Didn't read the previous post you wrote but IMO you are reading too much into it... She already KNOWS you want to bang her, you don't have to tell her that.
1. You appear as a sexy and dominant guy. What does she think? She thinks you want sex and that you are dominant (duh)
2. You approach her, talk to her, invite her out. What does she think? She thinks you want sex with her (duh), and you have enough balls to go for it while facing rejection. The intent is right there, no need to say it directly in words...
3. If she agrees to go out with you, what does she think? She thinks I like this guy and I want to give him a chance. He is sexy and dominant enough, I know there is a possibility of having sex..
4. If she doesn't like you enough to risk having sex with you she will flake, make excuses, never show up, dump you and so forth... You were not sexy and dominant enough in her eyes...
5. If she likes you enough but is a good girl, she will not make it that easy; she will give you some hard time. What does she think? She thinks "I'm not that easy, I have to give him some hard time AND observe how he behaves, e.g. how much desire he has to go get what he wants vs is he a weak guy who gets discouraged easily". Let's see if he is really that dominant and sexy as he appears to be...
6. Now she is out with you and observing your actions. Is he bold enough to go after what he wants (sex) and if so, is he pushing things forward, but not too fast nor not too slow? Is he avoiding the sex, postponing it to "next time", is he too shy? Is he really that dominant?
Think about it, she is already at this point and some guy will start telling her that he likes her, that he is interested in her and so forth... But she already knows that from the 1st minute she met him... He talks like a retard at this point, she only wishes he'd shut up... That's why it safer for guys to say rather less than more... She doesn't want to know what's on your mind, because she already knows...
7. Based on your behavior and responses she is getting the touch of you. She knows your intentions, she knows what you want, and she is also observing you if you know HOW to get what you want. She knows what experience you have based on your reactions, based on how you are moving things forward...
Don't be mistaken though, you have to be congruent, because if her impression was at first that you are a sexy and dominant guy with lots of experience but you are now taking your time or missing windows, or behaving submissive and needy to her requests, she will put her breaks on and test you whether you are a FAKE. The same is if she has a first impression of you that you are an average guy with not much knowledge of seduction but who would be a good provider, but now you are suddenly smooth, fast and overly dominant, she will most likely put her brakes on and test you further. You are simply in-congruent...
Based on your congruence you will get Sh*t tests. Some tests may be easy, perhaps just for fun, yet others may be quite exhausting and tortuous... If you fail you are gone, you are shifted to a friend zone, or faker zone...
8. Say you are congruent, you are matching her expectations, you appear to be that guy she though you are. What does she think now? She thinks something like: "Please, please God, don't let him fuck things up. The pace is just right, let him lead to the bed without any unnecessary obstacles. Obstacles like living with his mom, playing video games all day long, or not being able to pull his dick out of the pants. I want things between us to work out, just please just don't let him fuck things up"
Note that this could happen the first date but also during the course of multiple dates, depending on your congruence.
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So she already knows your intent, from the very beginning. It will not hurt your chances in any way, she may be flattered that you are interested in her... The thing is, she is either interested OR not... If she is not interested enough, there is not much you can do...
