So usually i do have pretty good logistics, i invite girls to meet at a subway / train station near my place and i become better and better at pulling women home on the first date.
But sometimes a girl just refuses to meet near my place, usually when she lives in a part of town, that's a bit further from mine.
Today i had a special case:
A girl that lives in such a part of town, texted me up for a second date.
On the first, we met near my place, but i wasn't able to pull her. So i replied to her text and suggested we meet at the same subway station again, but this time she refused: "no, if were gonna meet there again, i'm out" she said.
In the past, I had success dealing with this kind of refusal by offering to accommodate for her bus/train ride, by buying her a drink, as i don't pay for women ususally.
But this time it didn't work, she still wants to see me though, but she doesn't want to come near my place again. She suggested meeting somewhere in the middle or near her place.
Now I obviously can't agree to that, first of all that's bad logistics, second it would be dating on her terms. How to deal with that?
But sometimes a girl just refuses to meet near my place, usually when she lives in a part of town, that's a bit further from mine.
Today i had a special case:
A girl that lives in such a part of town, texted me up for a second date.
On the first, we met near my place, but i wasn't able to pull her. So i replied to her text and suggested we meet at the same subway station again, but this time she refused: "no, if were gonna meet there again, i'm out" she said.
In the past, I had success dealing with this kind of refusal by offering to accommodate for her bus/train ride, by buying her a drink, as i don't pay for women ususally.
But this time it didn't work, she still wants to see me though, but she doesn't want to come near my place again. She suggested meeting somewhere in the middle or near her place.
Now I obviously can't agree to that, first of all that's bad logistics, second it would be dating on her terms. How to deal with that?
