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- Aug 9, 2013
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Completing the newbie assignment over the course of 3 weeks changed my outlook on approaching. Without the newbie assignment, I would not have figured out HALF this stuff by the time I turned 40 yrs. old!
Old philosophy: There’s a time and place for everything. Approaching girls in random venues will not work for getting phone numbers, dates, or intimacy. Bars, clubs, and social events represent the only respectable locations for meeting girls.
New philosophy: Random venues including book, grocery, department, and clothing stores offer the best place FOR ME to meet girls. I never liked going out at night because I lack the ability of sleeping in past 7am
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Results: Making out in a girl’s car on the first date. The date represented the first that I set up.
Current schedule: Approaching girls in shopping centers 3x on weekdays at 6pm for 30min. and 2hrs on Sundays. I have approached 50 girls since starting the newbie assignment!
Short term goals:
1) Building up the banter and conversation to more than three lines.
Something more than 1) Hi, 2) are you single?, and 3) Oh, I thought you were attractive so I had to say hello.
2) Approaching types of girls I feel uncomfortable with
-Girls shopping with their moms.
-Girls near my age (18-25).
-Girls in groups.
-Girls taller than me (I’m 5’8).
Old philosophy: There’s a time and place for everything. Approaching girls in random venues will not work for getting phone numbers, dates, or intimacy. Bars, clubs, and social events represent the only respectable locations for meeting girls.
New philosophy: Random venues including book, grocery, department, and clothing stores offer the best place FOR ME to meet girls. I never liked going out at night because I lack the ability of sleeping in past 7am
. Results: Making out in a girl’s car on the first date. The date represented the first that I set up.
Current schedule: Approaching girls in shopping centers 3x on weekdays at 6pm for 30min. and 2hrs on Sundays. I have approached 50 girls since starting the newbie assignment!
Short term goals:
1) Building up the banter and conversation to more than three lines.
Something more than 1) Hi, 2) are you single?, and 3) Oh, I thought you were attractive so I had to say hello.
2) Approaching types of girls I feel uncomfortable with
-Girls shopping with their moms.
-Girls near my age (18-25).
-Girls in groups.
-Girls taller than me (I’m 5’8).
