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Hello, I've been reading the articles of the blog and wandering around the forum for 3 weeks and I finally decided to create an account and post something. The truth is, I'm not that experienced with girls, but I met a girl two days after I started following this site (so, 3 weeks ago). We talked, and I put in practice some of the things I had read here (not much tbh) and I'm pretty sure she was into me. The problem is, I have crossed with her several times (she's from my highschool) since then and I never had the courage to approach her, so now I'm affraid that if I say "hello" it will be awkward because she is now thinking that I was ignoring her and/or that I didn't liked her or something. What do you experienced fellows say, should I approach her again and try to get her number to schedule a date or should I forget about her and move to the next one? Thanks in advance :)

PS: English is not my first language, please forgive any mistakes you find in my post.
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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Gralium said:
now I'm affraid that if I say "hello" it will be awkward because she is now thinking that I was ignoring her and/or that I didn't like her or something.
You need to eliminate this way of thinking out of your mind. Don't assume she'll think it will be awkward, instead assume she's waiting for you to talk to her again. If you're interested in her then approach her. You've got nothing to lose because if you do nothing you've lost anyway.
 

blubby

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Heh, I am in the same situation, just that I have been ignoring her for three weeks.
I am working on overcoming my shyness and in the past few days I've gotten better. Additionally, as the above poster said, don't try to read too much into it. I also have adopted this mindset just recently, and it's a gigantic step forward, not having your inner voice holding you back.
 
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