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[WittyJester]

I love females; don’t get me wrong but western society has made men to feel not good enough. I get the disparity about it being risky to have sex in case of a baby but in the 21st century and your somewhat middle class/above is very little.
Women date up. Men date down.
Men have to fear that their penis doesn’t add up. Women can be relatively skinny and have unlimited abundance with having to work for it.
Men have to work to be providers.
Women have so many options that they can choose and compare between looks, social status, wealth, dick size, confidence, alpha male.
women only seem to compete for looks, sometimes status and only provide pussy.
Being feminine, does not seem to add any additional value to our lives. Yet we have to compete on various levels of value just to be good enough.
social media and tinder has made 5/10s with unlimited abudance.
HOW IS THIS FAIR?
Not a shit post but it feels unfair to me

 

[Tank]

What naive sheltered fucking existence have you lived that makes you think life and the world is supposed to be fair? There are child soldiers addicted to H all over West Africa and the Congo, and yet you're complaining about the mere fact that women can regularly get away with being entitled brats and that getting laid takes quite some effort?

 

[DoWhatWorks]

Hi @WittyJester

"I love women but..." be careful with the energy you give out... As people can pick up the underlying tone of bitterness and it can do more harm than good

Truth is girls have their fair share of struggles in a modern day society that we cannot even fathom. I suggest reading this: Hollywood loves your inferiority complex


As a man do you have any of these girl struggles?

-Keeping up to unrealistic beauty standards of very thin waist, curvy hips, slim nose but big lips, long hair, perfect skin, look young but me mature. (As a man a little aging looks distinguished and is celebrated e.g. George Clooney)
-Be great in bed but don't sleep around??? (as a guy slut shaming is less of a thing especially when younger you get a pass)
-Buying and maintaining tons of beauty products for anti-wrinkle, exfoliation skin care, make up etc.
-Fluctuating hormones where your emotions are out of control due to biology
-Physical pain every month when on your period
-Creepy guys who are annoying on social media BUT pose a real sexual assault health in real life
-Pinning down a hot and successful guy who are few and far between and don't want to settle down as they can get another you easily. While the mainstream gives you terrible advice of just "being yourself" and you're left wondering why nothing has changed...

I encourage you to keep a balanced perspective, you'll be happier and more attractive to the same women you want as a result

 

[Mondo]

It’s possible to have a completely different experience than what you’re sharing here.
I’m picky as hell and regularly date up.
I had a friend who would regularly tell girls he had a small penis, and this guy slayed like no one else.
Women usually have an abundance of crappy options, not necessarily ones they’re interested in.
I’m broke, and still date beautiful women. Sometimes they pay for me.
I love being a man, and I find femininity highly valuable.

I chose this path for myself. I’ve been depressed and clueless, but I picked myself up and created this life I love. And of course, I have my own shortcomings, I’m far from perfect or a stud.

As for competition, it’s no fun when you’re losing, but you can find ways to win. I’ve out gamed better looking men, and I’ve lost, but I’ve never lost my hunger.

something that changed the game for me was taking responsibility for everything in my life. If I didn’t like something, I thought about my influence in it and did what I could.

If you reflect on here, you might see that you could have a completely different perspective and mental model that is helpful. The one you have now isn’t serving anyone, especially not you.

 

[WittyJester]

It’s possible to have a completely different experience than what you’re sharing here.
I’m picky as hell and regularly date up.
I had a friend who would regularly tell girls he had a small penis, and this guy slayed like no one else.
Women usually have an abundance of crappy options, not necessarily ones they’re interested in.
I’m broke, and still date beautiful women. Sometimes they pay for me.
I love being a man, and I find femininity highly valuable.

I chose this path for myself. I’ve been depressed and clueless, but I picked myself and created this life I love. And of course, I have my own shortcomings, I’m far perfect or a stud.

As for competition, it’s no fun when you’re losing, but you can find ways to win. I’ve out gamed better looking men, and I’ve lost, but I’ve never lost my hunger.

something that changed the game for me was taking responsibility for everything in my life. If I didn’t like something, I thought about my influence in it and did what I could.

If you reflect on here, you might see that you could have a completely different perspective and mental model that is helpful. The one you have now isn’t serving anyone, especially not you.

Posts like this do help improve people’s confidence so thankyou. The true benefit of being a women and it’s benefits comes from being a 9-10. The true benefit of being a man is that it’s possible for a 6/10 to date a 10 but it’s not possible for a 6/10 To date a 10/10. But being a 6/10 can make you appear a 8/10 with makeup. As a lover, men are compared with other guys dicks, yet a women’s hot body to another mans hot body is relatively the same.

 

[YS.]

I don't know if you're a troll or not but women dating up basically guarantees her pool of options will go more and more limited the better of a life she gets and a better person she is and the better you get as a man your dating pool actually opens up. It's an evolutionary advantage for men. You actually have leverage to be successful.

Getting things for free is never a good thing and if you actually got things for free / relative easy (go to a hooker) you'd realize it's actually not that fun.

 

[WittyJester]

I don't know if you're a troll or not but women dating up basically guarantees her pool of options will go more and more limited the better of a life she gets and a better person she is and the better you get as a man your dating pool actually opens up. It's an evolutionary advantage for men. You actually have leverage to be successful.

Getting things for free is never a good thing and if you actually got things for free / relative easy (go to a hooker) you'd realize it's actually not that fun.

I think the summary of everything would be. Men are expected to give women pleasure, strength, attention, validation, security to prevent them from cheating etc. Yet, women basically give nothing in return besides pussy. That is what bother me the most. Not only do women reap more rewards in the sexual marketplace, they don’t even have to try as much.

 

[Mondo]

I think the summary of everything would be. Men are expected to give women pleasure, strength, attention, validation, security to prevent them from cheating etc. Yet, women basically give nothing in return besides pussy. That is what bother me the most. Not only do women reap more rewards in the sexual marketplace, they don’t even have to try as much

Are you saying this from experience or conjecture? I’ve never really had this thought or experienced this in my relationships.

Posts like this do help improve people’s confidence so thankyou.

If this helped you, great. But you need to be your own best wingman and learn how to give yourself this confidence.

I suggest you stop going down this path today. Pick up a new one, read some articles here on mindset, decide what you want and start telling yourself it’s possible for you, and start asking yourself how can I make this dream a reality.

Cut out this victim mentality. It’s not even true, and it’s only hurting you.