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Lawliet

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Oct 8, 2015
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Hey seducer bros,

So bros, I finally passed my sticky point.

From not being able to approach
to Approaching
From not getting numbers to getting numbers
From getting numbers not going anywhere to numbers that lead to dates.
thanks to you bros, you know who you are

Now I'm stuck again.
Went on a couple dates, no idea how to run these that lead to sexual framing the interaction and leading to sex eventually.

How do you bros generally go on dates / handle them? What to talk about? How to escalate?
worse part is I don't have a car or a pad I could bring them to...
Articles or anectodal advice please :)

Help again bros?
Lawliet
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

PrettyDecent

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Mar 2, 2013
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Lawliet,

Well done, man. You've overcome the hardest barrier to entry which is reliably getting phone numbers and dates.

Now you've entered into what I'd call the "great desert" of your learning curve - you'll have oases of water in between your journey to regain your energy (starting to get laid sometimes), but for the most part, you'll be in a sort of endurance run to get to the other side of the desert: abundance. You just need to rack up a lot of experience to convert your knowledge of seduction that you've built up through articles into smooth, real-world action.

You'll want to figure out some form of logistics. Even if they're shitty logistics, the only way to reliably test whether or not what you're doing on the date is reactions or results is to try and pull her, and see if she gives you that compliance or not.

If you want to see an example of a journey through the "great desert", have a look through some of my old journals. I had no logistics either, so maybe you could draw inspiration through some of the ones I tried (which never actually worked in getting me laid, but maybe it could for you!): Nick's Journal - PrettyDecent

~Nick
 

Lawliet

Space Monkey
space monkey
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PrettyDecent said:

Hey bro, are you the same "Nick" from GC comments? The one that came up with tons of great insight and ideas such as "Scoot over here, it's lonely up there" to get her to move down? I used this a couple times and it sure helped me filter out those who are / aren't interested!
Thanks for the feedback bro, It's always great to have a pro tell me I'm heading the right way.

I thought of public washrooms in malls or public venues, but they always had people in them (huge washroom, not a single seater) ...and a camera in the doorway? so it was hard to pull girls into these..

I'll definitely check out your journal. Thanks!
Lawliet
 
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