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How about getting a little debate going on some old school stuff... lets get this forum talking again!
Let's take a bar setting, what is everyone's favourite type of ways to open girls?
For me situational opening has ALWAYS worked best but the downside is... unless there is some sort of "situation" and it's truely spur of the moment then it comes off cheesy or scripted, especially in a bar scene where the surroundings are generally the same, so it's hard to rely on.
I hate opinion or compliment openers... I don't know why, thye just don't seem natural to me.
I LOVE just saying "HI!" Maybe follow up that she looks cute or something, or else I just transition straight after the Hi. No guarantees on this one... you need a quick transition to hook her.
And one that has actually worked really well but I don't always do it unless I'm feeling ballsy. Usually you need to be a little animated or be in a fun conversation, or be enjoying the music... basically look like you're having the best fun in the place at that moment... simply turn, catch the girls eye (she needs to be within some proximity but not right next to you) extend your arm fully and becon her over.
I can say this has had a VERY high success rate for me if I can catch the girls eye immediately. It's ballsy though so I use it in high energy places, I need to psych myself up for it. But I love doing this one. If she complies, the fact that you were that confident seems to mean she'll be pretty warm to you.
Let's take a bar setting, what is everyone's favourite type of ways to open girls?
For me situational opening has ALWAYS worked best but the downside is... unless there is some sort of "situation" and it's truely spur of the moment then it comes off cheesy or scripted, especially in a bar scene where the surroundings are generally the same, so it's hard to rely on.
I hate opinion or compliment openers... I don't know why, thye just don't seem natural to me.
I LOVE just saying "HI!" Maybe follow up that she looks cute or something, or else I just transition straight after the Hi. No guarantees on this one... you need a quick transition to hook her.
And one that has actually worked really well but I don't always do it unless I'm feeling ballsy. Usually you need to be a little animated or be in a fun conversation, or be enjoying the music... basically look like you're having the best fun in the place at that moment... simply turn, catch the girls eye (she needs to be within some proximity but not right next to you) extend your arm fully and becon her over.
I can say this has had a VERY high success rate for me if I can catch the girls eye immediately. It's ballsy though so I use it in high energy places, I need to psych myself up for it. But I love doing this one. If she complies, the fact that you were that confident seems to mean she'll be pretty warm to you.
