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Let's set the scene, I have the day off and it's a non gym day so I don't have that to do before going out to approach. So technically, I have a full bar of energy!
I went straight up to the campus this time as I know there will be approach targets there and I bore of the city highstreet and the difficulty to tell age before each approach and just generally a lot of unapproachable locals there. All my closes are from non local uni students so it makes sense to concentrate my efforts there.
I went up to the campus and was feeling quite in my head to begin with. I saw a few sets but didn't go in for the approach as I have a "no jerky movements" rule when on campus. So I normally only approach if I am already walking past them these days.
I do not want to attract unnecessary attention as it is a little gold mine as this field report lays out.
I one big loop around the campus so it atleast looks like I am going somewhere and I do let a few potential sets go past, but they are young looking so I don't want to risk catching a bad blowout, they could be first year's who are barely 18.
So having steered clear of potential danger, I am looking for a suitable girl to approach. I just did a side walking approach on a girl I spotted and said she looked good. She didn't stop and kept walking along.
So I broke the ice, after pacing around the campus for a good 20 minutes! You do have to be quite selective, it's not one of the major uni's where every 3rd girl is a 7/10 either, there are plenty of mids and the 7/10+ chicks are usually rare and or in big groups.
So I decide to go down a road and there is this chick coming towards me wearing a belly top.
I do this opener I have come up with to take the pressure off: it goes like this "Excuse me, can I give you a compliment? If she says yes, you give it, if she says no, you apologise and move on. It is good instead of just running over and instantly complimenting, as it asks for consent before the compliment is deployed.
So she says yes and as I give the compliment, she hooks quite well. When I get closer I can see facially she isn't quite my type but I decide to go all in as I need a win. Also, her body was attractive with a sexy belly button decoration.
I say she looks good and she enjoys the compliment. For a moment I said I thought she was a foreign student but she's not.
She looked like maybe a hint of east asian, I didn't go into but but I think she might have had a mixed background.
Then I talk to her some more, my eye contact is strong and seductive, but her eyes are darting all around the place. However, it doesn't seem like she is uncomfortable.
She asks me where I'm from, I say the town, I listen to her accent and tell she is from London, the big city.
We both agree it is the best place to be, people in the region where the uni is (my small approaching city) are very closed off and suspicious of strangers, which has been my experience with the locals (of which I suppose I am one). She says compared to London, when she is here (my small local approaching city) she sees the same people a lot of the time and it's a bit too quiet.
She is easy to talk to, doesn't ask me what I am studying so I don't have to sidestep the question, just an easy hook. I let her do most of the talking and I ask her what she likes to do when she is not studying.
I observe she struggles to answer that definitely, but she vaguely alludes to going on nights out. I ask if she lives on campus (screening for logistics) and she says no, she lives in a suburb of the city.
I try to seed the date, but I don't make a very good job of it. I forgot my "go to" of the cathedral and instead suggest a rather uninspiring coffee and a walk. But really, I want to escalate to the lay.
I also tried to push for the instant date as she did say earlier that she didn't have any lectures for the rest of the day but she was insistent on going to meet her friend.
So she asks about insta and I say I don't use it or that I am trying to come off it. Instead, I offer my phone number, which she says I should have done from the start (an IOI) so I put it into her phone and send myself a message from her phone, a technique I have read on here as well as other sources to reduce flakes.
I then walk off to see more potential approach opportunities in the campus but I don't want to blow the number incase she sees me approaching other girls, although there were a couple of sets that I would have approached had I not already got a number. I know there are mixed schools of thought on this, but I would rather stop once I've secured a phone number from a decent set.
So after milling around for another 15 minutes and not feeling like I wanted to approach (the hungry lion has been satiated...for now!) I decided to make my way off campus.
I probably forgot some details as the interaction lasted quite awhile, I would say 10-15 minutes but overall, I would say she enjoyed it.
I usually text in the evening as I think it is more seductive when it is dark so I haven't texted her yet but will do in an hour or 2.
I am also not free for the whole week until Sunday (after night game) so I don't know what I am meant to set up either in that regard. But I will text her tonight saying it was nice to meet her and that I felt a strong vibe.
Then I will see if she even replies or not. I hope she will, I felt groinal tinglings strongly during the interaction, so I hope it was the same for her lady parts as well!
I want to get her out and then escalate for the lay back at her place.
So out of 2 attempted approaches today, 1 close, which I will take.
Key takeaways:
She wasn't walking between lectures but walking to meet a friend
She wasn't a local as they seem more closed as they already have friends locally
She didn't use the boyfriend excuse and seemed fairly attracted
It was a quiet area of the campus, not much foot traffic or people walking past, but not a creepy place to approach either.
I am sure there is more but I have forgotten it already!
The goal here is to get her out on a date and then back to her place, for the lay.
Let's see if she replies to my opening text, first! She did say she'll let me know when she's available when I text her.
I went straight up to the campus this time as I know there will be approach targets there and I bore of the city highstreet and the difficulty to tell age before each approach and just generally a lot of unapproachable locals there. All my closes are from non local uni students so it makes sense to concentrate my efforts there.
I went up to the campus and was feeling quite in my head to begin with. I saw a few sets but didn't go in for the approach as I have a "no jerky movements" rule when on campus. So I normally only approach if I am already walking past them these days.
I do not want to attract unnecessary attention as it is a little gold mine as this field report lays out.
I one big loop around the campus so it atleast looks like I am going somewhere and I do let a few potential sets go past, but they are young looking so I don't want to risk catching a bad blowout, they could be first year's who are barely 18.
So having steered clear of potential danger, I am looking for a suitable girl to approach. I just did a side walking approach on a girl I spotted and said she looked good. She didn't stop and kept walking along.
So I broke the ice, after pacing around the campus for a good 20 minutes! You do have to be quite selective, it's not one of the major uni's where every 3rd girl is a 7/10 either, there are plenty of mids and the 7/10+ chicks are usually rare and or in big groups.
So I decide to go down a road and there is this chick coming towards me wearing a belly top.
I do this opener I have come up with to take the pressure off: it goes like this "Excuse me, can I give you a compliment? If she says yes, you give it, if she says no, you apologise and move on. It is good instead of just running over and instantly complimenting, as it asks for consent before the compliment is deployed.
So she says yes and as I give the compliment, she hooks quite well. When I get closer I can see facially she isn't quite my type but I decide to go all in as I need a win. Also, her body was attractive with a sexy belly button decoration.
I say she looks good and she enjoys the compliment. For a moment I said I thought she was a foreign student but she's not.
She looked like maybe a hint of east asian, I didn't go into but but I think she might have had a mixed background.
Then I talk to her some more, my eye contact is strong and seductive, but her eyes are darting all around the place. However, it doesn't seem like she is uncomfortable.
She asks me where I'm from, I say the town, I listen to her accent and tell she is from London, the big city.
We both agree it is the best place to be, people in the region where the uni is (my small approaching city) are very closed off and suspicious of strangers, which has been my experience with the locals (of which I suppose I am one). She says compared to London, when she is here (my small local approaching city) she sees the same people a lot of the time and it's a bit too quiet.
She is easy to talk to, doesn't ask me what I am studying so I don't have to sidestep the question, just an easy hook. I let her do most of the talking and I ask her what she likes to do when she is not studying.
I observe she struggles to answer that definitely, but she vaguely alludes to going on nights out. I ask if she lives on campus (screening for logistics) and she says no, she lives in a suburb of the city.
I try to seed the date, but I don't make a very good job of it. I forgot my "go to" of the cathedral and instead suggest a rather uninspiring coffee and a walk. But really, I want to escalate to the lay.
I also tried to push for the instant date as she did say earlier that she didn't have any lectures for the rest of the day but she was insistent on going to meet her friend.
So she asks about insta and I say I don't use it or that I am trying to come off it. Instead, I offer my phone number, which she says I should have done from the start (an IOI) so I put it into her phone and send myself a message from her phone, a technique I have read on here as well as other sources to reduce flakes.
I then walk off to see more potential approach opportunities in the campus but I don't want to blow the number incase she sees me approaching other girls, although there were a couple of sets that I would have approached had I not already got a number. I know there are mixed schools of thought on this, but I would rather stop once I've secured a phone number from a decent set.
So after milling around for another 15 minutes and not feeling like I wanted to approach (the hungry lion has been satiated...for now!) I decided to make my way off campus.
I probably forgot some details as the interaction lasted quite awhile, I would say 10-15 minutes but overall, I would say she enjoyed it.
I usually text in the evening as I think it is more seductive when it is dark so I haven't texted her yet but will do in an hour or 2.
I am also not free for the whole week until Sunday (after night game) so I don't know what I am meant to set up either in that regard. But I will text her tonight saying it was nice to meet her and that I felt a strong vibe.
Then I will see if she even replies or not. I hope she will, I felt groinal tinglings strongly during the interaction, so I hope it was the same for her lady parts as well!
I want to get her out and then escalate for the lay back at her place.
So out of 2 attempted approaches today, 1 close, which I will take.
Key takeaways:
She wasn't walking between lectures but walking to meet a friend
She wasn't a local as they seem more closed as they already have friends locally
She didn't use the boyfriend excuse and seemed fairly attracted
It was a quiet area of the campus, not much foot traffic or people walking past, but not a creepy place to approach either.
I am sure there is more but I have forgotten it already!
The goal here is to get her out on a date and then back to her place, for the lay.
Let's see if she replies to my opening text, first! She did say she'll let me know when she's available when I text her.
