various kinds of girls though. It is one of the less talked about topics in seduction that can get politically incorrect but I have found that each person is unique. I am posting this based on the past thread by Marty saying he struggled with undergraduate students and other similar threads by guys saying they struggle with certain kinds of girls. We have a good circle of guys who seem to be experienced with women so I thought I would add this thread. By posting this thread I would think that we could all come together, talk about what kind of girls we attract, and give a reason as to why we attract them so that way a guy who might be into those kinds of girls (say girls from Japan) might have an idea on what to go off of.

Because I am the OP, I will go first.

I have done well with girls from various groups over the years even though I am a late bloomer. Right now I am not far along enough to know what my niche is but cute girls who are more shy and introverted take interest in me and I have had a lot of luck in this category. I also notice that I do well with women from minority groups and foreign girls more than your typical yuppie.

As for why.

I am described as more understanding and "real" from a lot of people that know me. People do say I am attractive a few times too. Some Black and latin girls tell me that I am more "real". Funny thing is I am not one of those White guys who tries hard to act tough or be like Macklemore. I grew up in a smaller city in Kansas without much to do and I was not that privileged growing up so I had the working class mentality as a kid. Sometimes I feel like I can relate better to working class people, people in urban areas, and immigrants better than I can relate to most privileged people.

 

[Eric]

My niche is crazy girls. Not going to pussy-foot around on that one. I love 'em.

The crazier the more interesting, I get bored with normal girls. I look at normal stable relationships and can't imagine what it's like to be in one, I'd tear my head out. I like the extreme ends of the spectrum, so either extremely crazy independent or extremely submissive (think stereotypical japanese woman).

This means I date the successful, driven, independent, and hard hitting girls... Who hit HARD (even in the literal physical sense, not just the emotional or career wise), and play hard, but I enjoy eccentric people in my life. Pretty much every girl I have dated has baggage. It's always a huge learning experience for me, which is why I do the things I do.

I do get fed up with it sometimes though, but I much prefer it over anything less.

Actually, I find crazy girls to be easier to manage (and more predictable). It's easy for me to understand the reasons behind why they do things. They play the game more often than the normals, so it's easy to read them and their intentions.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Eric, why do you think you attract these girls?

 

[mindful]

Great topic. This is gone through in depth in the book "Models" by Mark Manson.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I posted this thread with the idea in mind that guys who are successful with a certain group of women could come together and share why they think they have the success they are having. So far it has not necessarily worked out that way but I am remaining hopeful.

 

[Grand Pooba]

I've noticed that I attract and tend to do best with innocent girls that are ready to experience "being bad." Basically, inexperienced girls that want more out of their dating and experience with men, especially sexually. I tend to bring them out of their shells and awaken them. Alas, in this way you also miss out on experiencing the best they have to offer.

 

[Flames]

All sorts personality-wise, weird thing is they all start acting the same eventually.

Looks wise I've broadened my horizons in recent years, though I've tended to go younger ill still have a few older girls on the hook.

 

[Eric]

Eric, why do you think you attract these girls?

I think it's genetic. My family is pretty eccentric. My mother is a "crazy" girl. My sister has the same preference as well, and she runs polyamorous relationships like I do. Probably a case of like attracts like.

 

[Ross]

I do better with younger girls. Anywhere from 17-28.

It's not that they're my preference, per se. More so that I am younger-looking, and most of the time when I approach women who are older than 25 they'll comment on how young I look. The glory of old acne scars, light-colored hair, and a baby face, I suppose.

Besides the age factor, I almost always do better with Asian girls. I have no idea why this is, but Asian girls just love to approach me or position themselves near me. It's not even that I'm at an ethnically diverse college or anything, they just gravitate over to me and make things exceedingly easy. Though, be warned, they LOVE to put up a shy sort of LMR.

Funny enough, the girls I do well with aren't always the ones that I enjoy the most. I like women who are smart, well-learned and excited about life. Usually this lends itself to successful women in their early-mid twenties.

 

[Eternity]

White girls. Blonde hair, blue eyes mostly. IDK, must be something about me or something. It's the type i go for anyway so it works out.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I like the purpose of this thread but I don't think most players will be able to tell you why they do so well with a certain niche, either they don't know or they prefer not to tell. For me, I don't care and want all guys to do well so here I go.

My results have been well with almost all kinds of girls I have gone after and even those that I did not prefer. Will try to break it down the best I can.

Me: I am a Desi (brown) male who is over 6 ft tall and consider myself good looking. Do my best to dress the part and fit in.

Now for the girls I have done well with and why.

Black and Latin girls: I never got why this is at first but I have realized I am more extroverted than most guys and tend to speak my mind. Don't get pushed around easily and can come off as dominant at times which gets the attention of girls from those 2 groups from my experience.

Trendy White girls: The kind of girls almost every guy wants, for some reason I do well with them. Unlike most men of my background I care about my style and appearance so this really makes me stand out and gets me more attention. Just this morning I had saw a blonde with hipster glasses, pretty face, and nice body look at me and smile. Was too busy to make a move though but I am sure I will see her again.

European girls: I have done well with most of them because I am more interested in their culture and have stayed in Europe before, unlike most American girls, I have noticed that European girls are into more of the introverted and less outgoing guys.

Asian and Brown girls (South asian and Arabic): Compared to most men of my background, I am relatively good looking, at least in the top 20 percent. On top of that my posture and dominant attitude is not really seen as much which peaks the interest of these girls. I have been with Persian and Asian girls who openly told me they are just not into men of my background.

Redheads/Gingers: Just had to share this even though this category of girls is rare. Might be due to my complexion but I notice that redheads love men with darker features. I have a short Pakistani friend who is dating a cute redhead taller than he is and I have seen a few with Asian, Latino, and darker featured White men. If you are an Asian guy with a thing for White girls, try your luck with a redhead.

Now if I had to pick a group of girls I do poorly with I would say it is White girls who are more into the country music scene and rich girls in general (ones who drive nice cars) though the girl I am with right now is from a well off family. Makes me think why I am posting on a seduction site though I am in a relationship............

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

If younger girls are into you then that means you have more of the pretty boy look going for you.

 

[MisterX]

I'm doing best with innocent,shy,inexperienced and really cute girls, like ozzo. But also really hot ones that are experienced and are open about their sexuality(though those are rare cause there aren't much of them).

I totally get blow with more normal girls(normal means normal on the sexual experience scale) who are not too innocent or much experienced. Also in the looks department the really cute once like me, the really hot ones like me. But those 6-7-8s, or the ones who put much work to appear better looking, really blow me off.
Idk why that is. Is it that the girls that I've run into and that like me happened to be those kinds, simply by chance? Or if there is sth more there.

It's super weird - the hot sexual ones like me, the innocent inexperienced ones like. More average girls that have had 2-3 boyfriends and have slept with between 5-7 guys.. seriously don't like me .

I wouldn't mind but there are a lot more average experienced girls, than hot experienced or cute innocent ones.

Any thought why this might be?

 

[Grand Pooba]

But also really hot ones that are experienced and are open about their sexuality(though those are rare cause there aren't much of them).

It's super weird - the hot sexual ones like me, the innocent inexperienced ones like. More average girls that have had 2-3 boyfriends and have slept with between 5-7 guys.. seriously don't like me .

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Dude same here. How funny. Lately I have been doing ridiculously well with very sexually open attractive and independent women, ages 26-34 typically, who appreciate my directness and honesty. They tend to be very sexually experienced and know what they want out of it.

As of late I have been blowing out more with the inexperienced girls, typically because those ones are not ready to move fast. I do well with innocent girls that are tired of being so innocent, though.

 

[Thinkingenigma]

I tend to do well with the more fetishized demographics.

Asian Girls- Literally every girl I've ever had any ongoing relationship with has been some sort of asian girl (except for my first GF, but let's not talk about that shall we? lol). The girl I think of most fondly was American by culture, Chinese by birth. I've also dated girls from Malaysia, Japan, Korea, and the Philippines (not bad considering that I found most of them in a small city in TN, haha). I think I do well with these girls because they're the easiest for me to treat like silly kids. Most of them are cute as hell, and it's really hard for me to be intimidated by them. Thus, I come across as more dominant.

Alt-punk girls. Think crazy colored hair, tattoos, etc. I've found more of these girls in LA ironically enough. I move to a place with one of the biggest populations of Asian girls, and suddenly I'm picking up white chicks, lol. Funny thing about that is that I'm a pretty clean-cut dude. White, 6'2", Glasses, short hair, no tats, preppy-grunge style. I really don't know why I do well with this demographic. Actually, they either love me or hate me. I think it's because I tend to stay more aloof with this group of girls because I don't want to get sucked into that subculture again.

Geek Girls- Often overlapping with the Alt-punk demographic, I get along with these girls because I'm a geek at heart and I relish in it. Nothing like discussing the more risque moments in Game of Thrones to get one of these girls going, haha

The really inexperienced chicks love me, while the more liberated types still avoid me for some reason. It's kind of a burden honestly. People talk about how much they would love to go around deflowering virgins, but it's more work than average guys think. It really takes a lot of emotional capital to do right by them and make sure you don't hurt them. I wish I was pulling the more experienced girls so I wouldn't have to worry about it as much. Plus, you usually can't move quite as fast with them, so you end up walking the tightrope between making them comfortable with you, yet still moving things forward before they get bored.

Still having trouble with the Blonde Bombshell types and the Girl Next Door types. These are the chicks I pined over in middle and high school, and I really just want to lay at least one of each just to get it out of my system.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

ThinkingEnigma I share your pain brother. I do want to have consistent success with the blonde bombshell types but I have a bigger handicap as I look foreign (desi) by ethnic appearance. Most of these girls seem to exclusively be into the All American looking guy (white) and in some cases a Black guy, anything inbetween and you don't even register on their radar. Now I have fucked some European girls like that but never really an American girl. At this point I am exclusively chasing these girls every chance I get and coming up short each and every time. What is worse is when they have friends from other races and other kinds of looks who are into me hitting on the girl but I have to turn that down. Like right now I am at a stage where I am aggressively and exclusively chasing the few Blonde bombshells I come across but I strike out every single fucking time. Then this is leading me to being frustrated and helpless. It is like a guy can easily earn a million dollars and get into a top college but winning the heart of a Margot Robbie lookalike is nearly impossible, especially if you are foreign looking.

It is like WTF do these girls want?

 

[Richard]

Latinas - no questions asked! I prefer my women to be from 20-24 - current GF turned 23 last month.

The glory of dating women older than me

One thing with demographics is - even if you know which women you do well with, don't limit yourself to just those women. Approach every girl you find attractive even if she's not your particular specialty

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Latinas - no questions asked! I prefer my women to be from 20-24 - current GF turned 23 last month.

The glory of dating women older than me

One thing with demographics is - even if you know which women you do well with, don't limit yourself to just those women. Approach every girl you find attractive even if she's not your particular specialty

I have found I do well with Latinas too but I have been trying to go for girls I usually do poorly with. No surprise, I still do poorly with them and it is crushing me

 

[Richard]

I have found I do well with Latinas too but I have been trying to go for girls I usually do poorly with. No surprise, I still do poorly with them and it is crushing me

Maybe it's because you're going in thinking that you usually do well with those particular women

You showed your mindset here in your writing.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I have found I do well with Latinas too but I have been trying to go for girls I usually do poorly with. No surprise, I still do poorly with them and it is crushing me

Maybe it's because you're going in thinking that you usually do well with those particular women

You showed your mindset here in your writing.

Can you please clarify what you were trying to say? Thanks