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In some parts of the world (in my case I'm Latin american) some cities are not so big, not talking about places with a few hundred houses, i'm talking about a city with 50,000 to 500,000 population, few places to hang out (around some bars, some coffe shops), well a sort of growing town economically speaking in my case some things change.
Here are the odds:
-Your reputation always is at risk.
-Gossips are very very fluid.
-You go out to the street and you find a lot of old faces.
-Hard to find a lot of women walking by.
So it's really easy that some girl tells you "I have see you with many girls" "Oooh, you are that guy that flirted my girlfriend" "You are just that guy once i saw"
Damn, it's really freaking insane how to keep hiding 2 or 3 relationships in the dark, so here i want to share some basic and maybe obvious tips that had help me a lot in my game:
1- Don't BE THAT GUY:
If you want to keep the amount of women you can get without ruining your reputation, and you go out to this bar everybody do too try not to kiss anyone, try not to be so obvious with you body language that you are INTO this girl, you can say later "she was just a old friend", I KNOW YOU ARE A PLAYER, but don't show it that much besides your fundamentals you need to be reserved.
2- Pick Not too popular places:
There is this block with 3 coffee shops so popular in town that everybody goes there to read a book, flirt or whatever, in the other side of the hand, there is this usually but not always empty place called "Coffe empire or something" lol, it's not that bad but not that great eather, just tell her "there serve this sandwich i love" and get there, she's going to keep simple trust me. Avoid setting dates here, there's always a place you can just relax and be without that voice in your mind telling you "damn, she's going to find out i'm here".
3- Your facebook/social media:
-You can keep your relationship status as "single" , tell all the girls until the one gets you married you'll change it ;D
-Don't upload photos with any of your lovers, comments are dangerous.
-Never like hot photos of your girls, it will create a pattron and will expose you. Women are incredibly amazing to figure out what's going on by asking a friend who is friend of your lover, and since is a small town gossips are like jelly, they adjust to every situation.
-No implicit/indirect post on what's going on with your head, please it's girls stuff and by that you put a seed on their mind
-Adjust your privacy settings and tell them your family is jealous and shit, or that you don't like that someone gets into who you are datting because gossips and shit can ruin it.
4- NEVER TELL YOUR HOMEBOYS WHO YOU ARE DATING:
Ok, i'm going to make a point out of it, they are your friends, but even man talk, and they can talk about you just to impress other girls, be cool, be drunk, they tell a girlfriend or in a hate moment at you they can blow a lot of shit they know about you...
I hope this you find this helpful, just don't ignore these things, they might be silly but it's what i've learn from my own experience
Peace, Sal
Here are the odds:
-Your reputation always is at risk.
-Gossips are very very fluid.
-You go out to the street and you find a lot of old faces.
-Hard to find a lot of women walking by.
So it's really easy that some girl tells you "I have see you with many girls" "Oooh, you are that guy that flirted my girlfriend" "You are just that guy once i saw"
Damn, it's really freaking insane how to keep hiding 2 or 3 relationships in the dark, so here i want to share some basic and maybe obvious tips that had help me a lot in my game:
1- Don't BE THAT GUY:
If you want to keep the amount of women you can get without ruining your reputation, and you go out to this bar everybody do too try not to kiss anyone, try not to be so obvious with you body language that you are INTO this girl, you can say later "she was just a old friend", I KNOW YOU ARE A PLAYER, but don't show it that much besides your fundamentals you need to be reserved.
2- Pick Not too popular places:
There is this block with 3 coffee shops so popular in town that everybody goes there to read a book, flirt or whatever, in the other side of the hand, there is this usually but not always empty place called "Coffe empire or something" lol, it's not that bad but not that great eather, just tell her "there serve this sandwich i love" and get there, she's going to keep simple trust me. Avoid setting dates here, there's always a place you can just relax and be without that voice in your mind telling you "damn, she's going to find out i'm here".
3- Your facebook/social media:
-You can keep your relationship status as "single" , tell all the girls until the one gets you married you'll change it ;D
-Don't upload photos with any of your lovers, comments are dangerous.
-Never like hot photos of your girls, it will create a pattron and will expose you. Women are incredibly amazing to figure out what's going on by asking a friend who is friend of your lover, and since is a small town gossips are like jelly, they adjust to every situation.
-No implicit/indirect post on what's going on with your head, please it's girls stuff and by that you put a seed on their mind
-Adjust your privacy settings and tell them your family is jealous and shit, or that you don't like that someone gets into who you are datting because gossips and shit can ruin it.
4- NEVER TELL YOUR HOMEBOYS WHO YOU ARE DATING:
Ok, i'm going to make a point out of it, they are your friends, but even man talk, and they can talk about you just to impress other girls, be cool, be drunk, they tell a girlfriend or in a hate moment at you they can blow a lot of shit they know about you...
I hope this you find this helpful, just don't ignore these things, they might be silly but it's what i've learn from my own experience
Peace, Sal
