Yo...so amazing date. Didn't end in sex though...read on.
So I meet her by the library, hug her and we walk inside. We get a study room. Then we start talking and stuff. While walking around, we kept brushing up against each other. Hm.
We start talking and vibing like children. Like imagine just two children pushing & pulling, and teasing each other and laughing hard. We're havkng a ball, I maintain a sexy vibe so it's more flirting than just two friends talking. It was very man-to-woman communication with a hint of childishness. Pretty cool.
About an hour in, we both realize we want to spend more time together. She mentions she wants to meet up with her friend afterwards. Irrelevant. So I drive about 10 minutes to taco bell, we're flirting and chatting and vibing like little kids still. On the car ride, this is a really funny interaction:
Me: Soo...
Her: So..
Me: What's your favorite color?
Her: blue
Me: No way! Me too!
Her: haha but I like darker blue..
Me: yeah I have a fuuuuck ton of navy stuff
Her: haha yeah same..
Me: So what's your favorite type of music?
Her: alternative rock mostly
Me: Hmm...I kind of like that too.
Her: Whats your favorite type of car?
Me: Dodge Charger
Her: I have a Dodge Journey
Me: Hmm...
(At this point I have to pull out my card to pay)
Her: You bank with chase? I bank with Chase too!
Me: damn...so you like blue....I like blue...you drive dodge....I like dodge...you bank with chase...I bank with chase...
Her: hahhaahhahahaha
*this is from a movie...inside joke.
So we then sit by a bench, start talking..about..I dunno. About an hour in, I kiss her. It was like a soft peck, not a full on make-out. We keep talking, I go for the pull. At this point she was on my lap.
Me: Let's not make out in public like this...
Her: Where do you wanna go?
Me: Lets go to my house
Her: I don't think that's a good idea..this is our first date
Me: My house is warmer and comfier than a bench
Her: Hmm...let's go somewhere else
So I decide I have to turn her on more...we find this little secluded benches surrounded by bushes and she says that's a good place...whatever. We start making out, I start pulling out my moves
. Talking dirty, kissing her neck, her ear lobe, biting her lip, she starts moaning...At one point I smack her and it's super loud hahahaha funny.
I noticed that as she got more turned on, she'd pull away and start thinking. I start laughing at this because she's logically trying not to get turned on to the point she can't control herself. She goes...
Her: (with a very seductive look) you've been with a lot of girls...how many?
Me: I dunno...guess.
Her: Can you tell me how many people I've been with?
Me: (she's very inexperienced) 2 or 3
Her: I'm a virgin...
Me: (fucking great...) Oh..okay...lol
We go back to making out, now I don't know if I want to plow her fields. Make out..make out..more moaning.
Me: how much do you want me
Her: I'm not sleeping with you tonight...but if you wanna know if I'm turned on...
Me: (cockily) you don't have to answer that
Her: I'm VERY turned on.
*At this point she's riding me, in a seated position.
Her: How much do you want me??
Me: Well....I wanna rip your clothes off...throw you on my bed...kiss you all over your body...put it in slowly....very shallowly...and tease you...and tease you and then when you can't take it anymore...I just wanna jam it inside you and pound your pussy...I wanna feel how wet you are...I wanna dominate you....does that satisfy your question?
Her:........moaning.....yeah...giggles.....yeah
We keep making out and stopping and talking...
Me: You gotta stop thinking...
Her: I'm always inside my head
Me: Yeah just...start living...and feeling.
Her: But when I do that, I get hurt.
Me: Being inside your head is like living life in a closet...yeah it's safe but it's pretty fucking depressing.
Her: hmmm
Her: It's just that...I've been hurt before
Her: My last boyfriend wouldn't let me in, treated me like shit, cheated on me and would say there was another girl...and then fucked me over.
*That's a summary. She got very emotional, opened up and qualified herself.
Me:....you're an amazing person. You're funny, smart, you have goals in life. You're very genuine...people like you don't come by very often.
Her: giggles
Me: It's going to be okay. You're going to find someone better, and make lots of babies.
Her: haha
Then she hugged me very tight for like...ever.
Me: I would never want to hurt you
Me: I feel we're very close now, and I don't want anything bad to happen to you.
Me: But I'm just not the right guy for you.
Her: I know...
Her: I just wish I wouldnt like you so much...
*This is a very strong lover frame. She keeps calling me a bad boy and stuff.
Then we start talking about our futures, dreams, passions, fears, motivations. Really deep talk. I go to McDonalds to get food, go back to that childish and playful vibe. It was an amazing, eye-opening experience. It takes real confidence and inner strength to have that kind of power over someone. I gave her a FULL range of emotions from angry, laughing, dramatic, sexual, animalistic sexual vibe, she got in touch with her bad girl, and it was just a very ample wave. I stayed very solid and rarely fluctuated. She invested so much in me and could only hold me as if I was her rock. I don't want her to NEED me in her life, and I probably won't sleep with her to keep this from happening. But really good experience.
Cheers to 2015.
So I meet her by the library, hug her and we walk inside. We get a study room. Then we start talking and stuff. While walking around, we kept brushing up against each other. Hm.
We start talking and vibing like children. Like imagine just two children pushing & pulling, and teasing each other and laughing hard. We're havkng a ball, I maintain a sexy vibe so it's more flirting than just two friends talking. It was very man-to-woman communication with a hint of childishness. Pretty cool.
About an hour in, we both realize we want to spend more time together. She mentions she wants to meet up with her friend afterwards. Irrelevant. So I drive about 10 minutes to taco bell, we're flirting and chatting and vibing like little kids still. On the car ride, this is a really funny interaction:
Me: Soo...
Her: So..
Me: What's your favorite color?
Her: blue
Me: No way! Me too!
Her: haha but I like darker blue..
Me: yeah I have a fuuuuck ton of navy stuff
Her: haha yeah same..
Me: So what's your favorite type of music?
Her: alternative rock mostly
Me: Hmm...I kind of like that too.
Her: Whats your favorite type of car?
Me: Dodge Charger
Her: I have a Dodge Journey
Me: Hmm...
(At this point I have to pull out my card to pay)
Her: You bank with chase? I bank with Chase too!
Me: damn...so you like blue....I like blue...you drive dodge....I like dodge...you bank with chase...I bank with chase...
Her: hahhaahhahahaha
*this is from a movie...inside joke.
So we then sit by a bench, start talking..about..I dunno. About an hour in, I kiss her. It was like a soft peck, not a full on make-out. We keep talking, I go for the pull. At this point she was on my lap.
Me: Let's not make out in public like this...
Her: Where do you wanna go?
Me: Lets go to my house
Her: I don't think that's a good idea..this is our first date
Me: My house is warmer and comfier than a bench
Her: Hmm...let's go somewhere else
So I decide I have to turn her on more...we find this little secluded benches surrounded by bushes and she says that's a good place...whatever. We start making out, I start pulling out my moves
. Talking dirty, kissing her neck, her ear lobe, biting her lip, she starts moaning...At one point I smack her and it's super loud hahahaha funny.I noticed that as she got more turned on, she'd pull away and start thinking. I start laughing at this because she's logically trying not to get turned on to the point she can't control herself. She goes...
Her: (with a very seductive look) you've been with a lot of girls...how many?
Me: I dunno...guess.
Her: Can you tell me how many people I've been with?
Me: (she's very inexperienced) 2 or 3
Her: I'm a virgin...
Me: (fucking great...) Oh..okay...lol
We go back to making out, now I don't know if I want to plow her fields. Make out..make out..more moaning.
Me: how much do you want me
Her: I'm not sleeping with you tonight...but if you wanna know if I'm turned on...
Me: (cockily) you don't have to answer that
Her: I'm VERY turned on.
*At this point she's riding me, in a seated position.
Her: How much do you want me??
Me: Well....I wanna rip your clothes off...throw you on my bed...kiss you all over your body...put it in slowly....very shallowly...and tease you...and tease you and then when you can't take it anymore...I just wanna jam it inside you and pound your pussy...I wanna feel how wet you are...I wanna dominate you....does that satisfy your question?
Her:........moaning.....yeah...giggles.....yeah
We keep making out and stopping and talking...
Me: You gotta stop thinking...
Her: I'm always inside my head
Me: Yeah just...start living...and feeling.
Her: But when I do that, I get hurt.
Me: Being inside your head is like living life in a closet...yeah it's safe but it's pretty fucking depressing.
Her: hmmm
Her: It's just that...I've been hurt before
Her: My last boyfriend wouldn't let me in, treated me like shit, cheated on me and would say there was another girl...and then fucked me over.
*That's a summary. She got very emotional, opened up and qualified herself.
Me:....you're an amazing person. You're funny, smart, you have goals in life. You're very genuine...people like you don't come by very often.
Her: giggles
Me: It's going to be okay. You're going to find someone better, and make lots of babies.
Her: haha
Then she hugged me very tight for like...ever.
Me: I would never want to hurt you
Me: I feel we're very close now, and I don't want anything bad to happen to you.
Me: But I'm just not the right guy for you.
Her: I know...
Her: I just wish I wouldnt like you so much...
*This is a very strong lover frame. She keeps calling me a bad boy and stuff.
Then we start talking about our futures, dreams, passions, fears, motivations. Really deep talk. I go to McDonalds to get food, go back to that childish and playful vibe. It was an amazing, eye-opening experience. It takes real confidence and inner strength to have that kind of power over someone. I gave her a FULL range of emotions from angry, laughing, dramatic, sexual, animalistic sexual vibe, she got in touch with her bad girl, and it was just a very ample wave. I stayed very solid and rarely fluctuated. She invested so much in me and could only hold me as if I was her rock. I don't want her to NEED me in her life, and I probably won't sleep with her to keep this from happening. But really good experience.
Cheers to 2015.
