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(Linked from my daygame log.)
I'm walking around, and I spot her. She's got a nice tight black dress, curly black hair. Probably South American. I have to approach.
We're walking in the same direction, and she's in front of me, so I catch up, take out my phone, and start messing with it while I pass her. I then slow down, look around, and let her pass me. At that point I open:
I ask her about a famous coffee place in the area, and she, initially a bit closed off, gives me a couple options. I can feel she's warming up quite quickly to my presence, which is something that I noticed happening quite often with girls recently. Apparently the hard work that I put into this is finally paying off.
Anyway, she probably had a bad day, but now she opened up. We chat a little bit about her, and she asks me a few personal questions. She then tells me she was going to grab a coffee somewhere and suggests we have a chat. Great sign.
We proceed to the coffee place and sit down. She gets a latte macchiato. In the next 10 minutes or so we have a great chat, where we flirt quite a bit. I disqualify myself as a boyfriend candidate. She seems ok with that, and we talk about sex and the fact that, although it's a taboo topic, it's a human need. I rarely have such clean, no-bullshit convos, and part of the reason is probably that she's 42 and no longer wants to play too many games. Fine with me. However she's still a woman, and her emotional state might change dramatically overnight.
I then tell her I gotta bounce, and I seed a follow-up date. I grab her number and hug her goodbye. I get home 1 hour later. I go out again for the evening and I text her an icebreaker, to which she replies warmly.
The next day I text her again and propose two date options: A in my city (and she's my guest), B in her city (and I'm her guest). She tells me that that's a charming invitation, but she feels insecure about my disqualification as a boyfriend candidate. She's looking for something serious. I tell her that I'm only offering a drink and a chat, without any expectations. She texts me that she's not sure she should do it, and I tell her that I have no hidden bag of tricks and that if her decision is to let go, so be it.
She reads the text and doesn't reply. This was yesterday. I leave it at that for now. I'll text her again in 1-2 days.
I'm walking around, and I spot her. She's got a nice tight black dress, curly black hair. Probably South American. I have to approach.
We're walking in the same direction, and she's in front of me, so I catch up, take out my phone, and start messing with it while I pass her. I then slow down, look around, and let her pass me. At that point I open:
'scuse me?
yeah?! (she sounds really pissed, but i don't really care)
I ask her about a famous coffee place in the area, and she, initially a bit closed off, gives me a couple options. I can feel she's warming up quite quickly to my presence, which is something that I noticed happening quite often with girls recently. Apparently the hard work that I put into this is finally paying off.
Anyway, she probably had a bad day, but now she opened up. We chat a little bit about her, and she asks me a few personal questions. She then tells me she was going to grab a coffee somewhere and suggests we have a chat. Great sign.
We proceed to the coffee place and sit down. She gets a latte macchiato. In the next 10 minutes or so we have a great chat, where we flirt quite a bit. I disqualify myself as a boyfriend candidate. She seems ok with that, and we talk about sex and the fact that, although it's a taboo topic, it's a human need. I rarely have such clean, no-bullshit convos, and part of the reason is probably that she's 42 and no longer wants to play too many games. Fine with me. However she's still a woman, and her emotional state might change dramatically overnight.
I then tell her I gotta bounce, and I seed a follow-up date. I grab her number and hug her goodbye. I get home 1 hour later. I go out again for the evening and I text her an icebreaker, to which she replies warmly.
The next day I text her again and propose two date options: A in my city (and she's my guest), B in her city (and I'm her guest). She tells me that that's a charming invitation, but she feels insecure about my disqualification as a boyfriend candidate. She's looking for something serious. I tell her that I'm only offering a drink and a chat, without any expectations. She texts me that she's not sure she should do it, and I tell her that I have no hidden bag of tricks and that if her decision is to let go, so be it.
She reads the text and doesn't reply. This was yesterday. I leave it at that for now. I'll text her again in 1-2 days.
