I was out with my boss in a super cool city in Europe for a week long conference.
Starting that it was mostly work, it turned to be an amazing week.
Previously to moving to our incubator my boss was heading one of the first high frequency trading desk in the world, earning more than 50k GBP a month.
Super high quality guy, except for the fact he still has that "I'm the shit", aggressive attitude often common among "(self declared) alphas" and high earners. You can see the dude bursts at the seams with self esteem and confidence. And a lot of it spills out, which from my point of view really stops him from getting into that upper stage of value, such as "quietly confident and classy".
Anyway, we are this networking event, 90+% guys as usual, most of them sloppy too... When I spot a couple of Asian girls at a table.
One of them small and cute.
Bang, an oasis in the desert!
I move around a bit, ready to introduce myself, when... Another dude goes first, fuck that. A black dude, the only black one out of hundreds people, I wonder if it won't give him a couple of "rarity points"
.
I hover around for a few minutes when it finally comes my turn.
They're a bit drunk, and I play a bit the cool guy, staring ahead into the void when I make those kind of "I'm cool/I've been aroud" comments".
We joke around a bit and funny enough, she actually makes the move and makes it easy for me when she blurts, quite serious "I like you (and this was in front of her junior direct report, this girl goes for what she wants, I thought).
Well, then "I like you too, we should definitely meet up for a drink before the conference is over".
We exchange contacts and they leave shortly after.
Key texts go a bit like this:
ME" do you prefer meeting outside the conference or can you move around the city"
HER "I prefer move around" (SIC)
ME "Where are you staying"
HER "some shitty place far away"
ME "OK, I'm staying at... top floor with balcony and overiew over the city" (true, except the view was crap)
ME Do you think you make it here?"
HER "Hmmm let me check the map"
She arrives and we go buy a wine together.
We go out in the balcony, the weather is great, the wine is great, the view is shit but it gives good talking points and she's cool.
I really enjoy the situation, no matter whether or not we will actually do it, this set up is amazing.
As we talk, she's very close to me and quite clearly into me, but I don't make the move yet, I let her simmer and let some tension build.
After a few minutes, I put the wine down and go for the kiss. She sliiightly turns her head away, so I go for a pecker.
I go for it again, and now it's full kiss, and I start grabbing her ass right away. Nice ass.
I don't go for a full escalation for another 30 mins at least, we sit on the bench outside and keep talking and exchanging some kiss/groping for a while, till I tell her to go back in.
It's funny how constantly rational she tries to be and goes from "rational yes" to emotional to "rational no".
"I really wanna do it but I'm afraid, can we just do it quick"
kiss passionately on the neck
"nooo no please I can't do it, I was raised conservative"
After a few minutes on the couches we move to bed.
She doesn't wanna remove the upper part of her dress and will keep it one for the whole time as "there are parts of me I want to keep from seeing".
Anyway, after a while we actually do it and the sex is... Terrible.
She likes it, but hadn't done it in years and I had to stop all the times not to hurt her.
I stop.
She tells me to treat her well and "make her happy" and "she will make me happy" (remember, she was from a prospect company, she's a manager, not in my field of interest, but could deffo make a positive intro me to the decision maker for my services).
I joke about the fact that her pubic hair is longer than her actual hair, which is a joke, yes, but actually not so far from the truth.
Anyway, we go for a second round and I come and it was so funny how she wanted to personally inspect the condom to make sure it was safe and then... Wanted to see that the condom was effectively far away from the bed "to be sure", LOL
She makes a few jokes that if I'm not nice she will leave, and I jokingly (and not rudely) let her know that her going for the night is actually my favourite option ("it's good for you anyway, I snore a lot and you need to be in good shape for the conference".
She understands and goes.
Let's see, chances are not that high, but if I close a big account because I slept with a prospect I'm the fucking man
Starting that it was mostly work, it turned to be an amazing week.
Previously to moving to our incubator my boss was heading one of the first high frequency trading desk in the world, earning more than 50k GBP a month.
Super high quality guy, except for the fact he still has that "I'm the shit", aggressive attitude often common among "(self declared) alphas" and high earners. You can see the dude bursts at the seams with self esteem and confidence. And a lot of it spills out, which from my point of view really stops him from getting into that upper stage of value, such as "quietly confident and classy".
Anyway, we are this networking event, 90+% guys as usual, most of them sloppy too... When I spot a couple of Asian girls at a table.
One of them small and cute.
Bang, an oasis in the desert!
I move around a bit, ready to introduce myself, when... Another dude goes first, fuck that. A black dude, the only black one out of hundreds people, I wonder if it won't give him a couple of "rarity points"
.I hover around for a few minutes when it finally comes my turn
.They're a bit drunk, and I play a bit the cool guy, staring ahead into the void when I make those kind of "I'm cool/I've been aroud" comments".
We joke around a bit and funny enough, she actually makes the move and makes it easy for me when she blurts, quite serious "I like you (and this was in front of her junior direct report, this girl goes for what she wants, I thought).
Well, then "I like you too, we should definitely meet up for a drink before the conference is over".
We exchange contacts and they leave shortly after.
Key texts go a bit like this:
ME" do you prefer meeting outside the conference or can you move around the city"
HER "I prefer move around" (SIC)
ME "Where are you staying"
HER "some shitty place far away"
ME "OK, I'm staying at... top floor with balcony and overiew over the city" (true, except the view was crap)
ME Do you think you make it here?"
HER "Hmmm let me check the map"
She arrives and we go buy a wine together.
We go out in the balcony, the weather is great, the wine is great, the view is shit but it gives good talking points and she's cool.
I really enjoy the situation, no matter whether or not we will actually do it, this set up is amazing.
As we talk, she's very close to me and quite clearly into me, but I don't make the move yet, I let her simmer and let some tension build.
After a few minutes, I put the wine down and go for the kiss. She sliiightly turns her head away, so I go for a pecker.
I go for it again, and now it's full kiss, and I start grabbing her ass right away. Nice ass
.I don't go for a full escalation for another 30 mins at least, we sit on the bench outside and keep talking and exchanging some kiss/groping for a while, till I tell her to go back in.
It's funny how constantly rational she tries to be and goes from "rational yes" to emotional to "rational no".
"I really wanna do it but I'm afraid, can we just do it quick"
kiss passionately on the neck
"nooo no please I can't do it, I was raised conservative"
After a few minutes on the couches we move to bed.
She doesn't wanna remove the upper part of her dress and will keep it one for the whole time as "there are parts of me I want to keep from seeing".
Anyway, after a while we actually do it and the sex is... Terrible.
She likes it, but hadn't done it in years and I had to stop all the times not to hurt her.
I stop.
She tells me to treat her well and "make her happy" and "she will make me happy" (remember, she was from a prospect company, she's a manager, not in my field of interest, but could deffo make a positive intro me to the decision maker for my services).
I joke about the fact that her pubic hair is longer than her actual hair, which is a joke, yes, but actually not so far from the truth
.Anyway, we go for a second round and I come and it was so funny how she wanted to personally inspect the condom to make sure it was safe and then... Wanted to see that the condom was effectively far away from the bed "to be sure", LOL
She makes a few jokes that if I'm not nice she will leave, and I jokingly (and not rudely) let her know that her going for the night is actually my favourite option ("it's good for you anyway, I snore a lot and you need to be in good shape for the conference"
. She understands and goes.
Let's see, chances are not that high, but if I close a big account because I slept with a prospect I'm the fucking man
