Lowering your physical standards for women

[Major Lance]

I read it's very common for inexperienced guys like myself to be too picky about women. I want to ask about Chase's old article "Lower your standards (and date hotter girls)." I love the idea in theory and it seems to make sense.

I tried in the past to hook up with girls that i wasn't that attracted to physically. They weren't ugly, these girls were cute but their bodies when they took off their clothes just weren't that attractive to me and I couldn't get it up during physical escalation. It's just not a good experience for anyone.

I don't want to be too picky but I don't know how to change this mental model. Of course, this is also causing a long dry spell and it's fucking up my confidence.
I know the obvious solution would be to approach hotter girls but (surprise, surprise) I also have crippling approach anxiety and that's a separate problem that I need to work on.

Does anyone have experience with lowering their standards? Any advice (except Viagra and similar solutions) would be appreciated!

 

[empath]

Seducing less attractive / lower quality girls for practice?

This has been long standing advice by many pick up gurus and I’d say over 50% of guys giving advice would agree with doing it, at least during the peak era of pua popularity. I feel like there are some pros and some major cons to doing this. I did it when I first started, but I didn’t get into...

www.skilledseducer.com

Discussed extensively on above thread

 

[Major Lance]

Seducing less attractive / lower quality girls for practice?

This has been long standing advice by many pick up gurus and I’d say over 50% of guys giving advice would agree with doing it, at least during the peak era of pua popularity. I feel like there are some pros and some major cons to doing this. I did it when I first started, but I didn’t get into...

www.skilledseducer.com

Discussed extensively on above thread

Thanks for the link!

 

[mirror]

Does anyone have experience with lowering their standards?

Dont lower your standards. Just realize what they are. Sex and desire are feeling things, not just looks or other stuff. You FEEL who u want. If needed just close your eyes and feel where u wanna go. The hottest chick can be a mediocre 6 sexwise if she isnt what you are attracted to and a 6 can be a 10 if she's just your type. Don't let your mind deceive you into thinking that the looks determine the arousal.

 

[Spyce D]

Depends on your goals and personality.

Lower Your Standards (and Date Hotter Girls)

In "How Much Do Looks Matter for Romantic Success?," Balla asks whether to lower your standards in pursuit of getting the best results with women achievable: “Hey Chase, I can agree with everything you wrote to a T. What I want to ask about is this. You say naturals are better to learn from...

www.girlschase.com

My personal experience is that by lowering my standards, I got lot of practice talking to women that also helped me when I was with really hot women cuz i ended up.realising that women are women and they all have a desire to get to know a man who make them feel things...they have never felt.

And lot of reference points for me as well.

To me it's just practice.