FR++ Last Minute Resistance Advice

[puffmagicdragon]

This is my first post, so a quick bit about myself before I ask for some help to give you a frame of reference. I hope it doesn't get too long, but I've never posted on a forum anywhere before and don't know all the etiquette.

I found this site at an upper-intermediate level in seduction the summer before my first senior year of college (yes, there will be a victory lap) a few months ago. I am a very attractive guy (many girls used to ask why I was socially low value considering how attractive I am) but had a... unique... childhood and couldn't connect with my peers until college, thus not developing the necessary social skills.

I learned through trial and error, eventually getting to the point where I would get beautiful women interested and entertained regularly and would sometimes sleep with them, but it was on their terms. I had all the necessary tools to consistently get beautiful women drooling over me, but not the social savvy to do it.

This all changed when I found girlschase.com a few months ago, and now my social value has SKYROCKETED, maybe more so with men than women even. The best part is that I am exactly who I always was, just much better at coming off as who I really am. Thanks to this site, I am teetering on the precipice of being an advanced seducer and having continual abundance. So that's where I'm coming from.

Last night however, I encountered some last minute resistance that I couldn't squash. She was very sexy with the exact body type I like, though her face could have been a bit prettier. 9 body, 7.5 face, putting me at higher value than her.

We met in a popular college bar and I moved her within the first five minutes. Deep dived for maybe 20 minutes outside. Got lots of investment, set a strong sexual frame from the get go, and she was very about it (lots of touching, feeling my abs and getting called out for it playfully, convincing me she had a nice ass and posing, she was forcing the interaction, ect). I also made sure to let her know that I wish women were more sexual and I hate that society forces them to suppress it, she totally agreed.

Within thirty minutes of meeting her, on a high point I grabbed her hand and said, "Lets go." and got a cab (the recent hurdle I overcame, getting her out of there on my terms. and the floodgates are really starting to open because of it). We stayed very fun and sexual the whole cab ride, got to my house and went straight to my room and started hooking up. Within five minutes we were naked.

I almost always do the same routine (not really a routine, just a natural progression I've and most of you have probably found on our own) of make out, feel up, dry hump/rub her pussy outside her clothes, clothes off, then rub the clit, with a little variation. Once I rub her clit they are too horny to stop usually. (not bragging obviously, anyone can do it).

However, this time she seemed so horny that once we were naked and dry humping, I skipped rubbing her clit at all and went to put a condom on. This was probably the first mistake I made with her all night.

The second I put it on here's what happened

Her: "I'm not going to have sex with you. I just don't do it on the first night."

I stopped touching, calmly and warmly lied down and acted like friends.

Me: "That's fine, we can just be friends."

Her: "Its not that, I like you. I just don't sleep with a guy the first night I meet him."

Me: That's cool, I just feel like if we can't keep our hands off of each other than maybe the passion isn't there.

Her: I obviously want to, I came back here and look where we are. But maybe you're right. Our conversation is great, maybe we should just be friends.

She called my bluff!

We talked for a few minutes and I tried again but she WAS NOT HAVING IT, wouldn't even let me kiss her because "she knows where that leads."

She got dressed but laid back down. I turned the lights off and tried again but still NOTHING AT ALL. We spooned all night and I was obviously fully aroused against her ass, but I was barred out and drunk so I passed out quickly.

We woke up and I tried again but she was even less interested this time, wouldn't even let my erect penis touch her ass/leg for too long. We teased and she was still warm, but very cold sexually.

I gave her a ride home and still warm/open and easy to talk to, and when I dropped her off she said nice meeting you (genuinely) and I got her number. Asked if she was going out tonight and she said probably and I should text her. She gave me an awkward hug and then, gone.

I still want to get with her but I can meet more women tn so not really worried about it.

What could I have done differently? How Should I go about trying to sleep with her from here?

 

[The Tool]

Re: Last Minute Resistance Advice

Hey Puff.

You did everything great up untill you put the connie on.
Should of done your escalation routine you talked about and made her beg you to fuck her. Or at least get your fingers inside because then its 99% your going in.

Now as for after you put the connie on. could have possibly salvaged it -
Should have just gottin into bed with her and calmly said. " fine there wont be any sex unless you say so" and continued to escalate I.e Starting from the beginning then amping it up.


On how to go about it from here. She is going to have her walls up big time.
So just casually get another date/meet with her.

Escalate slowly at first, light kissing and so on. And let it lead it from there.

She said "I dont sleep with guys on the first night" well Its not the first night any more

 

[puffmagicdragon]

Thanks for the quick reply

Yea I knew the second she shut it down I should have escalated like I always do rather than jumping the gun and lost my swag then and there.

I've noticed that as I try to work some of this stuff in with things I already know, the first time or two it comes awkwardly and kills it. I realize now it wasn't the right time to pull out the "we can just be friends" tactic. Funny thing is if this happened before I read girlschase, I would have just continued escalating rather than trying to work her and I think she could tell I was trying to manipulate her and caught me.

Probably not even worth pursuing at this point, too much effort to win her back but I'll shoot her a text when I go out and see what happens.

Live and learn.

 

[Butch]

Hey puff, how did she give you the lmr? Did she push you away or closed her legs or just verbal?

 

[puffmagicdragon]

Verbal, which usually doesn't slow me at all.

Most of the time I'll try for at least like 30 minutes, but I had just read the article about using the "we can just be friends" for LMR and since a lot of the stuff I've been reading on here has been gold I was too excited to try it. Lesson learned.

 

[Butch]

It seems like she just wanted some control of the situation, if y'all were both naked you should of just manhandled her and kept going like if she is just being silly. As long as they don't physically push you or get up and leave, never quit pushing! She wanted some control and you gave it to her.
But I think you pretty much diagnosed your error.
Never leave out foreplay! Lol
One thing I started doing in high school was to leave my condoms under the mattress on the edges, so while I'm on my knees on the floor devouring her, I just reach under and slip it on with out her ever knowing next thing you know your inside her.