Make up sex, best to leave or stay after?

[Fluxcapacitor]

If you bed a girl (fb) after she's acted up do you leave after you sleep with her to not reward her shit behaviour or do you stay to have morning sex to 'bond' to patch things up?

This Example
An fb of mine recently gave a huge shit test/negative compliance when we bumped into each other in a club. She was standing on her own, I put my hand on her hip when we were talking and she told me to get off her. I waited for her friend to come back and then left her to it.

She's text to apologise a few times, I've not acknowledged it as not to accept the apology or the incident. She's starting to chase and think we'll have make up sex. I'm in the mind frame to fuck her and then leave because I really didn't like her behaviour and she shouldn't be rewarded for it.

 

[Velasco]

She's your fb not your gf. That's why she pushed you off when you put your hand on her hip. because then she'd have to explain to her friend (who may not approve of you and your fb arrangement with her friend) who you are. Like imagine you decided to feel up your girl in front of her conservative parents. She'd react the same way.

So I'd stay to have morning sex if that's what you normally do.

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@Velasco dude! Thanks for the reply and I totally get that perspective but she was out with her friend who knows about us, seen us get together and is approving. Her friend came up to me later on in the night to apologise and "explain" she's really drunk, in a bad mood some other emotional crap, that she really likes me and please don't take it to heart. Don't let her actions there ruin how we are. I stayed cool and unfazed and told her to go back to her friend.

The worst part to this is she was clearly playing peace keeper, my fb text me when she got home to apologise for acting weird and mentioned that her friend said I was worried about her. That was not the case, I was left thinking oh great now I've got to correct a needy frame.

 

[Hiya]

@Velasco dude! Thanks for the reply and I totally get that perspective but she was out with her friend who knows about us, seen us get together and is approving. Her friend came up to me later on in the night to apologise and "explain" she's really drunk, in a bad mood some other emotional crap, that she really likes me and please don't take it to heart. Don't let her actions there ruin how we are. I stayed cool and unfazed and told her to go back to her friend.

The worst part to this is she was clearly playing peace keeper, my fb text me when she got home to apologise for acting weird and mentioned that her friend said I was worried about her. That was not the case, I was left thinking oh great now I've got to correct a needy frame.

Her friend possibly never said that, she probably is saying that as an excuse to contact you because shes scared.

I say, you just embarrassed her, think of it from her perspective, she knows your using her, she doesn't want to look like a whore infront of her friends... Yes her friend approves but come on dude? Slut defense popped up.

You've still got all the power, she's chasing, bang her and do what you'd normally do. Don't over think it, as that's when you loose them lol.

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@Hiya dude! Thanks for your perspective on this. I didn't think of it that she knows I'm "using" her. However when I was in bed with her one morning something happened and she said she'd be telling her friend about it. I'm assuming her friend knows what we're doing. She doesn't have to tell her friend we were in bed together but she's implied a few times she's told her.

You are right that I started to overthink it and that's when you do fuck up so thanks dude!