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Hey gentlemen I hope this 2016 year is treating you to your satisfaction. More importantly I hope you were successful in achieving your 2015 goals.
Regarding seduction I achieved my seduction goals for 2015 in about as close to the cut as it gets. Each year of my endeavors with women I have managed to double my lay count and I made the same goal for 2015. My underlying motivation for this goal is because it shows tangible progress, I continue to polish my skill set, and I get to get to the personalities of a variety of different women (although not in great depth).
Here's the story...
Since my last report in the beginning of December I had laid 10 girls which is two girls shy of doubling my lay count for the year. I then was called back home for 12 days to help my dad with his business as well as do Christmas with the family which is always fun.
However I was not going out during this time back home to meet girls and I was thinking to myself that I was going to have to seriously hit it hard when I get back to Orlando.
I drove back to Orlando on the 30th. So that basically meant I was going to have to pull one girl a night back to back which is something I've never done before. I think to myself that I'm definitely capable of doing this and we'll just have to hit it hard and make things happen.
The 30th
I go out to a 3 story nightclub this night with my wing. We approach a few girls but I'm having a slow start and start getting stuck in my head a bit so I go sit down on a bench for a second to get my mind right. I notice a girl by herself on her phone about 5 feet away that is looking at me every now and then and appears to have gotten separated from her friends. I see this as an easy way to build social momentum and I go approach her. She isn't the hottest girl in the club by any means. Blonde hair, decent face, a bit thicker than I would typically prefer but I we were getting along well and I didn't totally dislike her. I was being pretty sexual with her physically and verbally and she was responding well.
We keep having fun together so rather than throw this opportunity away I decide to seize it and see where it goes without judgement of not having the stunner in the club.
I lead her dominantly to a different part of the club and we start engaging in light sex talk and broaching a few topics. I can tell she's rather horny and I surely we aren't achieving anything productive by staying at the bar. I could also sense an escalation window opening so like any sensible horny man I move things further forward.
She tests. I dominate. She relents.
I lead her downstairs to a part of the club that's a more "traditional" nightclub (dark, loud pop music, obnoxious lights). We're on a cat walk looking down over the club and the railing has a corner to it. I back her into the corner and whisper something aggressive into her ear. She eats it up and is turned on. However she decides to test me by telling me that I'm chasing her for sex just like every other dude (or a derivative of that). I tell her she can leave anytime she doesn't feel comfortable.
She decides to take me up on this and tells me "It was nice meeting you" and turns her back to walk away. However she turns her head back over her shoulder to see what I'm doing and I'm showing minimal care however I do reach back and pull her back into me and tell her that "You shouldn't waste everything we've been through by being silly. Come let's go." I grab her hand and lead her towards the exit and she does not resist my advances.
The logistics are interesting. The original plan was to bring her to my house but that would mean I'd have to give her a ride long distance in the morning to her hotel by 9 O'clock. She also wanted to spend the night in which she was more excited for than I. She however was staying at a hotel 12 minutes down the road that was going to be vacant for the next hour and a half until her friends got home. The latter option it is!
We head back towards her hotel and half way there she get's a call from her friends that they are back at the hotel already and need her to get the key to get in. Thus, logistics have just changed and now we have friends possibly entering the equation.
We get back to the hotel and she has to go let them into the room and doesn't appear to be keen on bringing me up there with them or offering a solution to our problem. My plan now is for her to let her friend in and we'll go have sex in my car.
I tell her that I'm enjoying hanging out with her and that she needs to go let her friends in and then come back down so we can go grab a bite to eat together. She agrees but I do not have her number and there is always the possibility that her friends persuade her not to come back with me. She leaves to go let them in but tells me she will be back to grab food.
After about 5 minutes of waiting for her to come back down I curse myself for not having gone up with her myself to better control the situation and the friends. I get the feeling that she's not going to come back down but I decide to wait another 5 minutes because I've already come this far.
About 3 minutes later she's tapping on my window to let her in.
We head back out and she starts asking where I'm taking her. "Let's go find where's open love" I tell her.
"Show me how you masturbate"
There are a lot of strip malls in the area and I know the best place to park is probably behind one where we're secluded and their is a low likelihood of us being noticed.
She still thinks we're looking for a restaurant open when I pull into a vacant dark strip mall. However she doesn't say anything or put up a fuss.
I park in the back and immediately start feeling her up in my side seat and we start making out. She's loving it and she's trying to take off my belt to get her hands on me. I tell her we need to go in the back of the car and we get out and awkwardly get into the back and crunch ourselves into the rather cramped quarters of my back seat.
We pretty much undress ourselves and make out and play with each others privates in between. Her skin is extremely warm and inviting.I'm now naked and I'm making out with her and placing my erect cock on her thigh as she moans in anticipation.
I explore her pussy further with my hands and can tell she's ready. Now I rather awkwardly sit down on the seat to put a condom on. It feels weird to have the space of awkwardness without any buildup (too mechanical not enough emotion). So I tell her to show me how she masturbates so she's at least emotionally occupied while I get my raincoat on. She obey's my command with great fervor and attacks her pussy with her fingers. I tell her how hot it is to watch her pleasure herself. Once my onsie is on I pin her to the bottom of the seat, insert myself inside her, and shag her hard until I cum.
We thank each other for an amazing time and I drop her off.
The 31st
New Years started off pre-gaming at my friends apartment where we had over another buddy of ours, a cute tall Swedish girl, and her fat needy friend with low self-esteem (whom I am unaware how she got into the equation). I was leading the group socially, teasing the girls, talking about obnoxious sex topics as a joke, and pairing off with my friend every now and then to shoot the shit.
The tall Swedish girl was digging my charisma and it gave me a bit of a confidence boost to start off the night.
We end up leaving the apartment as a group and because the fat girl was rather annoying and we had no desire to stay with the two girls we pretty much ditched them by telling them we were going to take money out of a nearby ATM without inviting them with us or telling them to wait for us (they got the hint).
I've never done New Years in Orlando but my findings for the night were rather interesting.
For one the guy to girl ratio was extremely high and it seemed like there were at least 2-3 guys for every 1 girl. On top of that most people were a LOT more drunk than usual. The result was that women's shields were up much higher than usual and it was very difficult to approach a lot of girls. Groups were also much bigger than usual which led to more cockblocking and friends pulling the friends away faster.
I still had a good night though. I had two girls hook and move with me right around midnight and I had one makeout. Nonetheless by the time midnight hit I still did not have a girl with me that I could pull. We hit the street game up for a while and girls were mean, drunk, and downright violent at times.
However I still kept hammering it out although the fun factor was waning from the rather unattractive environmental factors.
Keeping it pimpin
After getting about 5 blowouts in a row and almost getting into a fight with a butt hurt man for hitting on his girlfriend I still have it in my mind I can pull this shit off. It's about 1:00 AM and we are walking back to the original venue we had paid cover for when I noticed a petite and very cute blonde walking down the street by herself with a hotdog in her hand (ewww).
I remember seeing her and thinking it'd be best to ping her with something natural and see how she responds (being that all my direct approaches were going to shit for the most part this night). I honestly didn't think she'd bite at my ping but she looked over, laughed, and engaged me back with a very warm and inviting vibe.
I immediately start walking with her and start making fun of the environment together. We exchange names and she pauses to contact her Uber driver as she is getting picked up to go home. I figure their is a low likelihood of talking her out of her already paid for Uber but she's investing into me and asks me to sit down with her so I agree to join her.
We sit down on the street together and we soon get into the conversation topic of whether or not it's moral for women to have a high sex partner count. I tell her my views on the subject and she of course agrees that women should not be judged harshly for following their biological instincts.
Her Uber driver continues calling her and she continues to tell the driver to come pick her up at her new location. We continue talking and I screen her logistics and her situation for the night. She does the same with me and I soon persuade her (rather easily) that we're going to go adventuring together. She responds to my leadership and I start leading her toward my car. Keep in mind that her Uber driver is continually calling her to try and pick her up however now that she is following me she does not answer his calls anymore even after she already paid for the service (which is not cheap by any means on New Years).
She asks where we are going and I tell her we're going to a bar with the best music, cheap drinks, and it's a lot more cozy than anywhere else that's open right now. She asks again and I relent and tell her that we're going to my house. She tells me some shit about sleeping on the couch and that she's going straight to bed.
Me: "Of course love I wouldn't have it any other way".
With that out of the way she totally agrees to come with me.
Losing my cool
On the way to my car conversation is going great until we get in my car. She starts screening me hard on what I want to do with my life, what my hobbies are, as well as how I plan to do those things. I'm happy to answer these curiosities that she has about me however I make the mistake of doing it from a place of submitting to her frame control rather than me sharing these ideas with her. I also later on make the mistake of trying to tell her about a business failure that I had recently in which I was quite proud of but I do it in a way that tried to make me appear as big man knowing exactly how to operate in life (which if we're honest is bullshit. I'm better off than the average 22 year old but by no means have life wired). She saw through this facade (rightly so) and it put me in this place of her being the wise woman and my being the eager kid.
We sort of dust this blunder under the rug and continue our adventure as usual although the sexual vibe between us had definitely lowered as a result of my mishap.
Making her forget I'm not cool
However we get home and she immediately takes to the couch and asks me to bring her a blanket. I sit down next to her and there is an awkwardness to touch her. However I know the best way out of this situation and to get her into my bed is to build back my dominance as well as change her emotions to something more playful and less serious.
I make some silly jokes and situations but then realize that she hasn't brushed her teeth since she ate the hotdog earlier. I tell her I'll be right back and not to touch anything. I go squirt toothpaste onto my finger with the intention to brush her teeth with my finger haha.
I sit back down next her and tell her to open her mouth real quick. She complies and I quickly slide my toothpaste covered finger inside her mouth to which she is quite opposed to.
She spits the toothpaste out and starts ferociously wiping it all over my in which I do the same to her. We're now having a fun toothpaste fight and it gets the emotional state to a much more playful state.
To make a quick note here when girls emotions are in a playful state (as opposed to a logical and serious state) they are becoming aroused. Not aroused in the sexual sense but aroused emotionally which makes it a very easy transition to arouse women in a sexual manner. Here I used the toothpaste fight (which I didn't anticipate to happen) to spike her emotions and get her present to the moment and less logical (and thus less wanting to sleep on the couch).
Now we are covered in toothpaste so I bring her to the bathroom with me so we can wash off the mess. She then goes exploring in my room and starts investigating it and asking questions. She is also quite sleepy and seeing my bed she curls up on top of it and pulls the covers over her. I realize that there is good hope in salvaging this now and I soon crawl into bed with her.
Words say "No!"... Actions say otherwise
She curls up without me prompting her for a second, then rolls over, and then we spoon. The sexual tension is no where near where I would want it to be and it feels like we're almost two friends sleeping next to each other rather than soon to be lovers.
I take responsibility for not setting this frame much stronger from the beginning and also fucking up the masculine polarity during the car ride conversation incident.
Thus I decide to slow burn it. I know she's definitely thinking about the possibility of sex given her actions. I know that it'd be an ultimate shame for me to not burn this down to the ground.
So start touching her increasingly more sexually in bed. I start turning myself on and bit her neck to show that I'm getting aroused. I put my hard cock felt through my boxers on her leg.
She does nothing...meaning she's not pushing away my advances. Green light.
I then reach my head over to kiss her and she pushes my head back. I go again and she pushes my head back again. I then stop everything and go back to touching her.
Then a last time I become aroused once more again and go to kiss her and I do so forcefully so she does not have time to push my head away. She relents and attacks me passionately. I escalate to the point of touching her pussy and she cuts contact. She says she is going to leave and I tell her that she can go if she pleases... she doesn't leave.
Always read her actions not her words a wise seducer once told me.
The last 5%
We cool down and in my mind I really want to bone her so I can get hit my goal for 2015 (even though It's technically 2 hours into 2016) (Note I realize this is not the mindset I want to have and I am taking strides not to view women as hitting my yearly sales quota). However despite my excitement to make this happen I know that the best way for this to work out is if I play shit cool and be indifferent to the result.
After about 30 minutes of cooling down I become very aroused and want to fuck her really bad because I'm horny. I reach over and start making out with her and she attacks me again very passionately. I pull both of her hands above her head and pin them together which makes her ridiculously horny. I then start playing with her pussy which she relents to and she goes to give me a handjob. At this point I can tell she is quite aroused and I put a condom on and insert myself into her.
We have a good time and she let's herself out in the morning quietly and thanks me for a fun night.
2015 crushed!
Here's to 2016 gentlemen!
Keep it pimpin
-Rob
Regarding seduction I achieved my seduction goals for 2015 in about as close to the cut as it gets. Each year of my endeavors with women I have managed to double my lay count and I made the same goal for 2015. My underlying motivation for this goal is because it shows tangible progress, I continue to polish my skill set, and I get to get to the personalities of a variety of different women (although not in great depth).
Here's the story...
Since my last report in the beginning of December I had laid 10 girls which is two girls shy of doubling my lay count for the year. I then was called back home for 12 days to help my dad with his business as well as do Christmas with the family which is always fun.
However I was not going out during this time back home to meet girls and I was thinking to myself that I was going to have to seriously hit it hard when I get back to Orlando.
I drove back to Orlando on the 30th. So that basically meant I was going to have to pull one girl a night back to back which is something I've never done before. I think to myself that I'm definitely capable of doing this and we'll just have to hit it hard and make things happen.
The 30th
I go out to a 3 story nightclub this night with my wing. We approach a few girls but I'm having a slow start and start getting stuck in my head a bit so I go sit down on a bench for a second to get my mind right. I notice a girl by herself on her phone about 5 feet away that is looking at me every now and then and appears to have gotten separated from her friends. I see this as an easy way to build social momentum and I go approach her. She isn't the hottest girl in the club by any means. Blonde hair, decent face, a bit thicker than I would typically prefer but I we were getting along well and I didn't totally dislike her. I was being pretty sexual with her physically and verbally and she was responding well.
We keep having fun together so rather than throw this opportunity away I decide to seize it and see where it goes without judgement of not having the stunner in the club.
I lead her dominantly to a different part of the club and we start engaging in light sex talk and broaching a few topics. I can tell she's rather horny and I surely we aren't achieving anything productive by staying at the bar. I could also sense an escalation window opening so like any sensible horny man I move things further forward.
She tests. I dominate. She relents.
I lead her downstairs to a part of the club that's a more "traditional" nightclub (dark, loud pop music, obnoxious lights). We're on a cat walk looking down over the club and the railing has a corner to it. I back her into the corner and whisper something aggressive into her ear. She eats it up and is turned on. However she decides to test me by telling me that I'm chasing her for sex just like every other dude (or a derivative of that). I tell her she can leave anytime she doesn't feel comfortable.
She decides to take me up on this and tells me "It was nice meeting you" and turns her back to walk away. However she turns her head back over her shoulder to see what I'm doing and I'm showing minimal care however I do reach back and pull her back into me and tell her that "You shouldn't waste everything we've been through by being silly. Come let's go." I grab her hand and lead her towards the exit and she does not resist my advances.
The logistics are interesting. The original plan was to bring her to my house but that would mean I'd have to give her a ride long distance in the morning to her hotel by 9 O'clock. She also wanted to spend the night in which she was more excited for than I. She however was staying at a hotel 12 minutes down the road that was going to be vacant for the next hour and a half until her friends got home. The latter option it is!
We head back towards her hotel and half way there she get's a call from her friends that they are back at the hotel already and need her to get the key to get in. Thus, logistics have just changed and now we have friends possibly entering the equation.
We get back to the hotel and she has to go let them into the room and doesn't appear to be keen on bringing me up there with them or offering a solution to our problem. My plan now is for her to let her friend in and we'll go have sex in my car.
I tell her that I'm enjoying hanging out with her and that she needs to go let her friends in and then come back down so we can go grab a bite to eat together. She agrees but I do not have her number and there is always the possibility that her friends persuade her not to come back with me. She leaves to go let them in but tells me she will be back to grab food.
After about 5 minutes of waiting for her to come back down I curse myself for not having gone up with her myself to better control the situation and the friends. I get the feeling that she's not going to come back down but I decide to wait another 5 minutes because I've already come this far.
About 3 minutes later she's tapping on my window to let her in.
We head back out and she starts asking where I'm taking her. "Let's go find where's open love" I tell her.
"Show me how you masturbate"
There are a lot of strip malls in the area and I know the best place to park is probably behind one where we're secluded and their is a low likelihood of us being noticed.
She still thinks we're looking for a restaurant open when I pull into a vacant dark strip mall. However she doesn't say anything or put up a fuss.
I park in the back and immediately start feeling her up in my side seat and we start making out. She's loving it and she's trying to take off my belt to get her hands on me. I tell her we need to go in the back of the car and we get out and awkwardly get into the back and crunch ourselves into the rather cramped quarters of my back seat.
We pretty much undress ourselves and make out and play with each others privates in between. Her skin is extremely warm and inviting.I'm now naked and I'm making out with her and placing my erect cock on her thigh as she moans in anticipation.
I explore her pussy further with my hands and can tell she's ready. Now I rather awkwardly sit down on the seat to put a condom on. It feels weird to have the space of awkwardness without any buildup (too mechanical not enough emotion). So I tell her to show me how she masturbates so she's at least emotionally occupied while I get my raincoat on. She obey's my command with great fervor and attacks her pussy with her fingers. I tell her how hot it is to watch her pleasure herself. Once my onsie is on I pin her to the bottom of the seat, insert myself inside her, and shag her hard until I cum.
We thank each other for an amazing time and I drop her off.
The 31st
New Years started off pre-gaming at my friends apartment where we had over another buddy of ours, a cute tall Swedish girl, and her fat needy friend with low self-esteem (whom I am unaware how she got into the equation). I was leading the group socially, teasing the girls, talking about obnoxious sex topics as a joke, and pairing off with my friend every now and then to shoot the shit.
The tall Swedish girl was digging my charisma and it gave me a bit of a confidence boost to start off the night.
We end up leaving the apartment as a group and because the fat girl was rather annoying and we had no desire to stay with the two girls we pretty much ditched them by telling them we were going to take money out of a nearby ATM without inviting them with us or telling them to wait for us (they got the hint).
I've never done New Years in Orlando but my findings for the night were rather interesting.
For one the guy to girl ratio was extremely high and it seemed like there were at least 2-3 guys for every 1 girl. On top of that most people were a LOT more drunk than usual. The result was that women's shields were up much higher than usual and it was very difficult to approach a lot of girls. Groups were also much bigger than usual which led to more cockblocking and friends pulling the friends away faster.
I still had a good night though. I had two girls hook and move with me right around midnight and I had one makeout. Nonetheless by the time midnight hit I still did not have a girl with me that I could pull. We hit the street game up for a while and girls were mean, drunk, and downright violent at times.
However I still kept hammering it out although the fun factor was waning from the rather unattractive environmental factors.
Keeping it pimpin
After getting about 5 blowouts in a row and almost getting into a fight with a butt hurt man for hitting on his girlfriend I still have it in my mind I can pull this shit off. It's about 1:00 AM and we are walking back to the original venue we had paid cover for when I noticed a petite and very cute blonde walking down the street by herself with a hotdog in her hand (ewww).
I remember seeing her and thinking it'd be best to ping her with something natural and see how she responds (being that all my direct approaches were going to shit for the most part this night). I honestly didn't think she'd bite at my ping but she looked over, laughed, and engaged me back with a very warm and inviting vibe.
I immediately start walking with her and start making fun of the environment together. We exchange names and she pauses to contact her Uber driver as she is getting picked up to go home. I figure their is a low likelihood of talking her out of her already paid for Uber but she's investing into me and asks me to sit down with her so I agree to join her.
We sit down on the street together and we soon get into the conversation topic of whether or not it's moral for women to have a high sex partner count. I tell her my views on the subject and she of course agrees that women should not be judged harshly for following their biological instincts.
Her Uber driver continues calling her and she continues to tell the driver to come pick her up at her new location. We continue talking and I screen her logistics and her situation for the night. She does the same with me and I soon persuade her (rather easily) that we're going to go adventuring together. She responds to my leadership and I start leading her toward my car. Keep in mind that her Uber driver is continually calling her to try and pick her up however now that she is following me she does not answer his calls anymore even after she already paid for the service (which is not cheap by any means on New Years).
She asks where we are going and I tell her we're going to a bar with the best music, cheap drinks, and it's a lot more cozy than anywhere else that's open right now. She asks again and I relent and tell her that we're going to my house. She tells me some shit about sleeping on the couch and that she's going straight to bed.
Me: "Of course love I wouldn't have it any other way".
With that out of the way she totally agrees to come with me.
Losing my cool
On the way to my car conversation is going great until we get in my car. She starts screening me hard on what I want to do with my life, what my hobbies are, as well as how I plan to do those things. I'm happy to answer these curiosities that she has about me however I make the mistake of doing it from a place of submitting to her frame control rather than me sharing these ideas with her. I also later on make the mistake of trying to tell her about a business failure that I had recently in which I was quite proud of but I do it in a way that tried to make me appear as big man knowing exactly how to operate in life (which if we're honest is bullshit. I'm better off than the average 22 year old but by no means have life wired). She saw through this facade (rightly so) and it put me in this place of her being the wise woman and my being the eager kid.
We sort of dust this blunder under the rug and continue our adventure as usual although the sexual vibe between us had definitely lowered as a result of my mishap.
Making her forget I'm not cool
However we get home and she immediately takes to the couch and asks me to bring her a blanket. I sit down next to her and there is an awkwardness to touch her. However I know the best way out of this situation and to get her into my bed is to build back my dominance as well as change her emotions to something more playful and less serious.
I make some silly jokes and situations but then realize that she hasn't brushed her teeth since she ate the hotdog earlier. I tell her I'll be right back and not to touch anything. I go squirt toothpaste onto my finger with the intention to brush her teeth with my finger haha.
I sit back down next her and tell her to open her mouth real quick. She complies and I quickly slide my toothpaste covered finger inside her mouth to which she is quite opposed to.
She spits the toothpaste out and starts ferociously wiping it all over my in which I do the same to her. We're now having a fun toothpaste fight and it gets the emotional state to a much more playful state.
To make a quick note here when girls emotions are in a playful state (as opposed to a logical and serious state) they are becoming aroused. Not aroused in the sexual sense but aroused emotionally which makes it a very easy transition to arouse women in a sexual manner. Here I used the toothpaste fight (which I didn't anticipate to happen) to spike her emotions and get her present to the moment and less logical (and thus less wanting to sleep on the couch).
Now we are covered in toothpaste so I bring her to the bathroom with me so we can wash off the mess. She then goes exploring in my room and starts investigating it and asking questions. She is also quite sleepy and seeing my bed she curls up on top of it and pulls the covers over her. I realize that there is good hope in salvaging this now and I soon crawl into bed with her.
Words say "No!"... Actions say otherwise
She curls up without me prompting her for a second, then rolls over, and then we spoon. The sexual tension is no where near where I would want it to be and it feels like we're almost two friends sleeping next to each other rather than soon to be lovers.
I take responsibility for not setting this frame much stronger from the beginning and also fucking up the masculine polarity during the car ride conversation incident.
Thus I decide to slow burn it. I know she's definitely thinking about the possibility of sex given her actions. I know that it'd be an ultimate shame for me to not burn this down to the ground.
So start touching her increasingly more sexually in bed. I start turning myself on and bit her neck to show that I'm getting aroused. I put my hard cock felt through my boxers on her leg.
She does nothing...meaning she's not pushing away my advances. Green light.
I then reach my head over to kiss her and she pushes my head back. I go again and she pushes my head back again. I then stop everything and go back to touching her.
Then a last time I become aroused once more again and go to kiss her and I do so forcefully so she does not have time to push my head away. She relents and attacks me passionately. I escalate to the point of touching her pussy and she cuts contact. She says she is going to leave and I tell her that she can go if she pleases... she doesn't leave.
Always read her actions not her words a wise seducer once told me.
The last 5%
We cool down and in my mind I really want to bone her so I can get hit my goal for 2015 (even though It's technically 2 hours into 2016) (Note I realize this is not the mindset I want to have and I am taking strides not to view women as hitting my yearly sales quota). However despite my excitement to make this happen I know that the best way for this to work out is if I play shit cool and be indifferent to the result.
After about 30 minutes of cooling down I become very aroused and want to fuck her really bad because I'm horny. I reach over and start making out with her and she attacks me again very passionately. I pull both of her hands above her head and pin them together which makes her ridiculously horny. I then start playing with her pussy which she relents to and she goes to give me a handjob. At this point I can tell she is quite aroused and I put a condom on and insert myself into her.
We have a good time and she let's herself out in the morning quietly and thanks me for a fun night.
2015 crushed!
Here's to 2016 gentlemen!
Keep it pimpin
-Rob
