Mall Game Stories

[Jan]

DAY 1

DAY: Saturday, 8.15-10pm
TIME: 1 hour 45 minutes
APPROACHES: 2
NUMBERS: 1
INSTADATES: 0
LAYS: 0

VIBE/MOMENTUM: 3.5/5

SUMMARY

APPROACH 1

I approached only two girls tonight.

One was a hot 18 years old on the escalator. She said that she has a boyfriend and that she is going to meet him in an hour. I asked her, "How long have you been together?". 1 year she said. Did she really have a boyfriend? I don't think so. She was wearing a lot of make up. Would she really wear so much make up for a date with her boyfriend AFTER 1 YEAR OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP? Seems sketchy to me. Most likely she was testing me.

One interesting thing I realised about very young chicks (18-22). I have a strong boyfriend vibe to me, I very rarely match them on Tinder and if I do I have very little success. It seems to me that these young chicks are in their experimentation phase and they are afraid of boyfriend vibing guys who will try to force them to a relationship early.

Next time I approach a young chick I will try to disqualify myself as a boyfriend, and show dominant and sexy vibe early and see what happens.

APPROACH 2

This one was a bit unusual. I came to moving stairs first and she followed me. I commented on her shoes. It was a lame opener but my vibe was decent, the girl was alone and clearly attracted to me. I did 30yoc hand caressing. She held my hand for a long time, I knew it's ON. Also, she was so much into the convo with me that she didn't realise that she is standing in other people's way. I proposed we move away from the stairs, she followed. Compliance was there.

I was feeling pretty confident about this interaction so I asked her out to have a tea together. She said that she can't because she needs to do her shopping. She works a lot and doesn't have that many chances to do shopping. I proposed that I will join her which she agreed to. When we entered the first store, I realized that it wasn't such a great idea. It meant that she would stroll around, searching for clothes and I would be following her. Not a great situation to be in. Once I realised that I proposed that I let her do her shopping and I asked her to text me after she is done. She said fine. We exchanged numbers and parted ways.

I gave her a call 5 minutes before the mall close time. She didn't answer. She gave me a call an hour later. She said that her phone had a very low battery. Either way, we set up a coffee date next day. We had a cool convo over the phone. I qualified her on her sexy and feminine voice, she did the same for me. It seems like a decent lead to me. The girl is really bubbly, feminine, sexy and attracted to me. It feels like it can be a great fuck.

GOALS FOR NEXT SESSION:

I spent almost two hours in the mall and approached only 2 chicks. Even though one of these approaches will most likely bear fruits, it's not enough. I'm not on my top vibe/momentum but it's not enough. I want to make a gradual improvement. For that reason, in the next 2 hours session I'm going to go for the following metrics.

COMPLIMENTS: 3
MININUM NR OF APPROACHES: 5
APPROACH TWO-SETS: 1
APPROACH 9+: 1
APPROACH YOUNG CHICKS AND DISQUALIFY YOURSELF AS A BOYFRIEND: 1
DIFFICULT LOGISTICS SITUATION/CHASE: 1

OUT OF COMFORT ZONE SITUATIONS: 4 (difficult logistics + two-set + 9+ chick + young chick)

 

[Jan]

DAY 2

DATE: Monday,6:45-8:15pm
TIME: 1.5 hours
TRAFFIC: 4.5/6
NR OF APPROACHES: 5
APPROACHED 9+: 3
APPROACHED 8+: 2
APPROACH TWO SETS: 0
COMPLIMENTS: 2
VIBE: 3.75/5 Slightly better than last time (at least its slowly improving)
APPROACH YOUNG CHICK AND DISQUALIFY YOURSELF AS A BOYFRIEND: NO OPPORTUNITY
DIFFICULT LOGISTICS: 1
OUT OF COMFORT SITUATIONS: 0.5

SUMMARY

The best part about today was that the traffic was good and I approached only hot girls. All of them were 8+ and some were 9+. This is in line with one my main goal - to increase quality.

Surprisingly, I heard “I have a boyfriend objection 4 out of 4 times.” Two seemed legit, one girl showed me her engagement ring, another one told me that she has her wedding anniversary today. The other two, I don't know.

CONCLUSIONS:

Idea to test: direct opener doesn’t work on 9+ or my short term value is too low. Only few weeks ago I considered myselt to be a male 9, at least. These days, my vibe has deteriorated and I don't feel it anymore. Even thought I'm making some amazing improvements in my life. I guess I need to pay more attention to how amazing I am and appreciate myself more. This should bring my own perceived value back to the near heights.

Another possibility to consider: if my vibe is stronger, direct openers will work with 9+

It feels pretty bad to operate on lower vibe after some period of amazing vibe, but Im stating positive. My vibe will return. And even will get stronger. Why? Because I'm consciously working on my vibe, every day.

VIBE ANALYSIS:

- better courage but still lacking, had it better (I can approach some more, random sets just for fun, for social interaction, to see if its gonna raise my courage faster)

• low in sexiness, I was wearing bad clothes today, didn't feel sexy physically
• aggressive, value taking vibe - neediness, scarcity is still there (I started working on this this morning, but need a bit more time obviously)
• no issues with rejections at all, AWESOME!!!

OTHER

• today I got a back pain, I had to finish session early (think about it the emotional reason behind this)
• it can be strictly physical, I was sweating and there was a strong AC in the mall

GOALS FOR NEXT SESSION:

I'm pretty convinced that I can improve my courage by having many more social interactions. Short term, I'm going to make many more approaches, just for fun, to get in a better mood. More compliments, more approaches, more easy sets.

Today I wanted to approach a mother-daughter set. Another day I wanted to approach a girl with a bodybuilder dude. I skipped these. But next time I'm going to approach without expectations. I'm going to make more of these random, no expectations sets to pump up my social momentum and have more fun.

COMPLIMENTS: 5
MINIMUM NR OF APPROACHES: 10
APPROACH SETS FOR FUN: no limit
APPROACH TWO-SETS: 1
APPROACH 9+: 3 (not less than last time)
APPROACH YOUNG CHICKS AND DISQUALIFY YOURSELF AS A BOYFRIEND: 1
DIFFICULT LOGISTICS SITUATION/CHASE: 1

OUT OF COMFORT ZONE SITUATIONS: (difficult logistics/chasing + two-set + 9+ chick + young chick)

VIBE GOALS:
- more courage
- better physical appearance (better clothes) to feel physically more confident
- more fun
- less needy

 

[Jan]

DAY 3

DATE: Wednesday, 6:30-10:00pm
TIME: 3.5 hours
TRAFFIC: 4.5/6

Today, I went to the mall with special mission. I made an assumption that the best moment to approach in a mall is when a woman is leaving the mall. Therefore, I decided to check all exits in the mall and see which exit is the best in terms of traffic and my prefered demographics. I spent few hours in the mall simply waiting and observing.

Unfortunately, my assumption was invalidated. The exit I thought would be the best for me, was actually pretty mediocre for most of the time. I'm going to check this exit for the early hours tomorrow. Otherwise, I 'm going to watch a different exit with the same goal in mind.

The goal is to find the best 90-120" minutes of the evening + the best exit for my demographics, and consistently be there as many evening as I manage. I'm going to spend one more evening on this exercise, and then I'm going to validate my assumption that the best time to approach a girl is when she is about to leave the mall.

When it comes to other things. Today, I think I finally started to grasp the importance of frame control, specifially creating and strenghething your own sexual, lover frame. When I made this switch today, when I said 'bye bye' to the boyfriend frame, I saw the change in vibe pretty much immediately. I became more dominant, more self-confident, felt more sexy, women became interested again. I got approached again.

In the next few days, I'm going to learn more about frame control, design my sexual frame and use self-hypnosis to install the frame.

 

[Jan]

DAY 4

DATE: Thursday, 7.00 - 9.45pm
TIME: 2 hours 45 minutes
TRAFFIC: 4/6

COMPLIMENTS: 2
APPROACHES: 4 in the mall, 1 more in subway
APPROACH TWO-SETS: 0
APPROACH 9+: 1
APPROACH YOUNG CHICKS AND DISQUALIFY YOURSELF AS A BOYFRIEND: 1
DIFFICULT LOGISTICS SITUATION/CHASE: 0

I spent another hour analysing traffic near exits. The conculsion is that one of the exits which I have chosen is only worthy my time between 19.30 - 20.00. I didn't test this exit yet when it comes to approaches. I'm going to start doing this tomorrow.

However, I tested another exit and got unexpected results. Two out three women left the mall to directly meet their boyfriend/husband.

The fourth approach was a 21 years old chick who has a boyfriend. She agreed to join me for an instadate if we keep it on the friendly level. During the instadate I realized that she isn't exactly satisfied with her boyfriend. It was a classic example of women's hypergamy. She was probing me for provider qualities, I kept disqualifying myself, and probed her for sexual availability. I didn't see any response to sexual topics so after about 45 minutes I call it a quit. It was a pleasant conversation and I was grateful for it, as I realized that I need to warm up myself socially. I believe she also enjoyed the conversation and got something from it.

One thing which consistently comes back to me is that I either approach women who are in a relationship or I approach women who are using boyfriend excuse as a rejection strategy. Either way, I feel like my vibe is still subpar. I'm done with exits analysis and starting from tomorrow I'm going to approach big time to see if it's gonna help my vibe.

APPRECIATION:

- I have almost zero emotional reaction to rejections, I just don't feel much
- I'm glad for the feedback I got when I started testing exit approaches
- Pretty much all women were respectful even if they had bad news for me
- Nice instadate, I felt like I had good control of the threads of the conversation, I was gradually introducing topics which were tests for her. It's a very important realization for me, because in the past I was emotionally charged and were doing things automatically and often it meant doing wrong moves. I'm glad that the process is becoming more consious and under control. I guess this is another sign of me moving from intermediate to advanced level.

GOALS FOR NEXT SESSION:

I'm pretty convinced that I can improve my courage by having many more social interactions. Short term, I'm going to make many more approaches, just for fun, to get in a better mood. More compliments, more approaches, more easy sets.

COMPLIMENTS: 5
MINIMUM NR OF APPROACHES: 10
APPROACH SETS FOR FUN: no limit
APPROACH TWO-SETS: 1
APPROACH 9+: 3 (not less than last time)
APPROACH YOUNG CHICKS AND DISQUALIFY YOURSELF AS A BOYFRIEND: 1
DIFFICULT LOGISTICS SITUATION/CHASE: 1

OUT OF COMFORT ZONE SITUATIONS: (difficult logistics/chasing + two-set + 9+ chick + young chick)

VIBE GOALS:
- more courage
- more fun
- less needy

 

[Jan]

DAY 5

DATE: Thursday, 7:00 - 9:30
TIME: 2 hours and 30 minutes
TRAFFIC: 4/6

COMPLIMENTS: 1
APPROACHES: 5
APPROACH TWO-SETS: 0
APPROACH 9+: 0
APPROACH YOUNG CHICKS AND DISQUALIFY YOURSELF AS A BOYFRIEND: 2
DIFFICULT LOGISTICS SITUATION/CHASE: 0
INSTADATES: 1
LAYS: 0

All right, so this session had two stages. Stage 1: my first approach + instadate + kissing and titty licking in the changing room. Stage 2: approaching women near exit, field testing my exit hypothesis.

I'm going to write a field report about stage 1, so I will skip this one here.

STAGE 2

I was experimenting with approaching AFTER a girl has already left the mall. My assumption was that, she is not free. In other words, she won't tell me that she is busy doing shopping or something.

I approached 5 chicks in these areas and 4 were a failure. I realized that environment changes once you leave the venue. Indoors it's light and secure, outdoors become dark and insecure. There are also some weird people hanging out in front of the mall, like bums, etc.

I had a feeling that I was automatically categorized to this group. The type of reactions never happened to me inside the mall.

I'm not giving up on my exit idea just yet. I'm going to check another exit. So far, I had the best experience with the parking exit. Unfortunately, the traffic there is poor. I don't think it's a good idea to approach outside the mall. I somehow have to catch them leaving the mall, but still in the mall. Maybe a lot of shopping bags can be a good indicator.

When it comes to boyfriend disqualifier. I had plenty of chances to test these, because almost all of the women outdoors told me that they have a boyfriend. One interesting reply: Her: "Sorry, I have a boyfriend." Me: "No worries. I'm single, finished a long relationship recently, not looking for anything serious." Her: "I'm not looking for adventures, sorry."

Pretty much of all my approaches were young women, around 21-23. And I'm doing very, very poorly with them. It seems that they react badly to strong signs of affection from my side. Next time, I will try light compliment + friendly vibe to see how it's gonna work. Maybe indirect opener + some friendship like follow up.

APPRECIATION

Even though I had so many failed approaches, I still appreciate everything about this session.
- nice situation in the changing room
- I got feedback about the exit approaches and young chick, I need to incorporate feedback and try again.
- I did 6 approaches and I'm grateful for all of them.
- I'm also happy about my consistent going out, approaching and writing this journal and field reports

GOALS FOR NEXT SESSION:

Move away from weird-day-mass-approacher vibe to high-value-guy-on-the-run vibe. This worked much better in the past.

COMPLIMENTS: 2
MINIMUM NR OF APPROACHES: 10
APPROACH SETS FOR FUN: no limit
APPROACH TWO-SETS: 1
APPROACH 9+: 3 (not less than last time)
APPROACH YOUNG CHICKS INDIRECTLY WITH FRIENDLY VIBE: 2
DIFFICULT LOGISTICS SITUATION/CHASE: 1

OUT OF COMFORT ZONE SITUATIONS: (difficult logistics/chasing + two-set + 9+ chick + young chick)

VIBE GOALS:
- slow down, calibrate down
- more relaxed, less analytic/achiever
- more fun

 

[Jan]

DAY 6

DATE: Monday, 6:30 - 8:30
TIME: 2 hours
TRAFFIC: 3/6

COMPLIMENTS: 1
APPROACHES: 2
APPROACH TWO-SETS: 0
APPROACH 9+: 1
APPROACH YOUNG CHICKS AND DISQUALIFY YOURSELF AS A BOYFRIEND: 1
DIFFICULT LOGISTICS SITUATION/CHASE: 0
INSTADATES: 0
LAYS: 0

INTRO

I'm back in the mall after a long break. Hopefully I can continue this for longer as I'm pretty excited to make a massive improvement here.

There are two main goals of doing this:
- add more options to my approaching skills so I can get better access to 9+
- continue building a consistent process out of this so I can improve my remaining sticking points (sexualization during dates + 2nd gen verbals + pulling on first date)

Since, it was the first time in the mall after a long time, I was feeling little rusty. But this is fine. It will improve with time.

IMPORTANT
- during 2 hours in the mall I have seen 7 chicks from visually I consider 9+
- I would say that within 2 hours of gaming, I should be able to approach between 5-10 9+ which I consider an efficient use of my time

APPROACH CONSIDERATIONS

I usually have no problem to approach a 9+ on her own. However, most of the time, these 9+ are not in standard single sets which I'm able to approach with relative ease. Today, most of them, were in more complex sets:

1. TWO SETS - 3 chicks
2. GIRL WITH A DUDE - 2 chicks
3. FAST WALKING GIRL - 1 chick. This one is a single set but required a bit more sophisticated approach.

APPROACH SOLUTIONS TO FIELD TEST

1. TWO SETS - approach them with a compliment for both, treat them as equal. Focus on the social and emotional frame. Try to build a small three-person social circle. Take a phone number of both, contact the one I like more. GOAL: phone number exchange, be open to instadate if they suggest.
2. GIRL WITH A DUDE - this one is a tough one. I'm starting with hovering. Try to establish eye contact with a girl to see if she is attracted. If she is attracted, start talking to the guy. I'm not sure how and what, but let's experiment and see.
3. FAST WALKING GIRL - follow her to the store, and position yourself so she SEES ME FIRST. Approach when she is more stationary so I don't have to chase.

FEMALE GAZE

In this section I'm trying to look at all my interactions from female perspective.

APPROACH 1

I got the boyfriend rejection. It might have been a real boyfriend or not, I'm not sure. But I think the main problem was that I invited her for an instadate way too early. I'm thinking that the way going forward is to talk and build connection on the spot. And maybe wait for her to somehow suggest that it would be good a good idea to move it to a different location. In other words, way for her signal. I can ask her similar questions which I would ask during the date.

Also, the question is: how does she see in her imagination a high value man approaching her in a shopping centre? She would prefer to spot him first. She watches his sexy body language. Then he spots her. Then he is captivated. He approaches, greets her with a smile, tells her a compliment and want to know more about her. He tells his cold reads or ask questions, and she is qualifying herself. He qualifies her. And wants to know MORE. He wants to know her deeper, so he asks her on instadate. So basically, ONLY ask her for an instadate AFTER you've screened her, qualified her.

APPROACH 2

I approach this 18 years old in subway. I think I only said 'Hi'. She replied with 'Good morning'. LOL. Then, the second thing which came out of her mouth was - I'm 18 years old. So basically she had a strong social objection. I had this situation before several times. And I dont' know how to fix it. I need to think more about it. I guess, I need to lead - if it's fine for me, it's gonna be fine for her. Actually I was on a date with 20 years old yesterday, and she had zero problems with that.

APPRECIATION

Even though I had so many failed approaches, I still appreciate everything about this session.
- got back to the game after a while
- got my first and second approach
- the second approach, barely 18 years old in subway was awesome, gorgeous girl
- chicks are there, I will get there

GOALS FOR NEXT SESSION:

Fix your vibe - I'm the prize. I'm a high value man on the move, happened to be in a mall.

APPROACH:

PRACTICE SESSION:

- two sets
- girl with a guy - just a social vibe, a short conversation with any outcome needed
- three sets and more if it happens
- fast chick on the move

 

[Jan]

DAY 7

DATE: Tuesday, 20:00 - 22:00
TIME: 2 hours
TRAFFIC: 2/6

COMPLIMENTS: 0
APPROACHES: 1
APPROACH TWO-SETS: 0
APPROACH 9+: 1
APPROACH YOUNG CHICKS: 0
DIFFICULT LOGISTICS SITUATION/CHASE: 1
INSTADATES: 0
LAYS: 0

INTRO

In day game VIBE IS KING.

There is barely any social proof in day game so the vibe (apart from fundamentals) is critical. Coming with this realization I already started preparing my vibe by being more social than usual during late work hours. On top of that I had a very pleasant and slightly sexual conversation with one of the hiring guns in the mall.

Overall, there was very few opportunities to approach in the mall. But the truth to be told, I didn't take all the opportunities I could have taken. I was little hesitant, therefore next time I'm going to start with more warm-up approaches, compliments, easy sets, warm-up sets. I just feel like I spent too much time strolling around.

One important addition I made to the vibe during day game, is to BE LESS SERIOUS ABOUT. I decided to think less about the number of approaches, about ratings, bla bla bla and focus more on action and spontaneuty.

Speaking of spontainety, I made two spontanenous approaches, one in subway and one in a bus. These I'm really proud of, especially the second one. I'm going to keep momentum going and do more and more of these.

APPROACH 1

From these three approaches I got a decent phone number from a bimbo 8. This was a pleasant approach. She was somehow in a rush. She was on her way to meet a guy she met 2 weeks ago. She told me to not worry about him thought, as they've known each other for 2 weeks only. It was a short conversation but I was relaxed, she looked kind of eager with her body language when it comes to giving me her phone number. I got along with her dog well too, which was a good bridge for the texting ice breaker.

I'm wondering if I didn't send the message too soon thought. I sent later during the evening, probably about 2 hours after our meeting. Generally, the 2 hours gap is not bad, but she was probably with this guy at that time, so I'm not sure if it wasn't better to text her next day.

60yoc extended hand holding didn't work. My assumption was that she was afraid that the guy who she was meeting might have seen us. I'm pretty sure the attraction was there.

Anyway, I always feel awesome approaching bimbos as these chicks were my biggest fear during my early days. Seeing myself approaching them in a relaxed way, it's a great thing.

APPROACH 2

Another chick I approached was engaged. She saw me her engagement ring. She was smiling like a puppy when I told her why I approached her thought. I should have stayed a bit longer in the set for the sake of pleasant conversation with a pretty, young woman.

APPROACH 3

Last set was a young blonde in a bus. I opened her indirectly and didn't broadcast any interest during the convo. It was on purpose as she wasn't as attractive as I thought when I saw her from behind.

MAIN LEARNINGS

I think I have a good plan to practice approaching two sets (not necessarily in a mall, but in general). I'm going to get in close proximity, listen to their conversation and get involved socially in the conversation by talking about the topic they've been discussing. That's the plan going forward.

FEMALE GAZE

In this section I'm trying to look at all my interactions from female perspective.

APPRECIATION

- back in game, 1 more approach than last time, momentum is increasing.
- it was fun, pleasant
- bimbo lead

GOALS FOR NEXT SESSION (PERFORMANCE SESSION)

- warm-up sets. Continue improving the vibe with social frame.
- approach more -> TRY TO GET LAID ON THE SAME DAY
- try out your two-set idea

 

[Jan]

DAY 8

DATE: Wednesday, 20:00 - 22:00
TIME: 2 hours
TRAFFIC: 4/6

COMPLIMENTS: 1
APPROACHES: 7
APPROACH TWO-SETS: 0
APPROACH 9+: 5
APPROACH YOUNG CHICKS: 0
DIFFICULT LOGISTICS SITUATION/CHASE: 1
INSTADATES: 0
LAYS: 0

INTRO

I'm back to being in momentum when it comes to ease of approaching. I've already made great progress because I approached ONLY women who looked HOT (9+) when I saw them. When I approached and were standing just in front of them, most of them were not really 9+. Only 1 or 2 were true 9.

But it doesn't really matter. Most importantly I have gone through the resistance to approach the hottest chicks I saw. This is fucking awesome. It's awesome because it's my main goal this year. The goal is IMPROVE QUALITY. Get the hottest chicks.

Unfortunately, the approaches didn't go well. Pretty much all of them were rejections of 'I have a boyfriend' type. One chick told me that she is pregnant and has a boyfriend, so I believe this one The other ones, probably some of them also had boyfriends. Probably the hottest chicks are more likely to have boyfriends, but there was so many of them, that it seems, there is a pattern.

And it seems like I have a problem with value. Which kind of makes sense. I'm trying to get the hottest chicks so I need to be of a very high value myself. I believe that I'm on their level or higher, but I'm apparently not projecting this.

APPROACH ANALYSIS

The only one approach which seriously didn't work is when I approach a fast moving girl from sideway. It was a mistake, firstly because I don't like to walk fast. So I was chasing her. Secondly, she didn't even see me, she didn't look at me, so I had exactly the same value as any random dude. DONT' DO THIS! Instead, follow her until she enters a store. Go inside with her, start a conversation there.

GOOD THINGS

- the approach angle, tempo, and the opener were good every time (they stopped, saw me, didn't ignore, smiled)
- HUSTLER MENTALITY - the goal was to stay 2 full hours regardless of the success. And I did. The goal was to approach only the hottest and I did. The goal was to be spontaneous - if I have an idea - DO IT. And I did.
- this is the second time in the mall this week. That was the plan for this week. COMPLETED.
- the plan was to write one field report per week and I wrote two Journal entries. COMPLETED.
- I felt strong self-satisfaction with my hustling, with the efforts, with my action. WELL DONE. It's gonna get even better soon.

IMPROVEMENTS NEEDED

- VIBE - my vibe is better than it used to be (it's more social, more relaxed, more friendly). BUT, it's not high value, it's not edgy and it's not sexual. My vibe is not broadcasting enough value.
- HOOKING - I didn't hook well. I was trying to be curious about them, let them talk and qualify them but I somehow felt little to enthusiastic about it. I think it great that I was qualifying them but I was feeling like a little happy boy who got so lucky to catch this beutiful and smart girl. WHAT IS THE SIGN THAT SHE HAS HOOKED AND THAT IT'S TIME TO PROGRESS TO INSTA DATE? When she starts asking questions ABOUT ME.
- CHALLENGING - I want to experiment with being more challenging in the early phase to see if it's gonna work somehow.
- INDIRECT OPENER - my direct opener is pretty good (it works with 7 and 8s) but with higher calibre girls it's a bit too risky. I give them a short notice to decide and most of them say no. I'm thinking about experimenting with indirect openers.

GOALS FOR NEXT SESSION (PERFORMANCE SESSION)

- CARE LESS ABOUT THE RESULT OF THE INTERACTION, don't have an expected outcome, and see what happens
- VIBE IMPROVEMENT - try to be more masculine, more non-reactive, more CHALLENGING, more EDGY
- HUSTLER GOAL: 2 full hours, KEEP APPROACHING, maintain at minimum 5-7 sets per session
- during HOOKING (CURIOSITY) phase, instead of GIVING HER APPROVAL immediately, try to make a joke (challange her) about whatever she is talking about

 

[Jan]

DAY 9

DATE: Wednesday, 20:00 - 22:00
TIME: 2 hours

PLAN

This is going to be experimentation session. I have reread the last few sessions from this journal and the sessions from June. I realized that the reports/journal entries were almost identical. The same issues to fix. Therefore, if I continue doing the same thing, I should not expect different results.

Since I don't know what I should change to bring me results, I'M GOING TO EXPERIMENT:

ISSUES:

1) 'I have a boyfriend' - VALUE PROBLEM
2) Poor social frame - FEMALE GAZE - she sees me approaching her in the mall different than me
3) Average vibe - continue working on INNER GAME to improve the vibe

EXPERIMENTS:
1) 20.00 - 21.00 - CHALLENGE her, focus on making challenges. During HOOKING (CURIOSITY) phase, instead of GIVING HER APPROVAL immediately, try to make a joke (challange her) about whatever she is talking about. Maybe IF I CHALLENGE HER, it won't be necessary to go indirectly, that's the assumption. Challenge should increase my value.
2) 20.00 - 20.30 - open INDIRECTLY, focus on building some kind of social frame
3) 21.00 - 21.30 - be more OUTCOME INDEPENDENT, don't try to push the interaction towards INSTA, instead keep talking and enjoying the current interaction
4) 21.30 - 22.00 - add SEXUAL VIBE, focus on the energy, proximity, eye contact. REDUCE NICE GUY VIBE. Be more masculine, less polite, more edgy, rough.