FR Looking for trouble, need advice too

[jackoftades819]

Like in my last field report, I matched with a fat yet fuckable girl on OkCupid. After reviewing her questions I decided she was probably DTF and opened her. Let's call her Pink since she dyed her hair the color in her main profile pic.
ME: You seem like trouble
PINK: Yeah?
ME: It's a good thing though. You seem to like trouble anyhow.
PINK: Do I?
ME: You think otherwise then?
PINK: Trouble can be fun sometimes
ME:I agree. What sort of trouble are you looking for?
PINK: I don't usually seek out trouble. trouble just seems to find me. You?
ME: I'm the trouble that found you.
PINK: You viewed me, liked me, and messaged me first so I believe its you has found me
ME: That's what I said lol
PINK: I ate half a weed cookie earlier, you're gonna have to bear with me haha
Im doing my best
ME: No problem. Id love to cause trouble with you tonight but unfortunately I have to go back home for spring break. Interested in making plans next week?
PINK: Im not looking for a hookup babycakes
ME: Who said anything about a hookup? I'm just interested in getting to know you better.
PINK: Oh shit, that's valid
ME: You clearly find something alluring about me, so why don't we see about making plans to see each other in the future?
PINK: You're not bad looking and you're awfully charismatic haha, but sure, yeah
ME: Awesome. What's your schedule like next weekend?
PINK: Im going to a party Friday into Saturday but I think I also took Sunday off work
But we gotta talk more before we meet because i have anxiety
ME: No problem. I'll probably come back Sunday so I'll let you know what works then
PINK: Where are you originally from?
ME: Suburbs around ___ area
PINK: Oh nice
Which school do you fo to there?
ME: High school near ___. I'm currently in college at ___
PINK: Ohh, ___ is a good school
ME: Oh yeah. Where'd you go?
PINK: I didn't go to college, I went to a trade school for massage therapy but halfway through the program I realized I hated it unfortunately
ME: At least you figured it out. Hey, chatting on here kinda sucks. Lets swap numbers so we can stay in touch
PINK: Text me at ______

So we text a little more about our majors and I decide to end the conversation before I become her texting buddy. Feeling good about this because I'm sure she's into me and it's the first time anybody has ever called me charismatic. However, I am wary of her flaking since it'll be a week until we'll be able to meet. Anyway, I feel like it might be a good idea to text sometime in the next few days to keep rapport. What do you guys think? Any advice about this conversation and how to move this towards sex?

 

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Any advice about this conversation

The exchange seemed a bit long for me, after 3 or 4 messages I just ask them when are they taking me on a date to observe the response and often that's enough. ;=P

However, she wrote "But we gotta talk more before we meet because i have anxiety" so this indicates she requires more textual comfort. You mentioned she's large, so she may be lacking confidence and/or self esteem and therefore you may need to be more gentle than you would with a girl who knows she's attractive... still, don't let the message drag on for too long.

and how to move this towards sex?

That's a rather broad question so here is some general beginner advice:

You must lead!

Arrange to meet her at location with favourable logistics to the seduction location, then bounce her to a second neutral location before bouncing her back to the seduction location. This will enable her to feel as though she's known you longer by having more shared experiences with you at a variety of locations. I.e. build more comfort than going straight from meeting location to seduction location.

In terms of getting physical employ the two steps forward, one step back approach. Move forward as a reward for her good behavior, move back as punishment for lack of compliance or anything undesirable she may do.

Keep the conversation flowing, try to ascertain her interests and passions while sharing your own as this will build a connection and comfort faster. Don't be afraid to qualify her and request compliance, nor walk away at any time if she turns out to be a psychopath.

Start the physicality in socially acceptable areas, like her forearms and shoulders, and gradually become more intimate (like holding hands and hugging) but don't sexually escalate too much until you're at the seduction location. If asking her back to your place, give her a couple of compelling reasons why it's a great idea to go there.

Have your seduction location prepared for sex before you meet her, unless you intend to bang her in public... although her anxiety may prohibit that. So ensure the seduction location is clean and tidy, it has adequate food and beverage, suitable entertainment (particularly music), ideally no one else there or other distractions, and don't forget to have condoms arm's reach from where the intercourse is likely to take place.