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Making more Female Friends?

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I've been thinking about a topic recently that's related to expanding your social circle: how do you go about making more friends, especially women in particular?

Just imagine how cool you would feel, walking from venue to venue as one of only a few men (or perhaps, the only one) surrounded by a large group of women? Obviously, this is huge for preselection, especially if it looks like you are having fun and they are too. In such a situation, you potentially wouldn't even care if you meet new single women while out and about-you'd have a great time anyway because you're with friends.

The next level to this would be casually sleeping with most of them, either one by one monogamously or all at once.

For now, though, I just want to hear your guys' thoughts: how does one go about building such a social circle? Is it necessary to hook up with women before making them friends?
 

Chrance

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id rather roll around a bar district alone with everyone pointing at me saying “look at this lonely clown trying to pick up chicks. What’s your opener bro?” than deal with a bunch of bitches, half of which will end up drunk, all complaining about something. I’ve gone out with two girls a bunch of times (girlfriend + her friends), and even that was a pain in the ass. Really I’d rather spend a night solo, approaching approaching than this fantasy you proposed (but thats what I do for fun anyway so I guess it’s not saying much lol). More experienced members will have to pitch in but my gut tells me avoid this situation at all costs; not worth your energy. I see bars and clubs as nothing other than a place to listen to shitty music, get drunk in public, and pickup chicks - it is literally a playground for adults
 
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I go out and do partner dancing for fun so I get to meet a lot of ladies, and some become good friends and some just acquaintances but that means you speak to lots of them and they introduce you to their friends who don't actually know you may only be acquaintances or friends in passing through different dances etc. But by knowing lots of people you get good social value even if you only know them by sight.

Most of my friends through all areas of my lift are female and I wouldn't try to sleep with them. Girls talk and you'll get a reputation for being a player and your value around them will be in the gutter.

I have slept with an occasional one when she's had something special to offer but I make sure they are from different groups of friends in different places and even then that they understand the social pressure that goes with it so best I be her secret boyfriend.

Just my opinion though.
 

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I read your field technique and I can recognize several things in it I already do although I hadn't realized it:
1. I identify social connectors that link into other circles - and I'm careful not to do any more than flirt playfully with these girls
2. I don't bridge social circles unless someone happens to be in both groups because they have a shared interest in a place or activity
3. Girls who are SC friends will often give you good info on other girls and their friends giving you excellent opportunity's and introductions to them which take a lot less work than a cold approach

One key point I wasn't aware of is that I don't avoid spending time on girls that are dead social ends - that's today's lesson for me.
 
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