Hey guys. Beginning of last week I matched with a girl I'm going to call M on tinder.
Fusion: Hey M
pretty smile <-- (thanks radeng)
M: Hey thank you!
Fusion: what kind of trouble are you up to today
M: haha taking my friend to meet her friend at the airport, then I work all night sadly
Fusion: Haha sounds like you don't like your job. Must be a cat breeder or something
M: haha no not a cat breeder, I would just rather be at home or doing something fun
Fusion: that's cool. I don't really like messaging on here, whats your number?
M: me neither, number
I've started waiting until the next day to hit them up, but in this case I text her shortly after. (same day)
Fusion: Hey M its Fusion
M: hey hows it going sorry I was driving
Fusion: Just relaxing after the gym, you?
M:Oh cool, im just relaxing too I just got home ive been like driving around so much today
Fusion: haha perfect opportunity to rock out. I dunno about you but I prefer getting to know someone in person than over text. Whats your schedule like this week?
M: oh totally haha. Ya I agree, Im free during the day Friday and anytime Saturday.
Fusion: Saturday works for me. We'll talk then and iron things out
M: Sounds great!
Saturday
Fusion: Hey M, got your heels picked out for later?
M: Hey, oh sure haha. What did you have in mind for later?
Fusion: Lets meet at the mall for hot chocolate, what time are you free?
M: That sounds good, Im free around 5 is that okay?
Fusion: works for me
M: Perfect!
Fusion: Message you when Im leaving!
M: ok great
Later
Fusion: Be there in 15
M: Okay I should be there in 20
We figure out where to meet. I get there first. I sit down and M arrives shortly after. I stand up and greet her with a casual "Hey M", with good eye contact and a smile. Ive been really trying hard to improve my fundamentals over the last few months. Eye contact, posture, walk, have all improved dramatically. She smiles and says hi back. I can tell shes nervous because of how fast shes talking. I tell her we are going to walk around the mall before grabbing hot chocolate. I take this as an opportunity to lead her by placing my hand on her back. Throughout the walk my arm would graze hers and she didn't seem to have a problem with my touch. On the walk I start deep diving her about family and where shes from etc. Her voice slows down a bit so I feel like shes becoming more comfortable.
Make it back to the coffee shop. Nothing was mentioned about how we would split it up. It was like $1.38 for hers so I just covered it. Im trying to find a booth for us to sit so we can sit side by side. After looking for like 10 seconds she points out a table and says "that one is big". I smirk and repeat what she said. I position the chairs so we are actually sitting quite close. I sit in a relaxed manner, not leaning in and legs spread. I let my leg rest against hers, she didn't pull away, but it seemed like she wasn't as comfortable with that for whatever reason.
We have some good conversation. I was deep diving her and she was asking me personal questions. I need to work on being more mysterious. Sometimes if a girl asks me a question I'll say "guess". Let her fumble around with it for a few guesses then tell. I need to evade questions like that a bit more I think. I touch her on her shoulder at some point and she didn't mind at all. She was laughing at my jokes. Trying hard not to become an entertainer so I try to keep the jokes spaced apart. Her eye contact with me was pretty good, caught her glancing down at my cock once haha. Her body was facing me the entire time.
After maybe an hour I tell her we are going to go for a quick walk. My plan was to somehow bring up cooking and suggest she come over and we make something during the week. (My logistics aren't the best right now. So my plan is to take girls out for day one and not push for sex. Then suggest a day two meet up at my place when my parents are at work). While we are walking I hear my name being called. I turn around and its one of my buddies from high school. He got a job as a diamond salesman so he was dressed pretty well (social proof?). I thought that introducing her to one of my friends on a first date would be nothing but awkward so I waved and kept going. "a friend?" she asks. "yeah that's one of my buddies, hes working though I don't want to talk to him haha".
At some point she says "what time is it?" I assumed she was going to say she needed to go (now that im thinking about this though it might have been a window?) so I beat her to it and told her I needed to get going. She said okay. I told her I would walk her to the exit she was going to so I could pitch the day 2 idea. I say tell you what, come over sometime this week and we can cook something up together. (Honestly cant remember how I brought it up but I don't think it seemed out of place). She laughs and says "haha no no, like what? noodles? Kraft dinner?" I say "yup, i'll even cut up a hot dog and throw it in for you". She laughs but doesn't say a definite yes or no.... So I change the subject naturally and keep going.
Reach the doors and give her a hug goodbye. She said this was fun. I tell her we'll talk soon and she smiles and says okay.
Looking back the conversation wasn't really sexual at all. Something I want to improve. Hopefully my fundamentals make up for that a bit. Anyway my plan is to text her tomorrow afternoon to see when shes free.
Fusion
Fusion: Hey M
pretty smile <-- (thanks radeng)M: Hey thank you!
Fusion: what kind of trouble are you up to today
M: haha taking my friend to meet her friend at the airport, then I work all night sadly
Fusion: Haha sounds like you don't like your job. Must be a cat breeder or something
M: haha no not a cat breeder, I would just rather be at home or doing something fun
Fusion: that's cool. I don't really like messaging on here, whats your number?
M: me neither, number
I've started waiting until the next day to hit them up, but in this case I text her shortly after. (same day)
Fusion: Hey M its Fusion
M: hey hows it going sorry I was driving
Fusion: Just relaxing after the gym, you?
M:Oh cool, im just relaxing too I just got home ive been like driving around so much today
Fusion: haha perfect opportunity to rock out. I dunno about you but I prefer getting to know someone in person than over text. Whats your schedule like this week?
M: oh totally haha. Ya I agree, Im free during the day Friday and anytime Saturday.
Fusion: Saturday works for me. We'll talk then and iron things out
M: Sounds great!
Saturday
Fusion: Hey M, got your heels picked out for later?
M: Hey, oh sure haha. What did you have in mind for later?
Fusion: Lets meet at the mall for hot chocolate, what time are you free?
M: That sounds good, Im free around 5 is that okay?
Fusion: works for me
M: Perfect!
Fusion: Message you when Im leaving!
M: ok great
Later
Fusion: Be there in 15
M: Okay I should be there in 20
We figure out where to meet. I get there first. I sit down and M arrives shortly after. I stand up and greet her with a casual "Hey M", with good eye contact and a smile. Ive been really trying hard to improve my fundamentals over the last few months. Eye contact, posture, walk, have all improved dramatically. She smiles and says hi back. I can tell shes nervous because of how fast shes talking. I tell her we are going to walk around the mall before grabbing hot chocolate. I take this as an opportunity to lead her by placing my hand on her back. Throughout the walk my arm would graze hers and she didn't seem to have a problem with my touch. On the walk I start deep diving her about family and where shes from etc. Her voice slows down a bit so I feel like shes becoming more comfortable.
Make it back to the coffee shop. Nothing was mentioned about how we would split it up. It was like $1.38 for hers so I just covered it. Im trying to find a booth for us to sit so we can sit side by side. After looking for like 10 seconds she points out a table and says "that one is big". I smirk and repeat what she said. I position the chairs so we are actually sitting quite close. I sit in a relaxed manner, not leaning in and legs spread. I let my leg rest against hers, she didn't pull away, but it seemed like she wasn't as comfortable with that for whatever reason.
We have some good conversation. I was deep diving her and she was asking me personal questions. I need to work on being more mysterious. Sometimes if a girl asks me a question I'll say "guess". Let her fumble around with it for a few guesses then tell. I need to evade questions like that a bit more I think. I touch her on her shoulder at some point and she didn't mind at all. She was laughing at my jokes. Trying hard not to become an entertainer so I try to keep the jokes spaced apart. Her eye contact with me was pretty good, caught her glancing down at my cock once haha. Her body was facing me the entire time.
After maybe an hour I tell her we are going to go for a quick walk. My plan was to somehow bring up cooking and suggest she come over and we make something during the week. (My logistics aren't the best right now. So my plan is to take girls out for day one and not push for sex. Then suggest a day two meet up at my place when my parents are at work). While we are walking I hear my name being called. I turn around and its one of my buddies from high school. He got a job as a diamond salesman so he was dressed pretty well (social proof?). I thought that introducing her to one of my friends on a first date would be nothing but awkward so I waved and kept going. "a friend?" she asks. "yeah that's one of my buddies, hes working though I don't want to talk to him haha".
At some point she says "what time is it?" I assumed she was going to say she needed to go (now that im thinking about this though it might have been a window?) so I beat her to it and told her I needed to get going. She said okay. I told her I would walk her to the exit she was going to so I could pitch the day 2 idea. I say tell you what, come over sometime this week and we can cook something up together. (Honestly cant remember how I brought it up but I don't think it seemed out of place). She laughs and says "haha no no, like what? noodles? Kraft dinner?" I say "yup, i'll even cut up a hot dog and throw it in for you". She laughs but doesn't say a definite yes or no.... So I change the subject naturally and keep going.
Reach the doors and give her a hug goodbye. She said this was fun. I tell her we'll talk soon and she smiles and says okay.
Looking back the conversation wasn't really sexual at all. Something I want to improve. Hopefully my fundamentals make up for that a bit. Anyway my plan is to text her tomorrow afternoon to see when shes free.
Fusion
