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Touch
When men first get into pickup, their #1 concern is “What to say.” They focus nearly 100% of their energy on verbal game. And this is understandable, because if they were super duper beautiful they could just toss a few pics up on Tinder and score all the nines, right? (I jest).
But after they pass through newbie land and gain some confidence in their verbals, they hit a plateau. Now they can talk, but they can’t seem to bust past this platonic conversation zone. Or they’re able to ramp up some sexual tension, build rapport and trust, but they’re not escalating past this quickly enough, and losing their opportunities.
This is where TOUCH comes in.
When I first discovered the power of kino, it was from this old pua who called himself Mehow. He was this goofy looking dork who liked to go “Woo hoo!” but I liked his infield videos. They were some of the first on the Internet. In one video, he demonstrated this move where he put his hands palms up, and would interlock fingers with girls. It was part of some routine which I don’t remember. But that night I went out to try this move, and fucked the first girl I tried it on. I totally forgot the routine, but the girl was super into just holding hands.
After that I gained confidence. I became much more “huggy” and “touchy”. I would grab girls by the wrist, touch their legs, stomaches, shoulders, and to my surprise, 99% of them didn’t mind at all, and actually seemed to like it. Now if I go to a party, I usually have a girl sitting on my lap within a few minutes of a good hook. It’s just natural to be very physical.
You can also be physical in daygame. Most guys don’t know this because they’ve never tried. It’s always “But what if she doesn’t like it?” Well… what if she does? You can escalate from a handshake, to a high five, a hug, a spin, a dance in the street, a piggy back ride, and a full makeout. I’ve done all of the above during daygame.
This isn’t a comprehensive guide on all things touch, just a reminder that if you’re neglecting this, it should be your main focus for at least a month of solid exploration, experimentation, and then make it part of your regular repertoire. You won’t get very far without it.
When men first get into pickup, their #1 concern is “What to say.” They focus nearly 100% of their energy on verbal game. And this is understandable, because if they were super duper beautiful they could just toss a few pics up on Tinder and score all the nines, right? (I jest).
But after they pass through newbie land and gain some confidence in their verbals, they hit a plateau. Now they can talk, but they can’t seem to bust past this platonic conversation zone. Or they’re able to ramp up some sexual tension, build rapport and trust, but they’re not escalating past this quickly enough, and losing their opportunities.
This is where TOUCH comes in.
When I first discovered the power of kino, it was from this old pua who called himself Mehow. He was this goofy looking dork who liked to go “Woo hoo!” but I liked his infield videos. They were some of the first on the Internet. In one video, he demonstrated this move where he put his hands palms up, and would interlock fingers with girls. It was part of some routine which I don’t remember. But that night I went out to try this move, and fucked the first girl I tried it on. I totally forgot the routine, but the girl was super into just holding hands.
After that I gained confidence. I became much more “huggy” and “touchy”. I would grab girls by the wrist, touch their legs, stomaches, shoulders, and to my surprise, 99% of them didn’t mind at all, and actually seemed to like it. Now if I go to a party, I usually have a girl sitting on my lap within a few minutes of a good hook. It’s just natural to be very physical.
You can also be physical in daygame. Most guys don’t know this because they’ve never tried. It’s always “But what if she doesn’t like it?” Well… what if she does? You can escalate from a handshake, to a high five, a hug, a spin, a dance in the street, a piggy back ride, and a full makeout. I’ve done all of the above during daygame.
This isn’t a comprehensive guide on all things touch, just a reminder that if you’re neglecting this, it should be your main focus for at least a month of solid exploration, experimentation, and then make it part of your regular repertoire. You won’t get very far without it.
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