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Marty

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In a couple of my recent field reports, Anatman kindly commented that he "wanted me to" press for a same-day date wherever possible. A great piece of advice, it turns out :)

There is an outdoor mall in our city, recently converted from a defunct industrial plant, with beautifully paved streets and attractive modern buildings. At the center of the complex, there is a little park with benches around the outside.

At lunchtime today, I am walking in this mall when I come to the park at the center and see two of the benches occupied by women seated singly. The lady farther off, upon closer inspection, turns out to be relatively unattractive, and I am about to walk on when I notice that the girl on the nearer bench has pretty blond hair, a lovely slim figure and the most delightful legs.

I'm a terrible sucker for legs. Hot, shapely long legs in tight jeans set me off like crazy, but bare legs proudly on display, cascading out from under a tight royal-blue miniskirt, delicately crossed and pointing teasingly toward me... I'm helpless. Done for.

I go and sit down next to the dame.

  • Marty: Mind if I take a seat?

    LittleSweetheart: Sure, go ahead!

    Marty: You have a gorgeous figure.

    LittleSweetheart: Thank you!

    Marty: What's your name?
I take her hand and she says sorry that she has just applied hand-cream. I tell her not to apologize. I start to find out about her.

She's just starting a week off between jobs. She's very happy with the new job she's found, and she's taking advantage of the time to just do nothing and soak up some sunshine. Sounds good to me.

I don't know how tall she is, but she's tiny. Later when I had my arm around her, I could grasp her around the shoulder without raising my arm at all; in a sitting position, I could put my arm right around her and reach back and touch my own body with the same hand, without squashing her. Given that she's also slim (low BMI), she must weigh under a hundred pounds. For her height, those luscious legs are really long. I can't work out how old she is and she hasn't given me enough information, nor have I asked (there wasn't a good time), but I'd guess 28.

We chat for about 10 minutes and I briefly toy with the idea of an instadate, but I have a meeting at 3:30 PM that I arranged myself and am leading, and I don't really think I can cancel it at such notice. I tell her this and suggest we meet in the evening, considering she has nothing to do all week. She assents and leaves her phone number.

I call her 50 minutes later, from my office, and fix up the details. We arrange to meet at 6 PM the same day (thanks Anatman).

She shows up 15 minutes late and she is still in the same blue miniskirt. I tell her how hot I find that and can't get enough of it, and get up and grab her and kiss her on the cheek. She sits; she orders red wine, I order white. We chat for maybe an hour.

We have masses in common. I mean, outlook on life, deepest beliefs, interests, even some coincidental events. She asks me about myself in equal measure, and I find myself comfortable and able to be very open with her, which is unusual... as I mention to her in our conversation, I confide in almost no one. We talk about our attitude to risk, initially in the context of employment and choosing where to live, but she flips it and essentially qualifies me for opening her in the outdoor mall: nothing ventured, nothing gained.

She's agreeing to everything I say; from the moment in the mall when she said I could sit next to her, I don't think she's ever dissented to anything. She tells me she runs to keep fit, and usually does it in the early morning on the city's main street, but further uptown from where we are at present. I suggest we walk the bit she knows less well, heading downtown, and she's all for it. I pick up the check, we head out and I tell her to take my arm, which she does readily.

All of a sudden she's getting very close and cozy. I realize I need to get us off of the streets and somewhere more private and romantic where I can kiss her. I suggest the city's famous park and (you guessed it) she complies. We make a left turn, another left turn, chatting all the while; I lead her down the pathway among greenery, and we come to the pond where mist is settling over the water after a hot, humid day punctuated by brisk, cooling showers. Geese are frolicking, some in couples.

I lead her out onto the wooden jetty, I put down my umbrella on a stone column and she follows suit with her cellphone and purse. We kiss. A lot.

She wants to sit; the stone column is too small for the both of us, so I lead her back toward the benches and a little stone wall which is drier. She follows my every command. We sit and kiss, talking all the while.

I suggest isolating completely, to a private location, in preparation for sex and she is very flattered. You can see that she is on the fence about it. I give her space and change the subject; we kiss some more. I remark on her soft, smooth legs and tell her how incredibly sexy I find them. She lets me put my hands all over them as much as I want. She also touches and strokes me a lot. Cool girl :)

We head back to her car, intermittently holding hands or with my arm around her. I get the impression she prefers holding hands. She tells me this was an unexpectedly good first day of her week off :) She's so incredibly, daintily sweet; she also turns me on like crazy. It's an unusual combination of powerful sex appeal with kindness and gentleness, propped up by a firm sense of self and structured way of living. I find myself quite liking her.

She follows all my directions about getting a parking validation from the café and she drives me toward my car, which is a few blocks off in the deck I use for work. When she stops I press to isolate a couple more times. All in all I ask her I think four times, and she makes relatively weak excuses and you can tell that she's not refusing outright, just maybe not ready just yet. Maybe I should have pressed harder, but I didn't want to ruin a very lovely evening by asking about 15 times and making her angry, and I thought it unnecessary. Hopefully, she'll be wondering what it'd have been like if she'd agreed, and I will try to move things to the next stage later in the week.

We kiss again and she tells me we'll "talk soon" before she leaves.

-Marty
 

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It's an unusual combination of powerful sex appeal with kindness and gentleness, propped up by a firm sense of self and structured way of living

Good stuff. This is basically the biggest thing I look for in women these days. As far as I'm concerned, that is the core of what makes up quality girl.

I remember reading some of your FRs before and it seemed that your biggest problem was persistence; although you didn't entirely seal the deal on this one, making four escalation attempts before backing off sounds solid and not too pushy. Awesome. I hope I'll be able to match your growth in the coming weeks.
 

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Great job Marty.

She's agreeing to everything I say; from the moment in the mall when she said I could sit next to her, I don't think she's ever dissented to anything.




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Franky

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Marty said:
In a couple of my recent field reports, Anatman kindly commented that he "wanted me to" press for a same-day date wherever possible. A great piece of advice, it turns out :)

There is an outdoor mall in our city, recently converted from a defunct industrial plant, with beautifully paved streets and attractive modern buildings. At the center of the complex, there is a little park with benches around the outside.

At lunchtime today, I am walking in this mall when I come to the park at the center and see two of the benches occupied by women seated singly. The lady farther off, upon closer inspection, turns out to be relatively unattractive, and I am about to walk on when I notice that the girl on the nearer bench has pretty blond hair, a lovely slim figure and the most delightful legs.

I'm a terrible sucker for legs. Hot, shapely long legs in tight jeans set me off like crazy, but bare legs proudly on display, cascading out from under a tight royal-blue miniskirt, delicately crossed and pointing teasingly toward me... I'm helpless. Done for.

I go and sit down next to the dame.

  • Marty: Mind if I take a seat?

    LittleSweetheart: Sure, go ahead!

    Marty: You have a gorgeous figure.

    LittleSweetheart: Thank you!

    Marty: What's your name?
I take her hand and she says sorry that she has just applied hand-cream. I tell her not to apologize. I start to find out about her.

She's just starting a week off between jobs. She's very happy with the new job she's found, and she's taking advantage of the time to just do nothing and soak up some sunshine. Sounds good to me.

I don't know how tall she is, but she's tiny. Later when I had my arm around her, I could grasp her around the shoulder without raising my arm at all; in a sitting position, I could put my arm right around her and reach back and touch my own body with the same hand, without squashing her. Given that she's also slim (low BMI), she must weigh under a hundred pounds. For her height, those luscious legs are really long. I can't work out how old she is and she hasn't given me enough information, nor have I asked (there wasn't a good time), but I'd guess 28.

We chat for about 10 minutes and I briefly toy with the idea of an instadate, but I have a meeting at 3:30 PM that I arranged myself and am leading, and I don't really think I can cancel it at such notice. I tell her this and suggest we meet in the evening, considering she has nothing to do all week. She assents and leaves her phone number.

I call her 50 minutes later, from my office, and fix up the details. We arrange to meet at 6 PM the same day (thanks Anatman).

She shows up 15 minutes late and she is still in the same blue miniskirt. I tell her how hot I find that and can't get enough of it, and get up and grab her and kiss her on the cheek. She sits; she orders red wine, I order white. We chat for maybe an hour.

We have masses in common. I mean, outlook on life, deepest beliefs, interests, even some coincidental events. She asks me about myself in equal measure, and I find myself comfortable and able to be very open with her, which is unusual... as I mention to her in our conversation, I confide in almost no one. We talk about our attitude to risk, initially in the context of employment and choosing where to live, but she flips it and essentially qualifies me for opening her in the outdoor mall: nothing ventured, nothing gained.

She's agreeing to everything I say; from the moment in the mall when she said I could sit next to her, I don't think she's ever dissented to anything. She tells me she runs to keep fit, and usually does it in the early morning on the city's main street, but further uptown from where we are at present. I suggest we walk the bit she knows less well, heading downtown, and she's all for it. I pick up the check, we head out and I tell her to take my arm, which she does readily.

All of a sudden she's getting very close and cozy. I realize I need to get us off of the streets and somewhere more private and romantic where I can kiss her. I suggest the city's famous park and (you guessed it) she complies. We make a left turn, another left turn, chatting all the while; I lead her down the pathway among greenery, and we come to the pond where mist is settling over the water after a hot, humid day punctuated by brisk, cooling showers. Geese are frolicking, some in couples.

I lead her out onto the wooden jetty, I put down my umbrella on a stone column and she follows suit with her cellphone and purse. We kiss. A lot.

She wants to sit; the stone column is too small for the both of us, so I lead her back toward the benches and a little stone wall which is drier. She follows my every command. We sit and kiss, talking all the while.

I suggest isolating completely, to a private location, in preparation for sex and she is very flattered. You can see that she is on the fence about it. I give her space and change the subject; we kiss some more. I remark on her soft, smooth legs and tell her how incredibly sexy I find them. She lets me put my hands all over them as much as I want. She also touches and strokes me a lot. Cool girl :)

We head back to her car, intermittently holding hands or with my arm around her. I get the impression she prefers holding hands. She tells me this was an unexpectedly good first day of her week off :) She's so incredibly, daintily sweet; she also turns me on like crazy. It's an unusual combination of powerful sex appeal with kindness and gentleness, propped up by a firm sense of self and structured way of living. I find myself quite liking her.

She follows all my directions about getting a parking validation from the café and she drives me toward my car, which is a few blocks off in the deck I use for work. When she stops I press to isolate a couple more times. All in all I ask her I think four times, and she makes relatively weak excuses and you can tell that she's not refusing outright, just maybe not ready just yet. Maybe I should have pressed harder, but I didn't want to ruin a very lovely evening by asking about 15 times and making her angry, and I thought it unnecessary. Hopefully, she'll be wondering what it'd have been like if she'd agreed, and I will try to move things to the next stage later in the week.

We kiss again and she tells me we'll "talk soon" before she leaves.

-Marty

Great job Marty! You are a model practitioner of the game on this forum! You are on the road to day game master.
 

Richard

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Marty,

Congrats on the steady progress as of late - you're developing quite a foothold in day-game now (I guess I'll have to be watching my back ;)).

Now that progress is getting steady, don't get too lax or complacent in your ability because that's when you'll hit a dry spell and stop making progress. Now's the time for you to really start pushing your boundaries as well because you're developing your own style that will work in most cases.

My recommendation is to attempt: insta-lays, group approaches, limiting your time per approach, and using as little verbal language as possible =P
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

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maaaan! I got to get to the mall and approach today haha, I am motivated, thanks Marty!
 

Marty

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Thanks, friends... some tremendous responses here.

ocantu1987 said:
I am motivated, thanks Marty!
Go to it, Ocantu!

Zphix said:
Congrats on the steady progress as of late - you're developing quite a foothold in day-game now
Thanks, much appreciated. I feel better about it too :)

Zphix said:
(I guess I'll have to be watching my back ;))
I don't believe that for a second, Richard, but you sure know how to give encouragement! ;)

Zphix said:
Now that progress is getting steady, don't get too lax or complacent in your ability because that's when you'll hit a dry spell and stop making progress.
Haha! You're absolutely right. I first read this and caught myself thinking "don't worry, I'm not getting complacent" and then realized that's about as complacent a thought as it's possible to have :D

Zphix said:
My recommendation is to attempt: insta-lays, group approaches, limiting your time per approach, and using as little verbal language as possible =P
Cool. Well, I approached a couple sisters Saturday, which went pretty smoothly, and over the past few weeks I've increased my confidence level in all-female groups, however I still find it much more difficult than individuals, so you're right it's a challenge.

Regarding the nonverbals, Saturday I was in American Apparel because I actually spotted a girl there from outside the store, her legs were so incredible. They just went on forever. For some reason, to gauge interest I caught her eye and tried to beckon her over, but she declined to come closer. That was probably a bad decision in the moment, but you're right I need to work on it.

Zphix said:
Now's the time for you to really start pushing your boundaries as well because you're developing your own style that will work in most cases.
Not sure about that last bit. Basically, I think I'm implementing more or less everything I read here, at least in terms of the overall structure i.e. opening, generating compliance, deep-diving and progressing the process forward as smartly as possible. If my own style is apparent, it's probably because I'm not sure what a good seduction should look like, and that's just how I'm interpreting what I read.

Franky said:
Great job Marty! You are a model practitioner of the game on this forum! You are on the road to day game master.
Well, I wouldn't really say that, but I appreciate your sentiments, Franky.

Gentle_Phrases said:
When I saw this post:
Gentle_Phrases said:
Great job Marty.
Thanks Gentle Phrases. Yes, I was quite happy with it and I really got to like the girl.

Haraklus said:
Good stuff. This is basically the biggest thing I look for in women these days. As far as I'm concerned, that is the core of what makes up quality girl.
Yes, Haraklus, isn't it just? I felt myself warming up to her more and more, which is truly unusual.

Haraklus said:
making four escalation attempts before backing off sounds solid and not too pushy. Awesome.
Thanks, I think it was about right... here's the deal.

She's still talking to me.

That's a big thing, considering how bad I've screwed up in the past off of cold approach. We exchanged a few texts today and she still seems happy with me.

The next point is that I was hoping to practice some date compression, but like I said above, she has this "structured way of living" and I think she essentially planned out her week such that Monday she'd relax and take it easy, and then the remainder of the week she'd spend getting ready for her new job. When she told me she'd been pleasantly surprised at her Monday, I really believe it was sincere, but being such a creature of habit, the sudden extra demand on her time that was unexpected has probably made her feel a bit neurotic, and she's preempting that. We're gonna connect toward the end of the week and see how our calendars are looking.

-Marty
 

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Great job, Marty ;) Very few members on this board have as much grit as you. And guess what? That means you'll be among strongest of us all sooner than you think.

Only one criticism, but for now, enjoy your success. You did great. You're a prolific writer and thus your personality much more lucidly translates onto text. And my friend, your entire tone has changed. Your syntax and diction are impeccable as always, but I guarantee that every keystroke invested into this post included a skip in your wrist from the joy of your experience. It's palpable ;)

For later consideration,

Haraklus said:
She follows all my directions about getting a parking validation from the café and she drives me toward my car, which is a few blocks off in the deck I use for work. When she stops I press to isolate a couple more times. All in all I ask her I think four times, and she makes relatively weak excuses and you can tell that she's not refusing outright, just maybe not ready just yet. Maybe I should have pressed harder, but I didn't want to ruin a very lovely evening by asking about 15 times and making her angry, and I thought it unnecessary.

When you catch yourself thinking "I don't want to ruin," stop yourself. I want you to run every interaction to the FUCKING GROUND. Now, keep your persistence legal and all, but when you catch yourself pulling back when you could escalate, tell old Marty to eat a dick and pull out everything you've got to take her to bed then and there, logistics considered.

I want you to be willing to risk your dream girl for that final 5%, because trust me Marty, postponing the final escalation even just ONE day brings your chances of seeing her again to ridiculously low levels. Yeah, I've had some girls wait MONTHS to see me, but those are rare cases when my game was so perfect she wanted my cock even if tomorrow was our last day on earth. I've lost countless girls who for sure wanted me because I waited. Sometimes it's not even something you did wrong (the exception here, is of course, when your game is PERFECT and you paint yourself as the man of her wet dreams). But for 99% of your interactions, if you don't close it SOON, think back to what a girl once told me after I inquired about her failure to meet me after our interaction.

"Life happens."

You've definitely improved. But Zphix makes a good point. The scary thing about personal improvement is that once you see yourself clear a plateau, you risk falling prey to complacency with good, rather than mastery. For an example, I'm encountering this with my fitness. I have many people compliment me now on my progress and new appearance, bu have skipped a few days at the gym because I think "hey, I'm doing great; I can chill." NOT OKAY. When you improve, I want you to think "Fuck yeah, I'm doing good. NOW LET'S SEE WHAT I CAN DO NEXT." The only time I advise taking a break is when you're in the midst of a plateau.Reflection and reevaluation of your tactics helps.

Think of it as abundance mentality with your self-improvement. Improvements come and go; they're available to you all the time. Don't let one improvement stop you from having it all.

Petyr 'Littlefinger' Baelish: So many men, they risk so little. They spend their whole lives avoiding danger, and then they die. I'd risk everything to get what I want.

Sansa Stark: And what do you want?

Petyr 'Littlefinger' Baelish: [pauses] Everything.

- Anatman
 

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Took me a while to get around to this one but this report literally made me pissed at myself for not pushing the envelope harder, and served as great inspiration and short term motivation for me.

I remember when we met up that first day you said "Sometimes I wonder if I've actually really changed and made progress in myself" or something along those lines (I think you mentioned that right after the infamous failed Maria set in the parkinglot).

Marty, this and your last LR are tremendous proof that you've made significant progress and are that much closer to railing out those hot cheerleaders that you're 20 years late on ;)... except it'll be that much sweeter because you worked for that shit!

Though I will say this I think you could have laid this girl if you never kissed her. I know you like to be the romantic perfect Hollywood scene but I think it would've ended much better (for both of you) if you would've just found a seduction spot (her house, your car, blanket in the park, hotel room, middle of the street if she's adventurous idk) and taken care of business.

Though I know the feeling of "accomplishing more than you set out to for the day" and how when you get a FR+ it's easy to be content with that (I recently experienced this with Sexonthebeach girl and had a tough time pushing myself to push for sex as crazy as that sounds) and I think that had a bit to do with this but you kind of have to train yourself to never be content. If you fuck her in a bathroom in 10 min. you have to want to fuck her in the ass within 10 min etc.

Though nonetheless I'm grateful you lived and posted this adventure as it served as my inspiration for sexonthebeachgirl. You're a gangster ass pimp Marty keep it pimpin, pimpin.

-Rob
 

Marty

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This one seems to have disappeared off the surface of the planet.

I mean, are any girls actually interested in dating these days, or do they just want to kiss the same day they meet you and then just pretend you never existed?

It used not to be this way. They used to have an attention span.
 

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Not really. With Facebook and Twitter girls have little attention span when hundreds of thirsty guys kiss their ass and blow up their ego even more than us men. Moving fast and being an aloof/asshole Alpha male with game is our only shot if we want to even the odds. It's a lonely, hard road though, it's not for everyone. Being indifferent to the outcome is crucial in game, thus move on and game on Marty, you'll get there.
 

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That sounds rather bleak, Eternity, but judging by the credibility of all the rest of your comments on this forum, I'm 99% sure you're right.

So people don't go on real "dates" any more, huh? It's out of fashion? Good that someone let me know.

Interestingly, this cutie confided to me that her eldest brother, who is I think 12 years her senior, is quite close to her and gives her lots of reassurance and advice.

Now this fellow is apparently on his third wife, as of not so long ago, making me suspect he is likely a Knight of such brilliant Whiteness that one requires smoked glass to view him directly. So I can quite imagine her taking advantage of the interval to contact him and ask his opinion, which is very probably "That Marty bird sounds like more trouble than he's worth, I'd ditch him if I were you".
 

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Maybe she was just looking to get laid, and her herpes flared up. We just have no way of knowing what happened on her end, only your end.
 

Eternity

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Marty said:
So people don't go on real "dates" any more, huh? It's out of fashion? Good that someone let me know.

Date a girl after you fucked her a couple of times and have decided she's a good match for you. Or if she's more invested in you than you are with her at the beginning it might work, but she has to be screened out as a "good" catch, and these days girls like that are pretty rare. I'm biased though, since i have seen more of their darker natures than good, thus why I gravitate to cold hearted players like McQueen and Heartiste.
 

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Date a girl after you fucked her a couple of times and have decided she's a good match for you. Or if she's more invested in you than you are with her at the beginning it might work, but she has to be screened out as a "good" catch, and these days girls like that are pretty rare. I'm biased though, since i have seen more of their darker natures than good, thus why I gravitate to cold hearted players like McQueen and Heartiste.

Hey eternity, who are Mcqueen and Heartiste? just curious...
 

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ocantu1987 said:
Hey eternity, who are Mcqueen and Heartiste? just curious...

Christian McQueen is a nightclub ex VIP host who is an expert with nightclub game but has excellent advice in all areas of seduction along with fashion and motivates you to become your best self not "average". You can check out some of his tips in my "Tips and Tricks" thread or check him out online. His podcast is also pretty insightful and entertaining.... (His mindset on women is not lighthearted like here, it's more darker but unfortunately real)

Chateau Heartiste is a very well known reputed player who was known as Roissy back in the day but changed his name due to some problems with people who found out who he was and tried to make his life hell for writing rather bashful, gritty, extreme point of views on fat girls, feminism, and his racist political rants. I don't really care for any of that in his main site only for his advice and mindset on game and men who wish to become aloof Alpha males with great game. His advice and insights into the female psyche and game in general are only matched by few in the seduction community, it even rivals Chase wisdom in some areas... Most of the tips i posted on my "Tips and Tricks" thread are directly from him.

Both these player's mindsets are not for everyone because you have to understand and have good fundamentals to pull off some of the advice given. Also it is geared more for intermediate to advanced seducers but anyone can try it if they understand the core basics of seduction and have at least some experience with women. Be warned though, once you read some of their views you might not see women in the same light, it is blunt and to the point. Thus, it's why i call them cold hearted players because they are veterans of the seduction community.
 

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I think most other people covered what needed to be said

I just like to say nice solid report and you wrote it was really engaging good job
 
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