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I cold approached a pretty gal on campus about 1.5 weeks ago. We call her Maria. Since then we've been on 2 juice dates where we sat on grass with pretty intense vibes and energy in the air. The first of these dates is also the first time I'd kissed a girl through doing game - you can read up on the story here: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=9746#p47240
Using chase framing and putting on a strong sexy vibe, I managed to get her chasing me extremely hard after those 2 dates. She'd always be the first to initiate the text messages, and whenever I didn't respond immediately, she usually send a follow up text message an hour or so later. She even mentioned about me to her friends - she told them about my knack for easy conversations, my excellent dress sense and intelligence. When I suggested the idea of having a movie marathon together through a text exchange - she agreed emphatically and asked me where I lived, kinda inviting herself over.
Fast forward a couple of days later since our second date, I'd finished work and got home with about 2 hours to get ready for the night. Since so much anticipation was built up, and sex was very much expected (I think it was pretty mutual), I wanted to make sure everything went as smoothly as possible through proper preparation, cleaning, showering, and man-scaping. I made sure that the lighting in my room was perfect, and had a relaxing music playing in the background. Since my virginity was intact, I had no idea how long I'd last. I figured that it would be a mutual disappointment if I nutted within a couple of minutes. Proactively, I let one loose about 10 minutes before she arrived. In retrospect - not the smartest decision.
She texted me at 8 and told me that she was outside. I popped on my boots and opened the garage door where I noticed her grabbing stuff out of the boot. She was holding a pillow in her hand - at which point I knew that she'd made a decision to stay the night. In my mind I was just thinking, Oh man, this is definitely fucking on. I gave her a warm hug but didn't kiss her, because I wanted to build up the excitement and tension. She then took off her shoes, and we headed inside. Right off the bat I gave her a tour of the house. First we headed to the kitchen, and I cracked jokes about having a really Asian kitchen (culturally, I'm very Westernised, so it was funny to joke about my Asian roots), and showed her the bathroom and laundry - pretty standard stuff. I then told her that I'd show her the rest of the house. I took the lead upstairs and pointed to my sister, mother and father's respective rooms. My parents were home at that time.
We entered my room, where calming music was playing softly in the background. The lighting was on point.
This was actually a planned manoeuvre that I'd opted to make after reading this interesting post: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=1255
I left the room, and headed on downstairs and grabbed a jug of water and 2 cups. The whole time, feelings of sheer anticipation and excitement were rushing through my body. I headed back upstairs, carrying the cups and jug. I entered the room and closed the door. I poured us some water and I handed her her cup as I joined her on the bed. We sat down and had a light conversation for a few minutes, until I grabbed onto her hands and gently caressed them. She looked at me with gleaming eyes and the chemistry began to sky-rocket. I pulled her in as we transitioned from gentle kissing to passionate making out within a few seconds. As things got more heated, I tried to escalate and remove her clothing, which was a challenging endeavour given my experience. She asked me whether I wanted her to take of her top. I nodded.
Fast forward about thirty minute later, we were both naked and very horny. At that point I thought it would be interesting for us to turn off the lights - just to shake things up a little. We kept at it for about an hour, until which I thought it'd be interesting to turn off the music.
This got her very horny. Throughout the night, I had no problem staying hard whenever she jacked and sucked me off, but whenever I reached for the condom and began to penetrate her, I became pretty soft within a couple of seconds, until it was too soft to even stay inside her. 4 attempts and condoms later, we kinda gave up, so most of the night revolved around oral stimulation, fingering, rubbing and mutual masturbation. For some strange reason, the idea of being inside of her didn't make me particularly horny... I think it definitely had something to do with busting a nut earlier on, which I regretted. The whole time we shared incredible chemistry, where we'd gaze into each others eyes as if to stare into each other's souls. We rubbed our hands over our bodies plentifully, and there was a lot of romantic hand holding and sensual moaning. It turned us both on like crazy.
Throughout the entirety of the night, I was very sexually expressive with my dirty talk - which she absolutely loved and got soaking wet from. Perhaps I've been watching too many shitty pornos, haha. I'd say things like:
But despite hours of heated passion, I never was really hard enough to have sustained sex, and I never even got close to shooting my load either. Eventually we passed out and called it a night. In the morning, same deal - no dice. However, the passion seemed to grow and we both confessed to never feeling this way with another person before. In the heat of passion I mentioned:
After a bit more fun, we clothed ourselves and headed downstairs. I heated up some noodles and pizza for breakfast. The vibe was light and comfortable. After breakfast we headed upstairs and the chemistry was slightly different - much less passionate, and the energy was definitely lower. We engaged in small talk about 20 more minutes before her mother called her and she realised that she was having guests over at her house at 2pm - something that slipped her mind completely. She then packed her things and we parted ways, but not before sinking in one last very passionate kiss and the anticipatory mention of doing it again next week.
So there you have it! I figured that it was an exciting night of activities, and I was definitely surprised that I lasted through hours of stimulation but wasn't able to bust. And here I was scared that I'd suffer P.E..! Thanks for reading about my first time, folks. Not too sure if what I did in that night of activities was good in terms of technical decision-making, but I think my focus on going with the flow made it into a very, very passionate night indeed. Definitely an indelible one that will stay with me forever.
Peace out dudes
- J
I cold approached a pretty gal on campus about 1.5 weeks ago. We call her Maria. Since then we've been on 2 juice dates where we sat on grass with pretty intense vibes and energy in the air. The first of these dates is also the first time I'd kissed a girl through doing game - you can read up on the story here: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=9746#p47240
Using chase framing and putting on a strong sexy vibe, I managed to get her chasing me extremely hard after those 2 dates. She'd always be the first to initiate the text messages, and whenever I didn't respond immediately, she usually send a follow up text message an hour or so later. She even mentioned about me to her friends - she told them about my knack for easy conversations, my excellent dress sense and intelligence. When I suggested the idea of having a movie marathon together through a text exchange - she agreed emphatically and asked me where I lived, kinda inviting herself over.
Fast forward a couple of days later since our second date, I'd finished work and got home with about 2 hours to get ready for the night. Since so much anticipation was built up, and sex was very much expected (I think it was pretty mutual), I wanted to make sure everything went as smoothly as possible through proper preparation, cleaning, showering, and man-scaping. I made sure that the lighting in my room was perfect, and had a relaxing music playing in the background. Since my virginity was intact, I had no idea how long I'd last. I figured that it would be a mutual disappointment if I nutted within a couple of minutes. Proactively, I let one loose about 10 minutes before she arrived. In retrospect - not the smartest decision.
She texted me at 8 and told me that she was outside. I popped on my boots and opened the garage door where I noticed her grabbing stuff out of the boot. She was holding a pillow in her hand - at which point I knew that she'd made a decision to stay the night. In my mind I was just thinking, Oh man, this is definitely fucking on. I gave her a warm hug but didn't kiss her, because I wanted to build up the excitement and tension. She then took off her shoes, and we headed inside. Right off the bat I gave her a tour of the house. First we headed to the kitchen, and I cracked jokes about having a really Asian kitchen (culturally, I'm very Westernised, so it was funny to joke about my Asian roots), and showed her the bathroom and laundry - pretty standard stuff. I then told her that I'd show her the rest of the house. I took the lead upstairs and pointed to my sister, mother and father's respective rooms. My parents were home at that time.
We entered my room, where calming music was playing softly in the background. The lighting was on point.
This was actually a planned manoeuvre that I'd opted to make after reading this interesting post: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=1255
I left the room, and headed on downstairs and grabbed a jug of water and 2 cups. The whole time, feelings of sheer anticipation and excitement were rushing through my body. I headed back upstairs, carrying the cups and jug. I entered the room and closed the door. I poured us some water and I handed her her cup as I joined her on the bed. We sat down and had a light conversation for a few minutes, until I grabbed onto her hands and gently caressed them. She looked at me with gleaming eyes and the chemistry began to sky-rocket. I pulled her in as we transitioned from gentle kissing to passionate making out within a few seconds. As things got more heated, I tried to escalate and remove her clothing, which was a challenging endeavour given my experience. She asked me whether I wanted her to take of her top. I nodded.
Fast forward about thirty minute later, we were both naked and very horny. At that point I thought it would be interesting for us to turn off the lights - just to shake things up a little. We kept at it for about an hour, until which I thought it'd be interesting to turn off the music.
This got her very horny. Throughout the night, I had no problem staying hard whenever she jacked and sucked me off, but whenever I reached for the condom and began to penetrate her, I became pretty soft within a couple of seconds, until it was too soft to even stay inside her. 4 attempts and condoms later, we kinda gave up, so most of the night revolved around oral stimulation, fingering, rubbing and mutual masturbation. For some strange reason, the idea of being inside of her didn't make me particularly horny... I think it definitely had something to do with busting a nut earlier on, which I regretted. The whole time we shared incredible chemistry, where we'd gaze into each others eyes as if to stare into each other's souls. We rubbed our hands over our bodies plentifully, and there was a lot of romantic hand holding and sensual moaning. It turned us both on like crazy.
Throughout the entirety of the night, I was very sexually expressive with my dirty talk - which she absolutely loved and got soaking wet from. Perhaps I've been watching too many shitty pornos, haha. I'd say things like:
But despite hours of heated passion, I never was really hard enough to have sustained sex, and I never even got close to shooting my load either. Eventually we passed out and called it a night. In the morning, same deal - no dice. However, the passion seemed to grow and we both confessed to never feeling this way with another person before. In the heat of passion I mentioned:
After a bit more fun, we clothed ourselves and headed downstairs. I heated up some noodles and pizza for breakfast. The vibe was light and comfortable. After breakfast we headed upstairs and the chemistry was slightly different - much less passionate, and the energy was definitely lower. We engaged in small talk about 20 more minutes before her mother called her and she realised that she was having guests over at her house at 2pm - something that slipped her mind completely. She then packed her things and we parted ways, but not before sinking in one last very passionate kiss and the anticipatory mention of doing it again next week.
So there you have it! I figured that it was an exciting night of activities, and I was definitely surprised that I lasted through hours of stimulation but wasn't able to bust. And here I was scared that I'd suffer P.E..! Thanks for reading about my first time, folks. Not too sure if what I did in that night of activities was good in terms of technical decision-making, but I think my focus on going with the flow made it into a very, very passionate night indeed. Definitely an indelible one that will stay with me forever.
Peace out dudes
- J
