Hey guys, quick update. Ego has been taking some hits and I ate shit today. Fundamentals seem like the biggest blocker rn.
Basic Info
Date/location: August 21, street + restaurant near college campus
Duration: 1.75 hours, 1715-1900
Goal for the Day: two direct or indirect direct daygame...
Hey guys, for anyone who doesn't know me my name is Johnny Kendhammer. I am currently 43 living in Bangkok and doing what it takes to get my dating skillset handled
I was in a 12 year marriage that ended 9 years ago (2017) and since then I have been in and out of game.
For the first few years...
Putting reps in to cut my teeth. Posting here to keep myself accountable.
Grocery Store
Used a Tony Robbins "incantation" (learned from Charlie Houpbert) to pump up confidence and get in state on the drive over. A twenty-something was sitting outside with her back to me. She was far away and I...
Here's a short one but I'd like to start getting more feedback from you guys on here. Was working out this morning and focusing on ignoring girls as part of gym pickup. (By being one of the few not staring, you stand out as higher value.) There weren't a lot of targets because it was early in...
This happened a week ago (Sunday June 7).
CONTEXT
Me: Caucasian European, 43, local
Her: European with slavic roots, ~33, local
This beauty enters my awareness as I'm seated on a bench at the lake, sending out a vocal.
OPENING
She complies nicely to my pic opener. We're wearing similar caps...
Saw a cute girl on morning commute off a side street and approached her.
Me: Hey, I just saw you passing by and I think your fashion sense is pretty good.
Her: Thanks.
Me: My name is Arnav, by the way. What’s yours?
Her: I am Betty. (shake hands)
Me: Yeah, the white and the pink scarf looks...
By popular request, I've edited together the responses I made in this thread into a full blown post:
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/direct-vs-indirect-daygame-approach.31630/#post-202158
Below you’ll find not just one, but several tactics and techniques — direct and indirect — for both...
Day Game Blueprint for Beginners
Step 1: The Opener
Best opener: Indirect
Example: asking about her clothes, the situation, or something in the environment.
This is different from a direct or paying someone a direct compliment like saying you're pretty you're beautiful.
Second best...
Hi guys,
This is something that has perplexed me for a while, and it came up again recently when another member mentioned something similar so it would be great to hear your guys' experiences on this.
I mainly approach in everyday locations i.e. street, malls, bus stops, shops etc. Every since...
These were my first day game sets after I quit a month ago because of unresponsive numbers loll. At the end of the day, the goal is absolute abundance and that's not possible without putting the work in so I decided to jump back in.
After work, I walked around a famous park trying to see if I...
I’ve been studying seduction for about 6 months now and I think I’m at a good intermediate level. I can approach most girls I want to during day game, start conversations, get number and set up a date. During night game, I’ve gotten a couple same night lays under my belt (my consistency is...
Hi there i'm looking for a wingman to go out and game with, let me know what days you guys are free and we can take it from there. whether beginner or nor we can practice and learn together.
I was getting food from a fast food spot on my college campus when I saw this girl walk past me to wait for her order. I actually noticed her shoes because I plan to get those exact shoes at some point but she was also cute so I opened with the a situational opener:
Me: “those are the <show...
Iʼve gotten dates & sex from day game before, so I donʼt think my formula is that bad. But with my current streak being 0 for 24 with a couple of # closes that probably ghosted me, Iʼm thinking I should tweak my approach for more consistent results.
Step 3ʼs duration in particular feels...
I was at my local gym playing basketball when I realized a girl was practicing (cheerleading I think) by herself. It was pretty early in the day so she was the first person I talked to that day. I also wasn’t warmed up which is why I ended up fumbling. I used a situational opener:
“Hey you’re...
Outside of college, my closing sequence for getting the number and setting up dates is something like:
Me: “You seem pretty cool, we should get a drink some time”
Her: “That sounds good!”
Me: “Cool, let me get your number so we can plan it out”
In college, i feel like i can’t use the same...
Day 2 of daygaming on campus. My strategy to preventing burning venues or reputation problems is simply approaching girls i meet while walking on campus. I also do brief "walks" around campus where I open girls i see. Today, I opened 3 girls and got contact information (snapchat/instagram) from...
it’s day 1 of officially getting back to day game. I haven’t day gamed in about 2-3 months since i got back to college so i’m a bit rusty.
Today, i focused on getting over my approach anxiety (again) so i started off too scared to make approaches (reputation scares but i go to a big enough...
i made night game my main game since moving back to college because i didn’t want to deal with reputation problems. i’ve had only two lays in a couple of weeks so far(both of which involved a serious amount of luck/timing).
Most of my interactions end up in getting phone numbers which never go...
I’m pretty decent at cold approach but i have to consciously think about approaching women, otherwise my brain just goes, “she’s bad” and i keep on moving. Whenever I realize this and try to turn back around, i feel like i’m violating the law of least effort and i sometimes get in my head...