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BarryS1

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On a sidenote to the LR, this is the 4th girl in the last 5 weeks I’ve banged. The results have absolutely exploded since I got back from vacation in SF doing day game for 2 days. Honestly when I go in my car now, I see long pieces of hair everywhere. I clean it up, but they keep popping up again and again :p

Here’s the series of events:

-Daygame approach
-Sexual convo in restaurant
-Asked to go over to her house after the talking dirty part about pushing her against the wall. Said that is a fantasy, but its a reality and didn’t want to do that.
-Went to the parking lot and she refused to go in my car.
-Parked at park and walked around holding hands and waists.
-Make-out session interrupted by walker.
-Went to car and started making out, fingering, and bj.
-Drove our cars and parked in front of elementary school - more fingering, making out and bj.
-Went back to the first parking lot, she parked next to me to block ppl. - making out, fingering, and bj cuming. Talked about our fantasies.
-Went to her car for a quick fuck, then before I could cum she was paranoid and wanted to leave.

6/11

I was working from home that day when I decided to run day game at a home goods store about 10 miles from my house. I live in a suburban area, so I had to go far to get away from all the married women in my area. The latina was the second girl I approached that day, the first being at another home goods store. It was 12 o’clock when I spotted a latina in yellow nurse scrubs looking at cosmetics in the health aisle. She was maybe early 30s, late 20s, c-cups, 5’4’’, big ass, and blonde highlights. I tried pre-opening with eye flirting, but she had headphones on and was intently looking at a bottle.

I was wearing fashionable David Bitton jeans, a green henly, tungsten rings on each finger, tungsten bracelet, and white rubber watch. I didn’t approach at first not because of anxiety, but because of choice - there were soooo many attractive older women out that day. I was in the aisle anyway and opened indirect-direct:

Me: Oh, hello!

Girl: (Looks over)

Me: Do you think this sea sponge is like a loofa? Hard to tell with these organic products.

Girl: Yeah, you put soap on it. Its a loofa. (Said matter-of-factly! This girl was no bull-shit)

Me: Hmmm (pregnant pause) You think so? The sponge seems a little scratchy, not used to what I’m seeing.

Girl: A sea sponge is a natural loofa. (Still serious and not even looking at me anymore)

Me: Wow, you sure know stuff about health. I like a girl who knows how to stay healthy, there’s so many scams out there.

Girl: Oh, thanks (snapped out of auto-pilot and looks at me).

Me: I’ve never seen someone shop while listening to music before. What you got playing? (true story on my part)

Girl: I’m not listening to music. I am looking up the product online to see if its any good.

Me: Oh? And what you looking at?

Girl: (Starts talking about this oil to put on her face and hands that sells for $20 for a 4 oz. bottle).

Me: Actuallyyy, before you get too far. (Putting my hand on her shoulder) I came up to you to say how attractive you are…you have SUCH great skin.

Girl: (unfazed by the compliment, but put on a little smile) Oh, thank you.

Me: My name’s Barry by the way.

Girl: Hi, I’m X.

Me: Are you a nurse? I don’t see any hospitals around here!

I guessed right she’s a nurse, but she is working at a doctors office today. She came to the home goods store because she works nearby and is on lunch break. Turns out she works out 5 days a week at the gym next to the home goods store. I assumed she lived nearby because she went to the gym there - actually lives FAR away (Big mistake on my part about not screening where she lives). I ask if she wanted to grab a bite to eat next time she gets out on lunch break, she agrees and puts her number in my phone. This was one of the lowest energy approaches I’ve ever done and was almost shocked she said yes. I didn’t banter, push-pull, or set any real sexual frames!

Here’s the txt message:

Me: X, nice meeting you today! Save my number - Barry =) (4:55pm)

Girl: Nice meeting you too. :) (5:35pm)

6/15

Me: X, hope you had a good weekend! What’s your schedule like this week? Lets grab food like we talked about (5:03pm)

Girl: It’s a good weekend thanks! I’m free for lunch t-th or we can meet mon after 5:30pm

Me: How does Monday at 6pm sound? I thought lunch breaks were for the gym ;)

Girl: Haha..true, but I’ allowed to make an exception.

Me: Great, how about we go to X restaurant off X street?

Girl: Perfect!


6/16 6p.m. Restaurant

The restaurant is a cheap Italian restaurant at around $10 a plate, so I was comfortable going there. I wasn’t going to pay for her food anyway, but wanted something low-key near the place we met. I walked in the door and she already got a booth table. She was wearing a low-cut pink shirt exposing almost her whole breasts, but still wore black nurse scrubs for pants.

Girl: Hey! How are you? (medium energy with a smile)

Me: X, I’m just doing wonderful today! How’s your day so far?

Girl: It’s gooood, thanks!

Me: That shirt is a radiant color, it looks good on you!

Girl: Is green your favorite color? I remember that shirt, it brings out your eyes.

Me: Why yes it is! (I fucked up and wore the same damn green henley that I met her in. Another second later I realized I wore the EXACT same outfit/accessories too :p)

The waitress interrupted and handed us our menus and I started the conversation. I began doing something that I started noticing in January when going on dates - deep-dive on one topic, pick something sexual about it, and roll with it the entire conversation. The only thing I asked her was, “What do you like to do in your spare time?”

Me: Must be intense going to the gym 5 days a week. Don’t you have any fun?

Girl: (Started telling a story about how she loves the beaches in NorCal compared to SoCal because they are tranquil).

Me: Now your getting me imagining you in a bikini..

Girl: (Laughs and tells me how she ONLY wears a one piece to cover up)

Me: Just a one piece?

Girl: Yeah

Me: (It wasn’t going anywhere so I turned up the heat) I think the only tranquil beaches around here are the nude beaches. Ever go to those?

Girl: Okay, I don’t tell a lot of people this, but I visited a nude resort by the beach one time. (Started telling a story about going to the resort and being disgusted with all the adults being nude around the children. She said nudes were everywhere, at the bar, tennis court, restaurant, ext).

Me: You’re making it hard to eat my pasta. I’m imagining us nude at the table now.

Girl: What!? Wow! (started laughing)

Me: Don’t worry, the pasta bowl is tall and covers your boobs from here.

Girl: (Shocked face) Oh, my god! That’s cute! (Looks down and starts laughing to herself)

(This is where she starts putting her foot down)

Girl: I just mentioned the nude resort because you asked. I didn’t know we were going to talk about it. I don’t want people to think wrong of me for talking about being at a nude resort.

Me: I think being sexy is a good thing. It’s great that you were open-minded to travel to a place most people haven’t.

Girl: That’s not me though, it was one of those weekends with the girlfriend. I never do anything like that! I don’t want you to think negatively for that .(Stern expression, she was killing the sexual tension).

Me: Well (pregnant pause and look at her from the corner of my eyes) You wanna know what I’m really thinking?

Girl: What are you thinking Barry? (Sarcastic response, but her eyes lit up)

Me: (I couldn’t help but issue a HUGE smile)

Girl: What is it?!

Me: (In the lowest, sexiest voice I could) Okay, X. I’m thinking, that if we weren’t in this restaurant right now (pregnant pause) I would throw you against the wall, run my hands through your hair, and kiss you on the neck.

Girl: (Eyes doubled in size and big laugh) HAHA! Oh, my god your face is getting red!

Me: That’s because I’m telling the truth! (We both laugh together for awhile) Say, how about we call it a night and go to your place and watch a movie? (Most composed face I could muster)

Girl: (2 alligator pause then turned to serious, but excited expression) Oh, my god you ARE serious. What do you mean? Are you talking about jumping into bed together?

Me: Yeah, that seems like a good idea.

Girl: (Starts telling me how I’m an attractive guy, but that we just met. She says that fantasies are nice, but this is reality. If we went out a couple more times that may be a possibility, but she didn’t want to take me home).

Me: I think sex is a good thing. Besides, I can tell you are an open-minded girl. I think its great you like to try things most people would be too prudish to. It’s completely natural to explore that side of ourselves.

Girl: (Starts telling how she is not the type of person who’s adventurous and doesn’t want to have sex right away. )

ON THE PLUS SIDE, SHE DIDN’T SAY SHE DID NOT KNOW ME OR DIDN’T CONNECT WITH ME. This was an internal frame Ricardus talks about and he recommended to give into the frame and not fight it.

Me: Okay.


The Park

We split the bill (to her surprise) and I recommended we drive to the park nearby. She refused to leave her car and get into mine despite my persistence. The park was located next to a community center, so there was a large parking lot with people going in and out of the building. We get out of our car, walk across the street, and I grab her hand. She gives a dead fish grip, but that’s better than nothing ;) I deep-dive and banter more about her job and eventually get my hand around her waist while walking. She doesn’t reciprocate, so I take her hand and wrap it around myself - she squeezes my side immediately. I felt it was the first time she warmed up to me. She starts asking me if I ever had a girlfriend, but I side step it by asking why she wants to know while playfully pushing her away. After a moment of silence, the conversation picks up and she asks another personal questions: how many girls have you been with? I flat-out refuse to answer saying she was asking too many questions and to just enjoy the scenery.

Sidenote: In California, it doesn’t get dark until 9PM during the summer time. It was very bright at 645pm.

We get to the edge of the park where the small exit is with big bushes blocking the road. I sit on the metal railing and tell her to sit by me.

Me: You got me alone at the corner of the park. Did you plan this?

Girl: (Soft, but serious. Looks away ) No, I wasn’t leading you.

Me: With the way you were looking at me in the restaurant (pregnant pause) I’m not sure if I believe you (I put my arm around her waist).

Girl: (Looks towards me) Oh, my god, that’s cute. (Sarcastic)

Me: You know what else I’m thinking. (Manhandle kissed her one time- thanks Franco)

She doesn’t offer any resistance, so I get up and start making out, while she’s sitting on the metal railing. She instantly starts kissing my neck, so I start rubbing her inner thigh and squeeze her ass. A guy walking a guy comes by and shouts, “coming through!” She gets paranoid and so we leave to the original parking lot.


First Parking Lot

I get her in my car, but she’s paranoid as hell saying we can’t do anything because we will get cited for indecent exposure by the police. I put my sun blind up and tell her sternly that no one is around. We start making out with me running my hand through the bottom of her scalp, but she puts resistance up when I rub close to her pussy. She keeps saying how uncomfortable she is being in public, so I put her hand on my dick through my pants. I keep making out and caressing her body (avoiding the boobs) and pull my dick out and put her hand on it. She has rough and dry hands washing her hands all the time as a nurse, but her saliva kept things lubricated.

Girl: That’s a nice dick. (Started playing with it) Look at that vein.

She spits in her hand and starts twirling her finger around the head while looking around anxiously.

Me: I know you wanna suck on it.

Girl: I do (Sternly)

After about 5 minutes of making and her pumping my dick, she tells me to go on the lookout. Without warning, she leans over and starts sucking the head, but she only does it for 5 seconds. She gets paranoid again and says we should stop, but I suggest we go to another parking lot nearby. This happens two more times over the next 10 min. until she gets paranoid again. She gets in her car and we drive separately and park next to an elementary school.


Elementary School

This new parking spot was on a busy street, but she parked parallel behind me and came into my car right away. I suggest we go to go her place instead, but she lives 40 min. away and has 2 guy and 1 girl roommates. I found out she has lived there 5 years and never brought a guy over because her roommates never bring anyone over either. She starts questioning me again about how many girls I’ve been with and if I am clean. I did get a 8 panel test recently and everything came in clean, and she did the same awhile back (didn’t specify the date). She says she never has sex, while laughing about it!

Soon, as I put up my visor she pulls the front of her pants down and tells me to put my hand there. Her pussy is unshaved, but I stick my index and ring finger inside and finger HARD. What started as a small *shlick shlick* of a wet pussy turned into the SOUND OF BOOTS STOMPING IN WET MUD after 5 seconds. I’ve never had a girl COMPLETELY soak my hand before. I did this for about 45 sec. before I stopped and wanted action myself. I would have fingered her longer to make her cum, but wanted my dick sucked before someone came around. I pulled my dick out again and told her no one was around. She leaned over and started sucking on the head with more enthusiasm than before. With one hand, I hold her hair back and with the other I pull her pants down and start rubbing/slapping her ass. I never have felt an ass that toned before NOR as silky smooth - still can’t believe it. It only lasted for about 10 sec. before spotted a couple dudes walking down the road. I tell her to stop and she gets paranoid again, saying she can’t really let go in this type of situation. After the guys pass, I tell her to get back in the car and head to the original parking lot.


First Parking Lot

I pull in the very corner of the parking lot, but wait like 5 min for her to come over again. She pulls up next to me and blocks off viewing eyes with her SUV. She gets out of the car with jogging shorts on and explains how they were completely wet and had to change. She pulls the pants down again, looks around the parking lot and says to put my hand there. Soon as I put my hand on her pussy, she shouts “ouch” and says to go in gentle. As I am making out and running my hands through her scalp, I start fingering her with one finger - and work up to three with two knuckles in (it wouldn’t go in any farther). My hand is cupped at this point and her pussy juice is almost to my thumb. The pussy secretion isn’t viscous and dries up quickly. She opens her eyes a little big and starts looking out of the window - snapping out of the moment. After convincing her AGAIN, I pull out my dick and have her suck on it.

Me: Go down all the way, not just the head.

She can only go down half-way down my shaft until my head hit the back of her throat and did it several more times. I didn’t count how many times, I was too lost in the moment! That’s the farthest I’ve ever gone down a girl’s throat. She starts rubbing my dick off after getting paranoid AGAIN and I tell her I’m cumming, but she didn’t want to swallow. It’s about 830pm at this point and we spend the next hour talking about what we would do to each other if we weren’t in a car. I was kissing her neck, caressing her boobs and ass for the better part of the hour in the front seats. When it gets darker around 930pm, I suggest we go in her car instead. We get in her car and I get in the back seat right away. She gets pissed when I completely take off my pants and she said keep them on incase we get caught. I leave them off anyway! I tell her to get in the backseat and ride me from behind. I have a raging boner without her touching me and I put on the condom myself.

Despite being paranoid about having people see us, she bounced the car HARD with the familiar *shlick shilck* sound starting after just 5 seconds. She couldn’t really get into the zone and she told me to lay on my side. She laid on her side, so I faced her back and started banging her on the side while holding her boobs. I thrusted as hard as I could and the *shlick shlock* sound of her pussy was as loud as ever. I couldn’t do this for more than 10 sec. before she got paranoid again and wanted me to stop. I struggled to maintain an erection with a condom on, but it worked. She rode me facing me this time and I slipped my hands under her sports bra and squeezed as she bounced HARD. Again, it didn’t last longer than 10 sec. before she got paranoid.

Girl: I just can’t get into it. I’m too nervous, someone will see us!

She went into the front seat again, so I had to take off the condom b/c I went flaccid. I kissed her goodbye and she drove off hurriedly. It was 10:40pm

I sent her the after sex text at 1am- Had a good time tonight! Hope you aren’t too tired ;)

I never heard a response back, but I do not want to keep seeing a girl that does not have her own place or feels uncomfortable taking me home. I still live with my parents and they are HORRIBLE hosts, so taking a girl back is not an option.

Overview:

I felt proud of myself for not giving into her requests and maintaining a solid demeanor during the date. She was against me in the beginning and warmed up until the end!

However, I did not feel glad about having sex with her while driving home. However, I do not want to get into a relationship with a girl until I move out of the house. I have a high sex drive and don’t want to hear a girl fucking moan when I bring her home. Since starting the program in August with no prior experience, I’ve laid 7 girls. Since I am getting more experience, I am going to start hitting exclusively on girls around my age (23). That is much harder in my neighborhood, but I need to be dating more girls who are relationship-worthy and not 7-10 years older than me.
 

Richard

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Barry -

This was absolutely beautiful buddy!

Handled this Latina like a true professional - though the paranoia is a bit more "American" than a traditional Latina. Most wouldn't care what was going on around them because when they're in the mood, they are in the fucking mood!

Despite the challenges you pushed through and stole a Latina from me (that's one less apretada, hispana, chocha mojada para mi cuate ;))

-Richard
 

Franco

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Barry,

The whole dinner conversation was fantastic. Way to keep things sexual, even when she tried to divert the topic! The dinner is never about the meal, of course. ;)

It's actually a really good idea to focus on looking for something sexual to talk about once you get to deep-diving on a topic. A lot of beginners make the mistake of getting too caught up in the topic WITHOUT consciously reminding themselves that the goal of the date is to turn things sexual so you can escalate to the next level. It's a great rule of thumb, and I'm glad you're seeing results with it.

It's unfortunate you were never able to get her to let herself go completely, but it sounded like an outlier situation that won't happen to you too often. Keep at it, bud!

- Franco
 

Big Daddy

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Whoa, nice LR! I liked the dialogues very much and even more you being able to remain unfazed at her cold responses.

BarryS1 said:
This was an internal frame Ricardus talks about and he recommended to give into the frame and not fight it.

Man, I miss Ricardus.
 

Mr.Rob

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Barry aren't you the same cat that was fingering girls in the department store 2 minutes after meeting them? I'm almost certain that was you, not that it matters because this is fucking rad!

BarryS1 said:
Me: Oh, hello!Girl: (Looks over)Me: Do you think this sea sponge is like a loofa? Hard to tell with these organic products.
Girl: Yeah, you put soap on it. Its a loofa. (Said matter-of-factly! This girl was no bull-shit)
Me: Hmmm (pregnant pause) You think so? The sponge seems a little scratchy, not used to what I’m seeing.
Girl: A sea sponge is a natural loofa. (Still serious and not even looking at me anymore)
Me: Wow, you sure know stuff about health. I like a girl who knows how to stay healthy, there’s so many scams out there.
Girl: Oh, thanks (snapped out of auto-pilot and looks at me).

This to me was fucking hilarious, I know it probably wasn't meant to be, and in reality was probably just really basic conversation but I thought it was pretty funny.
I mean she didn't even say anything that interesting other than that "a sea sponge is a natural loofa" and you come out and say "wow you sure know stuff about health." I mean that sounds so fucking patronizing to me!

I've been testing, slowly but surely, being more of a dick/asshole around women lately and I think this could be a pretty funny tool for the arsenal. I think it would work best on women such as yours that show no attraction and are giving really lame short answers to do as you did and break them out of autopilot. I want to mess with this I think that's hilarious (though I dunno if you meant it to be).

Anyway yeah the whole conversation over dinner was badass. You kept you eye on the ball and showed no indecision nor "playing not to lose". She could have easily rejected some of the shit you said due to it's explicitness but you didn't care either way you were just balls to the wall. I respect and am inspired by that type of game.

Keep it pimpin, pimpin!

-Rob
 

maximus6004

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Barry, excellent use of qualification to snap her out of autopilot. It was down to the t from the article. Great job.

Nice sexual tension built up, especially in the use of getting her to think sexual and be straight up with her.

Nice transitions, great use of getting her number with the transitions being perfect at the lunch.

Also really liked the way you handled her resistance!

Re read it all wanted to point.out all the good stuff, this will help increase my game, thanks for a great example as I have wanted to start day gaming!
 
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BarryS1

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Thanks for the feedback everyone!

This was absolutely beautiful buddy!

Handled this Latina like a true professional - though the paranoia is a bit more "American" than a traditional Latina. Most wouldn't care what was going on around them because when they're in the mood, they are in the fucking mood!

Despite the challenges you pushed through and stole a Latina from me (that's one less apretada, hispana, chocha mojada para mi cuate ;))

From one lover of Latinas to another, I truly appreciate it! Latinas are muy sexy :) I share your passion for them, Richard! She was Mexican.

My only option for escalation right now is public sex, so I'm not sure if there was anything I could have done. I made a bad choice about making the date too early in the day when the sun is up. To be honest, I didn't ask her why she felt that way and tried to address it - I was too caught up in that fiery passion!

Maybe she would have let go if I escalated when it was dark out, like 10pm. What do you think?

It's actually a really good idea to focus on looking for something sexual to talk about once you get to deep-diving on a topic. A lot of beginners make the mistake of getting too caught up in the topic WITHOUT consciously reminding themselves that the goal of the date is to turn things sexual so you can escalate to the next level. It's a great rule of thumb, and I'm glad you're seeing results with it.

100% agree Franco! Since dinner at that restaurant only takes 30 min., there was no way I could get through all the "8 things you must ask her" questions. After she told me the story about the nude resort, I felt she was comfortable with me - so I started using sexual frames. I bet she was happy it happened too ;)

Whoa, nice LR! I liked the dialogues very much and even more you being able to remain unfazed at her cold responses.

That's what I love about Latinas, they are so real! They are passionate, but totally serious. :)

Barry aren't you the same cat that was fingering girls in the department store 2 minutes after meeting them? I'm almost certain that was you, not that it matters because this is fucking rad!

Duuude! I remember that girl, she f*$%ing flaked on the date though - never saw her again haha.! Not as awesome as tying up country bumpkins though ;)

This to me was fucking hilarious, I know it probably wasn't meant to be, and in reality was probably just really basic conversation but I thought it was pretty funny.
I mean she didn't even say anything that interesting other than that "a sea sponge is a natural loofa" and you come out and say "wow you sure know stuff about health." I mean that sounds so fucking patronizing to me!

I've been testing, slowly but surely, being more of a dick/asshole around women lately and I think this could be a pretty funny tool for the arsenal. I think it would work best on women such as yours that show no attraction and are giving really lame short answers to do as you did and break them out of autopilot. I want to mess with this I think that's hilarious (though I dunno if you meant it to be).

Mr. Rob, I never thought about that before! I got the idea from Ricardus' article about a type of sexual frame for qualifying girls (he listed about 4-5 types of sexual frames I think). I guess it did work b/c after the direct part, she started qualifying by stating how often she goes to the gym, loves lotion, ect. I think I used it too early in the conversation , but it turned out to be something useful! I'm gonna keep this in mind and let me know how it goes for you as well!
 
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