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pks391

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Hey guys, I need your help in translating these signals which a girl is giving me.
I go to a reading room to study (its like a library) Now the problem with the place is the environment. And we all know how much the environment matters for seduction. Anyways, there is this girl who used to give me eye contact a lot and look away immediately. At first she was sitting away from me but then, due to some indirect reason and not because of me, she ended up sitting opposite me on the same desk. Now, I opened her up and she does the following:

She does give me a wide toothy smile when she speaks to me, but then she does that with other guys too.

I haven't got to the deep diving stage yet as the environment is mainly 'study and go home' so it would seem rather out of the blue to randomly bring up seductive topics.

My gaming skills are totally out of whack as I have not been able to practice since a very long time. So I really am having difficulty translating her behaviour and interest levels.

She does not speak much to me, mainly hi hello and exchange of snacks. Sometimes we make light conversation. Also she does not speak much to other guys in the library either.

I asked her for a power bank when i was out on the stair case and she asked if I wanted to bring it to her there. I refused as i did not have my phone right there with me. But that was not just compliance, but compliance from her side without me asking.

When she started off she used to dart her eyes back and forth from me a lot (Atleast that's what i noticed with my peripheral vision)

Is she interested?
 

Fuck This

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All you need to know is she is Not "NOT Interested".

Do you know her name? do you know where she lives?, do you know her phone number? Do you know what she is studying?

Get to know these things and her responses will tell you if she is interested.

Wouldn't hurt to ask her, no tell her, "I'm going to grab a coffee/tea/soda/beer when I get done here, I'd love to have you join me and tell me more about yourself." Then she can politely decline or joyfully accept.

There is no magical love at first sight.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

pks391

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Fuck This said:
All you need to know is she is Not "NOT Interested".

Do you know her name? do you know where she lives?, do you know her phone number? Do you know what she is studying?

Get to know these things and her responses will tell you if she is interested.

Wouldn't hurt to ask her, no tell her, "I'm going to grab a coffee/tea/soda/beer when I get done here, I'd love to have you join me and tell me more about yourself." Then she can politely decline or joyfully accept.

There is no magical love at first sight.

She has told me her name and where she lives and what she is studying, in fact she even asked me for some tips once.

The thing is that we are in such an environment where everyone is busy preparing for this real important exam and to ask her out in the middle of this hectic atmosphere seems a bit out of tune and not smooth
 

lostnumber

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When in doubt ask her out. I agree the environment you are in is not conducive to dating or deep diving, so get her out of that environment. Next time the two of you are sitting down together ask her to take a walk with you, dont tell her why. If she asks just say you want some company, or you want to talk with her

Then when you have her outside the study hall ask her on a date (make sure you keep walking while you do this and she is following you) Or, even better, just take her on one right then and there. Go get some ice cream or something
 

pks391

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lostnumber said:
When in doubt ask her out. I agree the environment you are in is not conducive to dating or deep diving, so get her out of that environment. Next time the two of you are sitting down together ask her to take a walk with you, dont tell her why. If she asks just say you want some company, or you want to talk with her

Then when you have her outside the study hall ask her on a date (make sure you keep walking while you do this and she is following you) Or, even better, just take her on one right then and there. Go get some ice cream or something

Lostnumber,

Thanks, I'll try that....
 
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