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Hey Guys! I just want to share my first proper LR. Happened a week ago, just when I began applying the "are you single?" opener.
The day in question I warmed up by being sociable in class, and then at the bus I actually complimented a girl about her eyes, chatted with her for a bit until I find out she goes to high school and akwardly let the interaction die off.
I arrive at another college and I just waste about 20 mins until I decide to approach at least one girl before calling it a day.
The Approach
I stand up (I was lying down on a bench the whole time haha), and spot a very cute redhead with my peripheral vision. I don't approach, but walk towards the main area of college instead. I turn on my sexy and really slow walk. She passed me, I beheld her ass and her hair and thought to myself "Wow, she is sexy"
At an intersection I catch up with her. As the crossing sign turns green, and while crossing it:
-Hey… quick question… Are you single?
-Yes [with a little smile]
-I just saw you walking by… and I thought you had… the most amazing hair I've seen all day and I had to say hi
-What's your name? [as we get to the other side, and she stops and turns completely toward me]
-Ergon, what's yours?
-Lina [name I just invented her]
-So, you're a student here, I reckon
-yes
-What is your major?
Here she says something about logistics, and goes on a little lecture about what it was in the context of business and all of that. She sounded kind of rehearsed.
-Yeah, so that's what logistics is: moving things around [and men lol]
Out of nowhere starts raining and I say "Let's move over, to cover from the rain" grabbing her arm.
-So what do you do when you're not thinking about logistics and business. Do you do anything artistic?
-I play the [x instrument]
We keep talking for a minute. I ask if she was done with classes. Yes. If she had anything else going on that day. No just going home. I say "We should grab a coffee, over there"
-Oh, actually I have a meeting later. I'm the leader of a christian youth group bla bla
-Oh… that's… good for you network. And making business contacts.
Here I realized that 1) I showed no intent by feeling her out. 2) Suggested insta-date too soon and weakly 3) Religious girl?
At the same exact moment the light rail arrives. We were just where it stops. She says "that's my line"
"Ah mine too". We step in and I lightly lead her from the small of her back. She chooses a place where we both are standing, leaning against a divider, facing each other.
I talk about whatever comes to mind. We keep vibing.
At some point when talking a little about the city:
Have you ever thought about just picking up and leaving it all behind and running off to some foreign city or country you've never been to before for good?
Later she discloses she has a twin. "Who is the good one and who is the bad one?" "We're both pretty equal" "hmm, of course"
Suddenly she stares at me and tells me "This is my stop" and lingers for two seconds. I say "yeah, mine too" We step down and I say:
Hey, I'd like to keep chatting with you again sometime… does that works for you?
Yeah..
Cool, how does you schedule looks like this or next week?
Maybe next week, yeah.
Let me grab your number then and we arrange the details.
…
-ok cool good luck with your meeting…
We parted ways and I realized here I literally chased her on the transit haha. But my conversation skills were really good. I also tried to be polarizing with the insta-date soon into the approach. I mostly thought she wasn't going to respond to my texts, but..
Texting
3 hours later
[5] Glad to meet a fellow xyz student
- Ergon.
[5] Hey, it was nice meeting you too
Then in the evening, surprisingly, I make my first bathroom pull at a Casino. Written with a bit more detail here LR: First bathroom pull
I let Friday pass and on Saturday:
[2] Hey Lina, hope your weekend is going well. Mine's been pretty solid, got to see a [bla blas] game yesterday… About our meet-up, when's good for you to grab drinks? My schedule is pretty open save Tuesday. Let me know
[4] My weekend is going good too! How was the game? I've never been to see the [bla blas]. Wednesday is a good day for me. Does that work for you?
[5] Not bad. I won tickets for the balcony so it was extra especial. Wednesday works. Say 3 o'clock in the afternoon? There's this cozy place at abc - we can meet at the qwerty station, it's a short walk from there
[7] That sounds like a good time. I just got back from a family dinner. We had [exotic food]. Have you ever had it? That seems like a good place. What line runs over there? I noticed you have an accent. What other language do you speak?
[9] I don't think I have, but it sounds worth trying… The [xyz] line takes you there and yeah I speak Spanish. I'm sure you'll hear more accent soon
Then she goes on qualifying herself sending texts in Spanish telling me she's been studying it for years. We text a bit more until next day about where she's traveled and where I'm from. I don't ask questions, but I'm very warm because of her investment and qualifying.
The Date and Pull
The day before the date she is the one that asks Are we still on for tomorrow?
Very good sign. We agreed to meet somewhere 15 min away from my place, where I can pull via bus (not ideal, but I'm still working on getting my license). The day of the date the transit is super slow. I'm 20 mins late, she's another 20 mins late because of an event she had that overextended. Then I called her because she arrived at a different place than where we agreed. I tell her I'll come meet her.
I meet her 5 min later and she seemed nervous and apologetic because she was really late. No biggy. (She was to make up later ;-] ) It was actually great because she got lost somewhere closer to my place and she had a car.
I told her to drive us to the coffee shop behind my pad. It was closed (at 3pm?). I got her to a bar, she said she forgot her id. "Ok, let's grab a bite" and we walk back to my place. We're in my living room, and I give her half a sandwich. She takes two bites and turns all her attention to me. We make out. I go to the bathroom. We talk some more and make out again.
I try to pull her toward me, there's resistance. I rinse and repeat. One step back, two forward. I talk dirty to her. I untuck her shirt, I cup her breasts. I kiss her whole body. Make her touch my junk. She still has pants and bra on. I dry hump her and she comes. She takes her bra and pants off. She rides me still with her panties, she comes again and then takes her panties off, asks me if a have a condom and to pound town we go. At the end she finished me with a bj and it was great.
I enjoyed meeting this girl.
Observations:
-I made some "mistakes" in the approach, but I think fundamentals + opener caused a very good first impression. My conversation skills where on point too.
-The logistics god where in my favor. She changed things but for the good of both of us. An the mini odyssey might had actually lessened LMR.
-And seriously guys, read Hector's article for dealing with LMR. Here
It's just one of the best articles on this site.
-I'll be using "Are you single?" a lot more. Later in bed, she told me I was very forward but very smooth haha.
-I'm really grateful for being part of this forum. This LR was full of many small bits I've learned from articles and other member's reports and journals. Seriously guys, you're awesome.
The day in question I warmed up by being sociable in class, and then at the bus I actually complimented a girl about her eyes, chatted with her for a bit until I find out she goes to high school and akwardly let the interaction die off.
I arrive at another college and I just waste about 20 mins until I decide to approach at least one girl before calling it a day.
The Approach
I stand up (I was lying down on a bench the whole time haha), and spot a very cute redhead with my peripheral vision. I don't approach, but walk towards the main area of college instead. I turn on my sexy and really slow walk. She passed me, I beheld her ass and her hair and thought to myself "Wow, she is sexy"
At an intersection I catch up with her. As the crossing sign turns green, and while crossing it:
-Hey… quick question… Are you single?
-Yes [with a little smile]
-I just saw you walking by… and I thought you had… the most amazing hair I've seen all day and I had to say hi
-What's your name? [as we get to the other side, and she stops and turns completely toward me]
-Ergon, what's yours?
-Lina [name I just invented her]
-So, you're a student here, I reckon
-yes
-What is your major?
Here she says something about logistics, and goes on a little lecture about what it was in the context of business and all of that. She sounded kind of rehearsed.
-Yeah, so that's what logistics is: moving things around [and men lol]
Out of nowhere starts raining and I say "Let's move over, to cover from the rain" grabbing her arm.
-So what do you do when you're not thinking about logistics and business. Do you do anything artistic?
-I play the [x instrument]
We keep talking for a minute. I ask if she was done with classes. Yes. If she had anything else going on that day. No just going home. I say "We should grab a coffee, over there"
-Oh, actually I have a meeting later. I'm the leader of a christian youth group bla bla
-Oh… that's… good for you network. And making business contacts.
Here I realized that 1) I showed no intent by feeling her out. 2) Suggested insta-date too soon and weakly 3) Religious girl?
At the same exact moment the light rail arrives. We were just where it stops. She says "that's my line"
"Ah mine too". We step in and I lightly lead her from the small of her back. She chooses a place where we both are standing, leaning against a divider, facing each other.
I talk about whatever comes to mind. We keep vibing.
At some point when talking a little about the city:
Have you ever thought about just picking up and leaving it all behind and running off to some foreign city or country you've never been to before for good?
Later she discloses she has a twin. "Who is the good one and who is the bad one?" "We're both pretty equal" "hmm, of course"
Suddenly she stares at me and tells me "This is my stop" and lingers for two seconds. I say "yeah, mine too" We step down and I say:
Hey, I'd like to keep chatting with you again sometime… does that works for you?
Yeah..
Cool, how does you schedule looks like this or next week?
Maybe next week, yeah.
Let me grab your number then and we arrange the details.
…
-ok cool good luck with your meeting…
We parted ways and I realized here I literally chased her on the transit haha. But my conversation skills were really good. I also tried to be polarizing with the insta-date soon into the approach. I mostly thought she wasn't going to respond to my texts, but..
Texting
3 hours later
[5] Glad to meet a fellow xyz student
- Ergon.[5] Hey, it was nice meeting you too
Then in the evening, surprisingly, I make my first bathroom pull at a Casino. Written with a bit more detail here LR: First bathroom pull
I let Friday pass and on Saturday:
[2] Hey Lina, hope your weekend is going well. Mine's been pretty solid, got to see a [bla blas] game yesterday… About our meet-up, when's good for you to grab drinks? My schedule is pretty open save Tuesday. Let me know
[4] My weekend is going good too! How was the game? I've never been to see the [bla blas]. Wednesday is a good day for me. Does that work for you?
[5] Not bad. I won tickets for the balcony so it was extra especial. Wednesday works. Say 3 o'clock in the afternoon? There's this cozy place at abc - we can meet at the qwerty station, it's a short walk from there
[7] That sounds like a good time. I just got back from a family dinner. We had [exotic food]. Have you ever had it? That seems like a good place. What line runs over there? I noticed you have an accent. What other language do you speak?
[9] I don't think I have, but it sounds worth trying… The [xyz] line takes you there and yeah I speak Spanish. I'm sure you'll hear more accent soon
Then she goes on qualifying herself sending texts in Spanish telling me she's been studying it for years. We text a bit more until next day about where she's traveled and where I'm from. I don't ask questions, but I'm very warm because of her investment and qualifying.
The Date and Pull
The day before the date she is the one that asks Are we still on for tomorrow?
Very good sign. We agreed to meet somewhere 15 min away from my place, where I can pull via bus (not ideal, but I'm still working on getting my license). The day of the date the transit is super slow. I'm 20 mins late, she's another 20 mins late because of an event she had that overextended. Then I called her because she arrived at a different place than where we agreed. I tell her I'll come meet her.
I meet her 5 min later and she seemed nervous and apologetic because she was really late. No biggy. (She was to make up later ;-] ) It was actually great because she got lost somewhere closer to my place and she had a car.
I told her to drive us to the coffee shop behind my pad. It was closed (at 3pm?). I got her to a bar, she said she forgot her id. "Ok, let's grab a bite" and we walk back to my place. We're in my living room, and I give her half a sandwich. She takes two bites and turns all her attention to me. We make out. I go to the bathroom. We talk some more and make out again.
I try to pull her toward me, there's resistance. I rinse and repeat. One step back, two forward. I talk dirty to her. I untuck her shirt, I cup her breasts. I kiss her whole body. Make her touch my junk. She still has pants and bra on. I dry hump her and she comes. She takes her bra and pants off. She rides me still with her panties, she comes again and then takes her panties off, asks me if a have a condom and to pound town we go. At the end she finished me with a bj and it was great.
I enjoyed meeting this girl.
Observations:
-I made some "mistakes" in the approach, but I think fundamentals + opener caused a very good first impression. My conversation skills where on point too.
-The logistics god where in my favor. She changed things but for the good of both of us. An the mini odyssey might had actually lessened LMR.
-And seriously guys, read Hector's article for dealing with LMR. Here
It's just one of the best articles on this site.
-I'll be using "Are you single?" a lot more. Later in bed, she told me I was very forward but very smooth haha.
-I'm really grateful for being part of this forum. This LR was full of many small bits I've learned from articles and other member's reports and journals. Seriously guys, you're awesome.
