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Lack of attraction

Man-O

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Dunno why, lately I've had problems getting attracted to girls.
I make sure to not masturbate too much.
I try to be intimate with touch when I see window for it but even then I don't feel much.
When I talk with them I feel like I'm not getting much back from what I give and when deep diving I feel like their answers are weak (omg I sound depressed).
What happens I instead spend more time chilling with friends and stuff when out. I remember months back whenever I tried something new I was full of motivation but now I feel I have to refine what I'm less than mediocre at to improve.

Suggestions of what could help getting my attraction up would help as my motivation is lacking when attraction to picking up girls is :)
 

idioticwisdom

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Honestly, just try to work on your fundamentals and learn about the subtleties of attractive conversation with women. If that doesn't work, just try to live passionately everyday while still applying the lessons you receive on GC. What I mean is that you should make an effort to get a little dose of adventure everyday. You can start small (example: taking a bike ride through parts of town you don't know). What matters is that you become a man who reaches for the great things life has to offer that nobody else has the guts to try. I'm trying this right now and it brings only benefits to one's life. Mix that with the material you learn here, and it's the bomb for game and girls. Also, if you're new to this, don't give up!!! Lays will eventually happen with great consistency if you put the efforts in.
 
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Man-O

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Fundamentals won't help me feel more attracted towards girls when I'm trying to pick them up. In all honesty my fundamentals haven't been much better than they are now (though there's still room for much more).

The problem is the motivation is falling and another problem is that I too seldomly give compliments, which I think are needed.

Might try tomorrow going for quicker escalation to see if I get in the mood, and just take what I feel are risks in generel.

Still advice from ppl who felt they were in slump and got out of it would be nice ^^
 
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