Hey all,
I was writing in my journal about a girl I used to have a thing with and came to a conclusion. I have long had the problem of falling in love with girls that I really liked. I've always been fine hooking up with less-than-great women, but when it came to a stunner, I'd get somewhere like kissing/maybe sex but then end up chasing her away and ruining things. This happened a few times, I think each time with the (at the time) sexiest girl I'd hooked up with. As a result, when I approach women I usually don't go for the girls who I really find attractive. Because I knew that if I actually wanted to continue a relationship, I would blow it. I'm finally at a point where I can say to myself "ok, I'm ready to go find some great women to have in my life" and be able to keep them around. Even if I'm just being optimistic, I'm headed in that direction. My emotions are much more in check, and I don't lose myself over women anymore (I like to think).
Did any of you ever go through a similar process of messing things up with the girls you were most into? Or when you pulled like a 10 for the first time and were wondering where the hell do I go from here? I know you should treat all girls the same, it's something I'm finally getting better at. I want to know if anyone struggled with this. Curious if any of you might have a story or two to relate.
Thanks,
Jimmy
I was writing in my journal about a girl I used to have a thing with and came to a conclusion. I have long had the problem of falling in love with girls that I really liked. I've always been fine hooking up with less-than-great women, but when it came to a stunner, I'd get somewhere like kissing/maybe sex but then end up chasing her away and ruining things. This happened a few times, I think each time with the (at the time) sexiest girl I'd hooked up with. As a result, when I approach women I usually don't go for the girls who I really find attractive. Because I knew that if I actually wanted to continue a relationship, I would blow it. I'm finally at a point where I can say to myself "ok, I'm ready to go find some great women to have in my life" and be able to keep them around. Even if I'm just being optimistic, I'm headed in that direction. My emotions are much more in check, and I don't lose myself over women anymore (I like to think).
Did any of you ever go through a similar process of messing things up with the girls you were most into? Or when you pulled like a 10 for the first time and were wondering where the hell do I go from here? I know you should treat all girls the same, it's something I'm finally getting better at. I want to know if anyone struggled with this. Curious if any of you might have a story or two to relate.
Thanks,
Jimmy
