Laying Super Religious Girls

[mb1]

Hi, I remember reading about someone's same day lay with a girl who was holding a bible. Anyone ever interact with such a woman?

Just met this MILF on POF and am inquiring in advance wondering if anyone has any tips with how to approach this? Thinking of leaving it to in person, but then what? 100% non-verbals, or extra chase frames?

So far, just:

Me: Hi, tell me your name? -[my name]
Her: Kerri, hi [my name]
Me: I see God's listed before children. Did you name one Isaac, Kerri?
Her: Smart butt...

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Now the frame just brought her loyalty to God on the table if anybody knows the story of how Abraham was tested to sacrifice his child lol

I really want to use the word ass in some way now but any tips are greatly appreciated. Usually I'd just keep experimenting with religious girls, but she's a rare one that came up online, and the next best way would be going to church (hmm)...

 

[Franco]

mb1,

The best way to approach religious girls is to just completely ignore the topic of religion unless they bring it up themselves. For online game, you basically pretend that it was not even listed on their profile(s). If a girl is actually looking for sex (which is what I assume you are looking for), then she won't mind skipping the topic altogether. Having the religious part up their just gives her plausible deniability for being a good, spiritual person.

The thing about directly making jokes about or addressing her religion is that you'll now likely provoke her to ask you about it, and you'll have to play around it. It's better to not have to deal with it at all rather than play around it!

NOTE: If you want to experiment with playing around it, the best way to do it is to play the inquisitive novice. Ask her questions about it, but never necessarily agree or disagree. Just seem curious and intrigued by all of it. That way she can't get a read on what your beliefs are, but she can also tell you're not judgmental and open to what she has to say. This still runs the risk of her trying to "convert" you rather than "have sex" with you, but if you're already on the topic of religion, then you need to be prepared to fight an uphill battle anyway.

- Franco

 

[Fuck This]

You wanna use "ass", here is a joke for you....

Two Privates from the 7th Calvary are digging a grave for a pack animal that had died during the night. As they are digging along they get to arguing about the name of the animal. One says it's a donkey, the other says it's a mule. They are about to come to blows when a traveling preacher comes riding up and they turn to him and ask " Hey Padre, what's this critter called? Is it a mule or a donkey?"

The pastor thinks for a while then says" Well in the bible, it is called an ASS. God be with you." And he goes on his way.

Satisfied, the two privates go back to digging when a few minutes later, a cowboy come riding up and asks "You boys diggin' a foxhole?"

With out even breaking stride the two privates answer simultaneously
"NOT ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE!"

When I have encountered people who want to talk about religion and they ask me about my religion I simply reply:
"I find that limiting myself to one religion or religious point of view doesn't seem to take in the vastness that is God" It is a bastardized quote from one of my favorite books.

Then I change the subject.

 

[ray_zorse]

Yes, avoid.

My current gf is a devout Catholic, the subject didn't come up that much when we started dating, but when it did I played it pretty much like Franco said. I think she still doesn't really have a read on my religious views. Avoid arguments/debates at all costs -- you do not need her approval! As a tip though, you can relate on childhood experiences w religion etc. "When I did homestay in Poland I stayed with a Catholic family. I had to learn to make the sign of the cross when entering the Church and to take Communion." This doesn't say anything about your religious VIEWS. This kind of subterfuge can build comfort and relatability. Also from a viewpoint of history, art, culture, comparative religion... there's lots to learn. Another quite religious chick on an instant date (wouldn't isolate) I asked her what she gets out of religion and she said "a feeling of peace". I thought this was quite insightful and also provided an explanation I could understand. Since I don't have one and wouldn't mind having one, although religion isn't the answer for me haha. So you can deep dive on the topic if you want to, just keep it light and be interested like Franco said.

Ray

 

[mb1]

MUCH appreciated everyone.

We continued on like this (many thanks lol)

Me: Reminds me of a joke. Want to hear?
Her: Shoot...
Me (later): Pondered condensing it, but perhaps best left for in person. Let's meet?
Her: OK

So the whole convo is in the thread lol. I agree with you guys, though it seems connecting over religion's what allowed her to feel comfortable moving so fast, since that's a pretty specific Biblical story. Just wouldn't want to be "the other".

I was raised Catholic with church weekly and such schools until 18. We also have a huge age difference.

Guess we'll see how comfortable she is going forward. Tough to get a read but it seems religious girls are often pretty dick starved so maybe her reptilian brain will take over.

Used to disqualify as a boyfriend online first just for fine screening (works great with girls who "get it"), but it seems better to do that in person, especially with inexperienced girls who should decide how to proceed while under a sexy eye contact spell rather than deciding never to come out. Would you guys agree? My Tinder profile mentions moving and maybe that should go too, because it's removing plausible deniability right?

Might not matter if done in person, but I'm guessing some girls might have some ASD there, already in the lover frame. Might want to save that for after she's hooked a bit mid-deep dive? It does help match girls on Tinder just out of relationships, but I don't have time to see them for a week oftentimes, which obviously loses rebounding girls who want to meet that night.

Signing up for POF 20 years older's got me 10 dates scheduled in 7 days lol just seems like a killer sexual marketplace imbalance.

 

[ray_zorse]

Yes I agree that religious girls are as horny as fuck once you smash past the resistance, it's all just social conditioning IMO so once she's satisfied you're discreet she's happy to shed the layers, although the logical brain does come back at awkward moments, so you just have to be quite persistent to help her get what she wants. I would be quite careful with boyfriend disqualification though, the idea of having an FWB/lover might be SO FAR from her expectations that it's too much of a shock for her to process. Very very inexperienced girls are a bit like this, they assume that sex = boyfriend and it's probably best not to disillusion them upfront. With inexperienced girls you also need to be careful with your sexual frames and physical escalation, because if she feels you're a player, your attainability tanks.
Ray
PS. In Asia in very conservative places, like the Phillipines, stuff like chase framing can really backfire, I remember Chase recommending a kind of "chase framing lite" to use in such cases, where you accuse her of looking for a boyfriend / husband rather than sex itself. In a related vein, I could imagine trying a "boyfriend disqualifiation lite" where you disqualify yourself as a provider rather than as a boyfriend as such. By saying things like you're a poor student and can't go out, etc.

 

[mb1]

Wow great insight thanks! Helps explain some past mishaps as well. Thought for one the issue was missing windows and not being sexy enough, so I upped the heat a bit which was definitely wrong and now it makes sense.

Player lite lol perfect. Still, girls who can keep up are fun. Got an older woman's name wrong recently and now we use it as her alter ego. It's still in very subtle early stages, which is hot, cause she can hold the tension.

Nineteen is a nice age though

 

[journeyman]

I wish this thread had existed earlier, I stumbled upon this situation few days ago. I opened a set of 2 exiting from an ice cream shop with a smooth situational opener and engaged them in long conversation. One was very hot, pushing 30 years old and they were catholic school teachers and very religious. My default mode was to just listen about their religious stuff, honestly finding their views interesting even though I am an atheist. The hot one was engaging me a lot and she gave me some of her ice cream to try and I teased her a bit about trying to poison me. All in all I chickened out of asking her out because firstly being very religious I think she would blow me off and secondly because her more "fanatic" friend was right there. Had I seen this thread earlier I would at least try to isolate her from her friend and ask her number.