Loss of sensitivity

[thedude]

Hey guys,

Lately I just can't seem to feel sex. Maybe it has to do with the thickness of the condom but last night when I was fucking my fwb I literally could barely tell whether or not I was inside of her(I was)

A little bit afterwards I had her give me a blowjob and I could barely feel her running her tongue along and around even the supposed sensitive tip of my cock.


Anyone else have this problem at times?

p.s- I am circumcised if that matters

 

[Stu_Phoenix]

There could be any number of reasons for this, I'm gonna assume that it's not a health issue (if you experience numbness in other parts of your body sometimes you should probably see a doctor...).

Alcohol: If you've been drinking before sex this can lead to your member becoming pretty numb, if you want to experience "sensitive sex" then stay clear of booze. If you want to last longer and give your girl some serious orgasms then a little drink might help.

Thrust Angle: No I'm not talking about jet engines here! Basically the amount of contact and placement of contact on your member plays a big part in what you "feel", if you're going in missionary and shes ..wide open for you.. then you probably won't feel much, give her a good time in that position - then after some time (or an orgasm or 2 on her part later) switch the position to something more intense for you e.g. doggy style with you holding her as tightly in against your member as possible (if this isn't comfortable for her though ease up a little, girls like it rough sometimes, but they don't want to feel sore after).

Anxiety & Other Feelings: This may simply be because you're thinking about it a lot, nerves can get in the way of anything, try to stop thinking about it!

You're just not that into her: This might be the hardest one to swallow, but maybe she just isn't exciting you enough. Try picking up another girl and sleeping with her, see how it goes. If this really is just a FWB deal then you shouldn't be worried about "cheating" on her.