Hey there.
I went out yesterday. I went to a party and it got me exhausted overthinking techniques and analyzing every single move.
I consider myself as a hightly motivated . I write in my own journal a couple of times a week, practice new things, I recently got a mentor and I read this stuff a lot. This has gotten me far, with two cold approach lays, a lot of cool dates, awesome interactions and so on. I have almost no fear of rejection compared to what I had half a year ago and I hesitate a lot less when I am about to approach. In many was I feel like an improved version of myself.
But I am also very exhausted of all the emotional turn moil this has brought me. Seduction has gotten me to explore and work on my personal flaws (like jealousy, approach anxiety, lazyness and so on). This feels hard to go through, although I know that it makes me more secure. The thing is that when I go through the emotions new events gives me, I tend to tense up, overthink things and often make mistakes sending women to friendzone or boyfriendzone me. Daygame dates are not that hard anymore, but making moves consistently, or worse, learning nightgame makes me scared. So I stop being in the moment, and instead over-analyze things.
How do you cope with this? Do I have to change the view I got on this? When I started to have some success, my confidence was on fire, but now that I want to seduce with consistency I get scared and act needy. How long does it takes to reach into a new level of game? Could you continue forever or do you settle for a level of skill?
I went out yesterday. I went to a party and it got me exhausted overthinking techniques and analyzing every single move.
I consider myself as a hightly motivated . I write in my own journal a couple of times a week, practice new things, I recently got a mentor and I read this stuff a lot. This has gotten me far, with two cold approach lays, a lot of cool dates, awesome interactions and so on. I have almost no fear of rejection compared to what I had half a year ago and I hesitate a lot less when I am about to approach. In many was I feel like an improved version of myself.
But I am also very exhausted of all the emotional turn moil this has brought me. Seduction has gotten me to explore and work on my personal flaws (like jealousy, approach anxiety, lazyness and so on). This feels hard to go through, although I know that it makes me more secure. The thing is that when I go through the emotions new events gives me, I tend to tense up, overthink things and often make mistakes sending women to friendzone or boyfriendzone me. Daygame dates are not that hard anymore, but making moves consistently, or worse, learning nightgame makes me scared. So I stop being in the moment, and instead over-analyze things.
How do you cope with this? Do I have to change the view I got on this? When I started to have some success, my confidence was on fire, but now that I want to seduce with consistency I get scared and act needy. How long does it takes to reach into a new level of game? Could you continue forever or do you settle for a level of skill?
