Lack of Seating Tactic

[Desert Eagle]

I know that there's a lot of talk about trying to limit the seating arrangements in your place of living so that you can more effortlessly get the girls to sit in the best possible position for escalation.

I'm considering downsizing from a couch in my current living room to a one-person leather chair. Because of the lack of anywhere else in the room for her to sit, she'd have to stand awkwardly or sit on my lap. Imo this is better than the long couch, where the natural inclination is to leave some space in between the two of us.

I'm wondering if anyone has used the technique of getting a girl to sit on their lap. To me it feels very dominant and naturally puts the two of you in a position where you have to escalate. I know girls have used it as a technique on me, to get me aroused, and shocker it worked lol. Only issue is that I am skinny... so when a tall girl that probably weighed the same as me sat on my lap I got a dead leg. Guess I need to lift more!

 

[Rhyme]

Eagle,

It depends. If you haven't escalated physically with her before getting into the living room, she will most likely reject the offer. Yet, if both of you have a connection you might pull it off. Hell, then it might come in handy only to have the bed in the living room.

I suggest you keep the couch though, it gives you and her space to converse and a comfortable place to have a smooth escalation.

Jaime

 

[Desert Eagle]

Eagle,

It depends. If you haven't escalated physically with her before getting into the living room, she will most likely reject the offer. Yet, if both of you have a connection you might pull it off. Hell, then it might come in handy only to have the bed in the living room.

I suggest you keep the couch though, it gives you and her space to converse and a comfortable place to have a smooth escalation.

Jaime

Sitting on my lap doesn't feel like that much of an escalation. Even if she'd reject the offer, I think persistence would be quite easy to pull off.

Note that I'm really only ever bringing girls back to my place to stay for a while if I want to escalate. After having a girl over here and having her sit opposite me on my couch, I realized that there could be an easier way that simply made it feel natural to escalate. Inching my way over to her or sitting close to her when I could obviously sit at a normal distance apart feels forced. Sitting on my lap feels more natural, because it's the only viable option for seating.

P.S., this couch smells. That's another reason why I want to get rid of it lol.

 

[ray_zorse]

I'm with Jaime on this one. Unfortunately once they get it into their head they are not going to do something, often no amount of direct pressure will change their mind, as it becomes a matter of principle... this happened the other day when I tried to get a cute Thai girl to sit beside me on a park bench, her friend was sitting on my other side no worries, anyway I persisted cos there seemed to be nothing untoward about her sitting there, but ended up looking like a dick.

So best to avoid these situations in the first place by escalating in a smoother manner.

I have had mixed results with the "only my bed as a place to sit" strategy, some girls don't seem to notice any connotation of sex and will sit there, chat, drink their drink etc no worries. Others won't go near it, wonder how to handle this...??

cheers, Ray

 

[Rhyme]

Sitting on my lap doesn't feel like that much of an escalation. Even if she'd reject the offer, I think persistence would be quite easy to pull off.

Note that I'm really only ever bringing girls back to my place to stay for a while if I want to escalate. After having a girl over here and having her sit opposite me on my couch, I realized that there could be an easier way that simply made it feel natural to escalate. Inching my way over to her or sitting close to her when I could obviously sit at a normal distance apart feels forced. Sitting on my lap feels more natural, because it's the only viable option for seating.

P.S., this couch smells. That's another reason why I want to get rid of it lol.

Then there is no doubt you should throw it out. Comfort is key

Eagle, if she sits on your lap there is no need to escalate, you might as well take her to bed instantly. The event would be like climbing a mountain from the very bottom in just one movement (without having to go through the climbing). So, go ahead, give it a try, ain't nothing gonna be lost.

Ciao for now,
Jaime