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Ever since my last lay report in May where I fucked a chick that looked like the Wonder Woman actress, I have had sex with 6 different women who are all solidly above a 7. Three came from cold approach, one from a dating app, and 2 from a mix of social circle and hobbies, all the while turning down offers from a lot of other women bugging me on dating apps. I intend to post all of those lay reports although they won't be as lengthy, hardly have the time, but the lay count would have been a lot higher had I not got into a situation where I was (and still am) fucking this stripper chick I met once a week.
Here are the lifestyle and game changes I made to get sex with quality women.
Getting in better shape.
You feel harder, you approach more, are more confident, and the sex is better for both of you. I mean this one is obvious so I will not spend much time on it except I will say that women love being dominated in bed with a guy who can playfully wrestle with them and overpower them while just toying around doing so.
Losing emotional baggage from the past.
Shitty childhood, repressed upbringing, you name it. I work a lot on meditating and sorting it out to where it does not bother me. As someone soon to hit his late 20s, glad I got a handle on it when I did.
Day drinking and day game over night game.
For all intents and purposes, even in NYC, night game is largely a losing effort barring some exceptions (which will be covered later on). I decided to go day drinking more in NYC at spots that attract a lot of day drinkers, usually hot girls on the weekends. The lines at bars are shorter and I have been at bars I would otherwise never bother with because of a cover charge. Girls are much more approachable during the day and a lot less on their guard, even at daydrinking spots and bars where alcohol is involved.
Going out on weeknights, especially Thursdays.
Due to some odd reason, I have found that Saturdays are actually not the best for going out and Fridays are overrated for it. Everyone that is out is usually with a clique of their own and even when it comes to girls, I get more girls from the Bridge and Tunnel crowd of Jersey and trashy parts of NY rather than local Manhattan girls. For some reason, Thursdays are fruitful for me as I notice that there are more girls out and less guys. I have to deal less with AMOG situations and cockblocking on those nights compared to the busy nights when everyone is more out with their groups and looking to stay with that group.
Really getting the lay of the land in terms of bars and nightclubs.
Understanding what bars are good for approaching and which ones are more cliquey spots. Understanding what nightclubs to avoid and which ones can occasionally be fruitful. Going out enough to find the hole in the wall and cool spots in the city which have a lot of hot girls in them while other guys waste their time in the popular places loaded with selfie queens. Getting a feel for where the real cool people are and where the hottest girls gravitate.
Photography and getting good at it.
Buying a professional camera, taking photos of friends, and even advising a person I am taking a photo of to pose a certain way. Even when I do it with my phone and come off as an expert, girls approach me and try to open. Women are obsessed with looking good in pics, especially in the social media age. The hottest girl I have fucked this year and maybe ever was dark haired blue eyed chick from Illinois who I took a photo of, she caught a wind of my work through mutual friends and I ended up smashing because of that. It just opens up a new world given the social media age we are all in.
Not burning bridges with girls I have fucked.
I used to pump and dump, it was a dumb long-term strategy. These days, when I fuck a girl who is hot, I stay in touch with her and even hang out with her. I have gone out to bars with a hot girl I have fucked, it opens up doors like no other, especially when you become a regular at certain places. Other girls who are regulars notice you and want to talk, guys who are somewhat cool want to be your friend, people want to gravitate towards you, and you get invited to more social events. Couples want to be your friends and couples know other hot girls who are single too, those hot girls see you in a better light now. This all creates a positive effect.
Making friends with cool influential people or well connected people in general.
You have to be careful here and use your best judgment. Sometimes, it can just be a guy trying to snatch your date from you or get a girl you have been fucking to fuck him. In some cases, you run across a cool guy who gets hot girls but recognizes you are more like him, so he is more open to making friends. If he approaches her while you are getting up to get a drink or go to the bathroom and then apologizes or backs off sincerely, understand that he did not know and go back to talking to your girl. If he is out with a group of hot girl or two or his girlfriend, lay back and see what your date feels about it. Once again, do be careful at times, some guys will use a hot wingwoman to swoop girls from other guys. This all comes with the territory and some experience understanding social situation, a lot relies on gut instinct and intuition, if it looks off or sketchy, read Chase's article on AMOG and act accordingly often by ignoring them and focusing on your girl.
I will actually do a post on this soon myself as well.
Becoming okay with the fact that a same night lay or same date lay might not happen.
While the verdict is to go for it on the first date, some girls just don't want to do it. Comfort is a great thing, I enjoy sex more with women I have some familiarity and comfort with. Women are the same way, I often find most of the hottest women come to bars with a guy and leave with that same guy. It is okay to play the long game at times rather than pushing for sex right away.
Truly understanding what motivates hot girls and delivering based on that.
This is going to be its own post one day but I feel like so many guys miss this. There are things that hot girls in general worry about, social perception being at the top of the list, and the guy who understands this and properly solves that needs swims in it. I will say that most of what hot girls do in life centers around social perception among certain crowds and the concern they have for their status, the guy who offers a boost for that is the guy they fuck. Ever wonder why it is the nightclub workers and people in entertainment industry fuck hotter girls than some Silicon Valley worker making more money?
Living life on my own terms and not based on what others say.
Drinking on a Thursday night? I do it because I can bitch.
Day drinking on a Saturday? I do it because I can bitch.
Living in Manhattan rather than some shittier part of the city? I do it because I can bitch.
In other words, not answering to a parent or being tied down to anyone telling me how to live my life, which takes me to my next point.
Because ruthlessly picky about my friends and who I choose to hang out with.
I don't hang out with guys I see as losers or guys who complain. For the most part, I even avoid married guys or guys in relationships. I do not spend time around social circles I feel unwanted in or feel like I have to walk on eggshells around. The friends I make I am ruthlessly picky about, I will block a loser or a friend taking away from my lifestyle fast. I spend time with friends who bring out the best in me and see eye to eye with me on my life goals. In other words, the friends I have are friends who help me get better with girls and at times even help me get hot girls. If they take away from my lifestyle or what I want out of life, they are iced out.
Finding a good friend or two to wing with.
A good wingman who knows what they are doing can save you in so many situations. One of my friends is a social wingman and in many cases, he has given me opportunities with girls I could not have gamed alone. I have met girls because of him and had one lay recently because he held the set together. If you can find a good wingman, find a good wingman to go out with. It will open more doors for you than anything else.
Going, gaming, and living where you are comfortable with the vibe and energy.
I live in Manhattan and plan on being here for quite some time, I cannot imagine myself in any other city although Chicago seems tempting. Put me in LA or San Francisco, I do not get shit. I recently turned down a job offer for 20k extra because it was in San Francisco. Whether it is the energy of NYC, the ratio that favors men, the fast paced life, the transparent people, or the cool nightlife; I think this city brings me to my highest ceiling which I have yet to hit. Then I also realize at some point, if I was to move to a tier 2 city, the connections I have built up in NYC will pay so much dividends if I was to want a slower pace of life.
Here are the lifestyle and game changes I made to get sex with quality women.
Getting in better shape.
You feel harder, you approach more, are more confident, and the sex is better for both of you. I mean this one is obvious so I will not spend much time on it except I will say that women love being dominated in bed with a guy who can playfully wrestle with them and overpower them while just toying around doing so.
Losing emotional baggage from the past.
Shitty childhood, repressed upbringing, you name it. I work a lot on meditating and sorting it out to where it does not bother me. As someone soon to hit his late 20s, glad I got a handle on it when I did.
Day drinking and day game over night game.
For all intents and purposes, even in NYC, night game is largely a losing effort barring some exceptions (which will be covered later on). I decided to go day drinking more in NYC at spots that attract a lot of day drinkers, usually hot girls on the weekends. The lines at bars are shorter and I have been at bars I would otherwise never bother with because of a cover charge. Girls are much more approachable during the day and a lot less on their guard, even at daydrinking spots and bars where alcohol is involved.
Going out on weeknights, especially Thursdays.
Due to some odd reason, I have found that Saturdays are actually not the best for going out and Fridays are overrated for it. Everyone that is out is usually with a clique of their own and even when it comes to girls, I get more girls from the Bridge and Tunnel crowd of Jersey and trashy parts of NY rather than local Manhattan girls. For some reason, Thursdays are fruitful for me as I notice that there are more girls out and less guys. I have to deal less with AMOG situations and cockblocking on those nights compared to the busy nights when everyone is more out with their groups and looking to stay with that group.
Really getting the lay of the land in terms of bars and nightclubs.
Understanding what bars are good for approaching and which ones are more cliquey spots. Understanding what nightclubs to avoid and which ones can occasionally be fruitful. Going out enough to find the hole in the wall and cool spots in the city which have a lot of hot girls in them while other guys waste their time in the popular places loaded with selfie queens. Getting a feel for where the real cool people are and where the hottest girls gravitate.
Photography and getting good at it.
Buying a professional camera, taking photos of friends, and even advising a person I am taking a photo of to pose a certain way. Even when I do it with my phone and come off as an expert, girls approach me and try to open. Women are obsessed with looking good in pics, especially in the social media age. The hottest girl I have fucked this year and maybe ever was dark haired blue eyed chick from Illinois who I took a photo of, she caught a wind of my work through mutual friends and I ended up smashing because of that. It just opens up a new world given the social media age we are all in.
Not burning bridges with girls I have fucked.
I used to pump and dump, it was a dumb long-term strategy. These days, when I fuck a girl who is hot, I stay in touch with her and even hang out with her. I have gone out to bars with a hot girl I have fucked, it opens up doors like no other, especially when you become a regular at certain places. Other girls who are regulars notice you and want to talk, guys who are somewhat cool want to be your friend, people want to gravitate towards you, and you get invited to more social events. Couples want to be your friends and couples know other hot girls who are single too, those hot girls see you in a better light now. This all creates a positive effect.
Making friends with cool influential people or well connected people in general.
You have to be careful here and use your best judgment. Sometimes, it can just be a guy trying to snatch your date from you or get a girl you have been fucking to fuck him. In some cases, you run across a cool guy who gets hot girls but recognizes you are more like him, so he is more open to making friends. If he approaches her while you are getting up to get a drink or go to the bathroom and then apologizes or backs off sincerely, understand that he did not know and go back to talking to your girl. If he is out with a group of hot girl or two or his girlfriend, lay back and see what your date feels about it. Once again, do be careful at times, some guys will use a hot wingwoman to swoop girls from other guys. This all comes with the territory and some experience understanding social situation, a lot relies on gut instinct and intuition, if it looks off or sketchy, read Chase's article on AMOG and act accordingly often by ignoring them and focusing on your girl.
I will actually do a post on this soon myself as well.
Becoming okay with the fact that a same night lay or same date lay might not happen.
While the verdict is to go for it on the first date, some girls just don't want to do it. Comfort is a great thing, I enjoy sex more with women I have some familiarity and comfort with. Women are the same way, I often find most of the hottest women come to bars with a guy and leave with that same guy. It is okay to play the long game at times rather than pushing for sex right away.
Truly understanding what motivates hot girls and delivering based on that.
This is going to be its own post one day but I feel like so many guys miss this. There are things that hot girls in general worry about, social perception being at the top of the list, and the guy who understands this and properly solves that needs swims in it. I will say that most of what hot girls do in life centers around social perception among certain crowds and the concern they have for their status, the guy who offers a boost for that is the guy they fuck. Ever wonder why it is the nightclub workers and people in entertainment industry fuck hotter girls than some Silicon Valley worker making more money?
Living life on my own terms and not based on what others say.
Drinking on a Thursday night? I do it because I can bitch.
Day drinking on a Saturday? I do it because I can bitch.
Living in Manhattan rather than some shittier part of the city? I do it because I can bitch.
In other words, not answering to a parent or being tied down to anyone telling me how to live my life, which takes me to my next point.
Because ruthlessly picky about my friends and who I choose to hang out with.
I don't hang out with guys I see as losers or guys who complain. For the most part, I even avoid married guys or guys in relationships. I do not spend time around social circles I feel unwanted in or feel like I have to walk on eggshells around. The friends I make I am ruthlessly picky about, I will block a loser or a friend taking away from my lifestyle fast. I spend time with friends who bring out the best in me and see eye to eye with me on my life goals. In other words, the friends I have are friends who help me get better with girls and at times even help me get hot girls. If they take away from my lifestyle or what I want out of life, they are iced out.
Finding a good friend or two to wing with.
A good wingman who knows what they are doing can save you in so many situations. One of my friends is a social wingman and in many cases, he has given me opportunities with girls I could not have gamed alone. I have met girls because of him and had one lay recently because he held the set together. If you can find a good wingman, find a good wingman to go out with. It will open more doors for you than anything else.
Going, gaming, and living where you are comfortable with the vibe and energy.
I live in Manhattan and plan on being here for quite some time, I cannot imagine myself in any other city although Chicago seems tempting. Put me in LA or San Francisco, I do not get shit. I recently turned down a job offer for 20k extra because it was in San Francisco. Whether it is the energy of NYC, the ratio that favors men, the fast paced life, the transparent people, or the cool nightlife; I think this city brings me to my highest ceiling which I have yet to hit. Then I also realize at some point, if I was to move to a tier 2 city, the connections I have built up in NYC will pay so much dividends if I was to want a slower pace of life.
