Madspeed Journey

[madspeed]

My background

Korean guy studied in America
175cm
Living in Seoul now.

My Rule
1. One week, more than 15 times day game.
2. Go out, Don't excuse it.
3. Don't need to read it. Just practice it.
4. You remember your fault, and feedback your failure, it is good for data analysis.
5. As soon as possible, you wear good clothes.

<In Korea Gangnam>
It's too hot outside, I don't feel like going out.
With the weather over 30 degrees, I just want to go home, turn on the air conditioner, and watch Netflix.
I’m getting more and more reluctant to go out.

<Cute girl waiting in the food alley>
She was very cute and pretty. As soon as I talked to her, she got surprised and said she had a boyfriend.
She was really pretty.

<Girl in hot pants>
When I spoke to her, she acted like she knew me at first but then decided she didn't know me and rejected me right away.

<Tall girl with a bob haircut in front of OMG>
As soon as I approached her, she said she had a boyfriend.
She was very tall and extremely pretty.

<Very sexy girl>
She was talking on the phone in front of a bar. A guy with a yellow Porsche was staring at her like a wolf.
She was about to enter the bar while on the phone, so I approached her despite the call.
She immediately said she had a boyfriend and rejected me.

<Tall girl with fair skin>
She was walking very fast with her white skin and tall figure.
As she was rushing into a coffee shop building, I approached her.
At first, she was cautious but gave me her number when I talked to her.
She seemed interested in my story about studying in the US.
When I contacted her, she responded well. She said she was on her way to work.

<Girl who looks like an idol going to take pictures>
An incredibly pretty girl was passing by, so I quickly walked up to her and talked.
She started walking slower and eventually agreed to have a meal with me. We exchanged intense eye contact. We didn't talk much, but she gave me her number. The girl then went in alone to take pictures.

Most of the other approaches were ignored or rejected.
Total of 11 approaches.
What did I do well? I made good eye contact, tried not to startle the girls, dressed neatly, and tried to talk slowly while following them.
What did I do wrong?
1. There were good-looking girls in pairs at Olive Young, but I avoided them despite noticing them. Due to approach anxiety, I ignored groups, missing several opportunities.
2. I need to prepare more varied conversations. My topics were too monotonous.
What will I do next time?
1. Prepare more diverse conversation topics. The more I talk, the higher the chances of meeting someone.
2. Don't be intimidated by groups. Many people feel uncomfortable in crowded places, and I need to overcome that.
3. Even if it's hot, treat it as cardio and keep going out. Walking more will help me lose weight.

 

[madspeed]

Why I write journal?

Life is short, and I want 9,10 more. I want more options.

Last year, I dated 9 through day game.

She was tall and sexy.

She was Having a rude appearance and beautiful

I dated 5 times, but I failed to bang her.

I can meet below 7 easily through app ,I can easily meet one or two women a week through app

But I want to meet more 9,10, they don't have in the app

They are usually in the real world. I approach 9,10 regularly, I will be successful.

 

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CLUB TABLE GAME
I went to a race club table in Korea.
This club is trendy. Man cannot enter without a table
Usually, only VIP can enter here. Also, ugly girls or fat cannot enter this club.
So the quality is good.
This day was a heavy rainy day.
I approach a lot of time.
But This club is hard because this club is competitive.
Recently, a promoter approached girls and brought the girls.
Also, beautiful girls promoters approach girls and bring the table.
It makes me hard. Because if I girl talk to her, instantly she rejected me.
She doesn’t listen to the opener. Maybe 95% percent girls don’t listen to my opener.
They listen to the opener based on appearance and style.
<In front of bathroom beautiful girl>
Before she enters the bathroom, I approach her, but she urgently wants to enter the bathroom. So, I didn’t talk to her too much, I got the number.
<Hot black T-shirt girl>
I brought her to my table; she was really hot. I tried to talk to her, but the speaker was noisy. She said that she could not hear my voice because of the music. So, she uses the notes in the app. Anyway, I got the number, her body was so nice.
<Chinese girl>
I talked to her, but her reaction was good. I tried to talk to them more, and I thought that I could kiss her, but her friend wanted to go to another place. her friend doesn’t want a wingman. Her friend keeps a constant eye on her. So, I got the WeChat, and she goes another place.
<Cute girl>
I brought her to the table, but she wasn’t interested in me, but I tried to talk to her.
Your concept looks newjeans(KPOP IDOL). She asked the other table relationship. I said that he was a friend of my friend. Anyway, she didn’t talk too much. She goes another place, and she didn’t give the number
< Hot girl>
She looks 9, she was cute.
I try to talk more. She was cute. I was a little nervous.
I usually talk about my single eyes because it is good for kino escalation.
Club is easily makes kino escalation.
Anyway, I tried to talk more, but she didn’t give me the number and left it.
<Drunked big boobs girls>
She had a really hot body, and when I approached her, my reaction was good.
I bring my table, but she looks tired. And she closed her eyes.
I thought that she acted drunk, I could kiss her, but I didn’t do it.
I gave the energy drink. After that, she didn’t drink it, and she left it.

<Yellow hair girl>
Before I left the club, I approached her.
She wanted to go bathroom, I brought the table, but she said that she wanted to go bathroom.
Anyway, she gave me the number, and I talked to Kakaotalk, she said that she come to my table, but she didn’t come directly. She drops by another table. I thought that she didn’t have the interest enough. I was tired, and I went back home.

<What was right>
I approached a lot of times. Maybe, I approach more than 100. It was a lot of time
<What you learned it>
If the music voice is loud, you don’t need to talk too much.
You used the note app or dancing, it Is a better choice.
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<What I am gonna do next time?>
Approach more.
You should find a better style. Summertime is hard to good style.
As soon as you lose weight, it will be a better success rate.
If approach a girl in the club, 95% girls cannot listen to my voice.
I should lose weight as soon as possible.
I should think about the talking scenario and the kino scenario.

 

[madspeed]

I went to a pool party.
Only 2 months open the pool party.
The first 2hours were messed up because I reserved the table, but receiving alcohol was very late. I almost waited 1 hour.
People were few, but after 2 hours many people came here.
For the first 2hours, it was hard to approach someone because everyone could see the approach. Also, almost all the girls wore bikinis. So, it was hard to approach a bikini girl.
The first approach was blown out, I approached two sets, but she ignored me.
<Short hair girl>
She said that she came with five friends, but she was playing alone. She said that one of her friends was an influencer. So, she was invited. Anyway, her reaction was good, and I got her number.

<Plastic surgery girl>
I approach two sets; she looks hot but looks like she has plastic surgery.
After I brought the girls, my partner wasn’t interested in my talking.
I try to tell her, but her reaction is very simple. She only answers in short.
After I talk to 3min, she wants to go to another place. I tried to get her number, but she said no.

<mixed girl>
She looks foreigner. She wore a white skirt. She looks sexy. I approached her, her reaction was good. I brought her my table. She said mixed girl. Also, before two years, she came to Korea. I think that her speaking looks foreign. Anyway, I thought that she liked me, but her friend doesn’t to talk more to my friend. I got her number, and they go another place.

<Hot girl>
I saw this girl. I remembered that one of my friends was blown out to her. She was hot. She was with her friend. I approached her, who read the face of her friend. Her friend was ok. Her reaction was good. She is working designer now. Also, her hair was very difficult to make. Her hair tied one’s hair together. She wanted to travel to America as well.
She: After you finish the pool party, what will you do?

Me: I am not sure now.

I thought that it was a good feeling, but her friends didn’t want to talk to my friend.
Anyway, I talked to her a lot of times, and I got her number
She was near my place. I couldn’t approach another girl because I liked her.
I shouldn't have cared, but I kept caring. I waste almost one hour because of her.

<Influencer>
Her body was so nice. I approached her
Me: Hi
Her: Sorry, I am busy because I am working now.
Me: So, Can I contact you later?
Her: Oh yes(smiling)
I got her number; her reaction was so good.

The hot girl and influencer were so hot. I have confidence because they were top-class at pool parties.
I almost more than five times during six months, making muscle was hard. I thought that I couldn’t change a lot, but the result was better than before.
My friends said that I was bigger than before. My muscles were improved, but I didn’t do a diet.
<Short hair hot body girl>
After the hot girl went home, I approached her, but she said that after going bathroom, she would come back to your place. I approached again; her reaction was good.
She said that she worked out hard. Almost, she learned fitness from a personal trainer for one year. She was slender, but her butt was big. She said that recently she traveled the Vietnam. She didn’t do work now. I said that we could hang out together lately, I tried to her number, but I failed it. I don’t know why she didn’t give the number. Anyway, she went to another place.
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Approach: more than 40times
Number: 6 (Answer 5)
<What was good>
I approached many times, and I try to connect with her. I didn’t focus on numbers. I try to talk more.

<What I learned>
After the hot girl, I didn’t approach other girls because I cared about her. I fear that if I am with another girl, I lose her. If I concentrate on one night stand, I should approach another girl.
Anyway, she was hot. If I wanted to get her, I needed to not care for her. It is an important lesson. Also, she wanted to eat together, but her friend didn’t want my friend. I try to focus on connection. I should think about the connection

<What I am going to next time>
I lose weight more. I quit sugar, and I should make the goal for a pool party.
Also, depending on goals, my game will be different. Going to the gym regularly. I believe that the result will be received. I need the interesting conversation pattern. You just think about it a little bit.
It was a happy experience.

 

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<POOL PARTY>

Pool party always excites me.
The line was too long. I arrived around 8:30, but the line was still long.
Even though it was the VIP line, I got in around 9 o'clock.
This was my first time getting a table at a pool party. Luckily, I saw someone I knew from a previous visit to the cabana, which made me feel a bit more comfortable.
When I arrived, there were three of us, and another person joined later. They were in good shape.
<Blonde>
Both of them were blondes. My group had extreme body and facial features.
Two people had already brought two women, making the seating arrangement awkward. I had the two women sit on one side, and I stood and talked to them.
I thought the responses were good.
Then another fit wingman came and started talking. It felt like he was slightly interested in my group.
Anyway, I eventually got my group's number, and he got an Instagram from his group.
We chatted for a while and then went into the pool for some performance or something.
Yun Sung-bin showed up. The girl seemed to really like Yun Sung-bin.
After that, she seemed to really like a muscular person from Jeximix with very low body fat. We talked a lot inside, but I wasn't sure if she had complete affection for me. She was very pretty, so I kept talking to her.
<Influencer Girl>
A girl with a great body passed by, and when I talked to her, she stopped.
Her eyes showed interest.
She did some background checks on me and gave me model answers.
She hesitated a bit before giving me her number.
Later, when I checked her Instagram and YouTube, she had an amazing body and had even won some awards as an influencer.

<Girl Who Looks Like Seo Dong-ju>
There were three girls, one about 170 cm tall and pretty. As soon as I talked to her, she said she had two more friends, so she brought them along.
Thankfully, the fit guy took care of the other two.
We kept talking, and when I tried to take them to the pool, she agreed, but the other two said they couldn't go in because they were too short (not interested).
I always try to get into the pool at pool parties (girls will never go into the pool if they're not interested, because it involves some level of physical contact).
Eventually, I persuaded them to get in, and she held onto me tightly.
This is why I love pool parties. But the problem was the other two quickly went back to their seats. One of them got bored and kept signaling to leave.
She told me I looked like someone who worked out. But she said I had muscles but also some fat.
Anyway, I sent them to the bathroom.
The problem was that my fit wingman thought my partner was okay and later tried to get her number behind my back. Then, when the three of them were leaving, he tried to follow them.
This is the downside of such setups. Since we're not regulars, there's no courtesy, and there's a lot of stealing. This guy seemed to have no concept of manners. He seemed a bit clueless.

<Pool Party Dilemma Girl>
Two weeks ago, I met a top-tier girl in Yongsan. We planned to meet next Monday, but yesterday, she asked if I went to the pool party last week. I honestly said yes, and she asked if I was going this week.
I said I wasn't sure yet, but she showed up.
Watching her have fun at another table made me feel a bit empty. When I was with the blonde, I felt her gaze.
The dilemma with pool parties is that girls come back. The problem is that after seeing them again, it's hard to meet because they don't behave decently.
Later, I tried to talk to her, but she coldly said she had to go to her friend and left.
I felt a bit empty, thinking she was the best, but seeing her with other guys made me think she was just for fun.
It seems we disappoint each other.

<Influencer Girl Who Flaked on the Date>
We were supposed to meet this Thursday, but she was standing in front of my spot. When I talked to her, she said she had some issues abroad, so she couldn't make it.
I asked why she didn't message me, and she apologized, saying she had a big problem and came back to Korea late.
She said she'd call when she got back to Korea.
We talked a bit more, and then her foreign acquaintance came, so I moved aside.
Honestly, a girl who ghosts on the day of the date and doesn't even read the messages is rude.
Although she was polite, I shouldn't expect much from her.
After 12, the drinks and alcohol ran out, and seeing my partner get her number stolen drained my energy.
After that, I just kept getting rejected and had no significant results. Even one of the good members struggled to bring people in at this hour.
It was a tough but fun day.

I talked to a few more girls, but some only gave me their Instagram. I ignored them (if they're interested, they'll never just give Instagram - my rule learned from rejections).

<What I Learned>
When you go with people you don't know, it gets very awkward if they like your partner, and it's hard to handle. Especially at pool parties, it's very ambiguous.
Who you go with is very important here. It's important to go with people with basic manners.
Filtering quickly is essential, but sometimes you can't do it quickly because of the same members.
You need to catch clear interest.
It was good to go even though it rained a bit at first.

<What I Could Have Done Better>
A bit more aggressive physical contact. It's okay to get rejected.
I think I care too much about others' opinions.
I should have tried more various things. Since I went into the pool twice, I could have tried more aggressively.
Be a bit softer. I think I was too cautious about her friends, so I couldn't try various things.

<What to Do Next Time>
If possible, go with good acquaintances. Try to reduce body fat.
Check for interest very carefully during the golden hours with really good people.
Eye contact is the most important. If you talk a bit more from there, you get the feeling.
If there's interest, it will naturally show.
Check it a bit more rigorously. If it's vague, don't take them.
If it's a cabana, start a bit faster for a quicker start.

 

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<What Happened>



Stylish Girl:

She was dressed very fashionably. The kind of girl I'd like to go on a date with at least once.

One time, a very skinny girl came along with her friend. She seemed interested initially.

I suggested getting an iced chocolate later, but she just smiled and declined.

She maintained eye contact and kept listening as I talked.

She smiled brightly during the conversation, but her friend suddenly pulled her away.

If she had shown more interest, I could have made it happen, but I could only sense a slight amount of attraction.



Girl Going Home Alone:

When I said “Excuse me,” she seemed to show some interest.

I suggested grabbing a meal together to recover from a hangover, and she smiled but replied, "Isn't it a bit early for that?"

Then I proposed having a drink together, but she laughed and turned me down. She wasn't very attractive.



Environment in Gangnam:

These days, even MDs are just waiting around to approach women.

There are also women strolling around, sizing up the guys as if they're hunting for attention.

It felt a bit disheartening seeing the guys standing around trying to hunt, and the women circling around waiting to be approached.



It's way too competitive here. Rather than approaching in such a crowded environment,

it seems like a better strategy to do day game in less saturated areas.



<What I Did Well>

- I approached more than 10 times.

- I didn’t let rejections affect me.



<What I Learned>

- If I keep approaching despite rejections, I can eventually meet someone who reacts positively.

- It's too tough in overly competitive areas. If I approach girls who are with MDs, I almost always fail.

- I need to speak louder and with more confidence.

- Don’t be afraid of failing.



<What I’ll Do Going Forward>

- Speak louder and don’t worry about rejection.

- Approach mixed sets confidently and boldly.

- Do as many approaches as possible. If I see a girl walking back and forth, approach right away.

- Dress neatly, keep hair and eyebrows well-groomed.

- Approach all girls, not just high-tier ones. Going for only high-tier targets will lead to failure.

 

[madspeed]

I chose Jamsil because it’s warm and indoors.
When I first approached someone, I think I was too flustered.
She immediately said she had a boyfriend, and I got rejected.


When I said “Excuse me,” the girl got startled.
I tried talking slowly again, but unfortunately, she said, “I’m sorry,” and left.


She was really cute and fair-skinned. I had only seen her from behind,
so I couldn’t see her face. After confirming her face, I approached her.
I said “Excuse me,” but she apologized and said she had a boyfriend.

<The tall, stylish-looking girl>
She had a small face and some kind of impressive aura.
I followed her, but when she was getting on the elevator, I noticed flowers in her bag. So,
unfortunately, I didn’t approach her and just went back.


When I said “Excuse me,” the girl couldn’t look me in the eye properly. She soon said she had a boyfriend.
A little later, I actually saw her walking arm-in-arm with her boyfriend.


She had a small face and looked tall like a model, around 168cm.
When I talked to her, she said she was a first-year in high school. She was literally a goddess.
Probably a 9 out of 10 in looks, but since she was a high school student, I had to let her go.

There was also an extremely pretty girl passing by with her mom, but I couldn’t do anything.

What did I do well? Once I set my mind on it, I tried talking to them no matter if I got rejected. There were so many places with lots of people where it’s hard to approach someone. It was even harder since I hadn’t done it in a while.
What did I do wrong? Whether it was because I was nervous or I have a fear of approaching people, I tried to get their number as quickly as possible—like I just wanted the moment to end. I should’ve talked longer. Approaching groups of two or more girls still makes me uncomfortable.
What will I do from now on? There were some girls I hesitated to approach. If that happens, I must charge forward even if I fail. I’ll try to level up my style as much as possible—pay attention to perfume, shoulder pads, and hair. I’ll try to make it more of a habit.

 

[madspeed]

The weather was chilly, so the streets of Gangnam weren’t as crowded as they were in the summer.
<Girl in white clothes (cute girl)>
I said, “Excuse me,” but when I stopped, she glanced at me and kept walking without stopping.
I wondered if I should have followed her and kept talking.
<Girl walking alone>
She was walking alone, and I saw another guy trying to talk to her but giving up. When I tried to talk to her, she seemed wary and walked away quickly.
<Girl standing and smoking>
She had a pretty good sense of style, so I approached her, but she immediately said, “I’m sorry,” and rejected me.
It seems like there’s no solution for an immediate rejection like that.
I said “Excuse me” to one more person, but got rejected right away.
In total, I tried talking to about four people.
What did I do well? Whenever I felt unsure, I just went for it.
If you keep wandering around trying to find your ideal type, you’ll never find an answer.
If you start hesitating, you just have to speak up and begin.
Even though it was really cold and I felt lazy, I still tried to go out.
I think it’s impressive that I went out despite the cold weather and not feeling like it.
What did I do wrong? Because it was cold, the girls weren’t willing to stop. If they showed any reaction at all, I should have walked with them and kept talking.
Also, my clothing style wasn’t that great.
I need to watch more YouTube or something and keep trying to dress in the coolest style possible.
It might be better if I add some perfume or shoulder pads as well.
When there was more than one girl, I couldn’t really approach them.
There were two or three sets of girls who looked nice, but because they were in a group, I hesitated and couldn’t do it.
This ultimately comes from a fear of approaching, and I need to overcome that gradually.
What will I do going forward? In the end, I need to go on a diet.
If I want better reactions when I approach someone, I need to dress as stylishly as possible, work out consistently, and try to talk to people whenever I get the chance.
I have to keep going out and starting conversations whenever possible.
Don’t make excuses and don’t hesitate.